Many girls almost scratched their hearts because of the same thing. That is: boyfriends always say that they are busy at work. What if he doesn't come to me? Especially some enterprising men, they have a strong purpose and are very focused on their work. Because in their eyes, career is always the first.
It's meaningless to ask them "I am important or my job is important". Women should always remember that requirements are not important, what matters is your value.
So how to get along with such a boy and maintain long-term emotional focus?
1, become the role he can talk about.
Since most of their life focuses on their work, you'd better be an enterprising girl. Then in his eyes, you are not only independent, but also a partner who respects his opinions.
If it is an industry that has nothing to do with him, it is really inconvenient to harass him with business consulting as an excuse. Then we can dabble in some professional knowledge of their industry in our spare time, without much, as long as we know a few commonly used and powerful terms.
2. About replying to information, someone shared some tips on replying to information.
When he is busy with work and replies to your messages for a long time, don't complain, for example, in your heart, it will always be work, and you don't love me at all. But when he sends you a message saying: I have been busy, and now I am embarrassed to reply to your message. You reply to each other in another considerate way.
In addition, during working hours, our information can be brief and cold, revealing a state that he can return or not, so as not to cause him a psychological burden. If every message you send scares him, or every time you have negative emotions, he will feel that sending messages to you is a burden, then don't send them at all!