At the recent Munich security conference, the goddess Fu Ying was very powerful.
The former deputy foreign minister, with silver hair and fluent English expression, faced with the tricky problems on the spot, his every move was visible and his logic was clear, and he responded one by one. And her humorous and dignified style adds a lot to China's diplomacy.
"Has China lost control of North Korea?"
Fu Ying smiled, saw through the mystery in the question and calmly responded: "This language is very western."
"China don't think so. We don't control any country and we don't want to be controlled. "
When an American reporter said that China "stole" the United States, she sensitively pointed out: "This word is very disrespectful."
In fact, Fu Ying's speeches have always been wonderful. Stand firm and combine rigidity with softness.
In the face of aggressive questioning from foreign media, she can always give the most beautiful answer in a humble and reasonable way.
As Fu Ying's "fierce" diplomatic performance is well known, many people turn to care about what kind of person she is in life and what role she plays in the family.
Fu Ying's husband, Hao Shiyuan, is an assistant to the president of China Academy of Social Sciences. He is a young and middle-aged expert who has made outstanding contributions at the national level and enjoys the government allowance of the State Council.
The couple are fellow villagers in Inner Mongolia. On the way to work together, although everyone is very busy, it has not weakened the warmth of the family.
When they have a little time, they will take the initiative to share housework. Sometimes Hao Shiyuan watches TV in the living room, and Fu Ying cleans clothes and rooms. The only chance to have dinner once a week is usually chef Hao Shiyuan, who can cook some ordinary meals.
In Hao Shiyuan's eyes, it is his pride that his wife has done a good job and won glory for his country, while his wife in life "has always been very gentle, caring for the family and very feminine."
This kind of marriage, people can not help but admire.
Appreciate each other and support each other. Therefore, everything you do for each other is heartfelt concern, not blind sacrifice.
With such a life partner, there will be no fire in the backyard. Without dealing with ups and downs of emotional disputes, one can concentrate on creating good results in life.
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Speaking of perfect looks, I have to mention the late Qian Zhongshu and Jiang Yang.
They are well-matched, well-known, and equally talented and moral.
The most commendable thing is that they understand each other and support each other.
/kloc-at the end of 0/942, Jiang Yang became famous for his drama "Proud", and had a good reputation before Qian Zhongshu.
When Jiang Yang learned that her husband was interested in writing novels, she took on all the housework without complaint and was willing to be a "maid under the stove" to encourage her husband to write.
Two years later, Fortress Besieged was a sensation. Qian Zhongshu only said, "This book is dedicated to her."
The affection between Qian Zhongshu and Jiang Yang is deeply rooted in mutual appreciation and affirmation.
Qian Zhongshu's praise for his wife is beyond words. "Jiang Yang's prose is better than mine." He also said, "Jiang Yang's prose is naturally good, and no one can learn it."
Jiang Yang is more proud of her husband's career. "I understand the value of Qian Zhongshu. I am willing to pay the price for the success of his research and writing career and give full play to his potential and creativity. This love is not blind, but understanding. The deeper you know, the better your feelings. Only by understanding each other can we consciously support each other. "
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Liao Yimei said in the play "Soft", "In our life, it is not uncommon to meet love and sex, but it is rare to meet understanding."
This is the true meaning of marriage.
Because of understanding, so choose to combine; Because we understand each other, we will give and understand each other.
On the basis of this understanding, love is clear, giving is willing, and sacrifice is without complaint.
You understand his needs, and he appreciates your supply. In order to repay this supply, he is willing to spend the rest of his life.
And marriage, in such quiet years, internal friction has dropped to zero.
Can be back to back, heart to heart, combined into a whole, explore outward, go to a realm of life that one can't reach.