People who love each other are cautious when they get married, but after marriage, there are still a few people who have love in their hearts.
He Kang has long been tired of his wife, although they have only been married for seven years. Now, every day I look at my wife Liu Mei's chubby figure, and I feel a twinge of regret. In the past two years, what he thinks most is why he chose such a wife in the first place and encouraged himself to divorce.
Especially after another woman, Qin Li, appeared in his life, the idea of divorce kept appearing in his mind.
He Kang's economic conditions are average, and he is unwilling to divorce and divide his property, so he has no courage to ask for a divorce. He Kang, who dared not divorce, blamed Liu Mei for all the unhappiness in her life. In his heart. If Liu Mei hadn't come out and occupied this place, he would have lived with Qin Li.
I don't know whether to say he is lucky or unlucky. Liu Mei could see that He Kang had no feelings for himself, and he was wronged, but he simply filed for divorce. Liu Mei said during the divorce that if you don't love me, I won't blame you. You will feel uncomfortable if you don't divorce, and I will feel uncomfortable. No matter who you marry in the future, it is good for your children.
In this way, Liu Mei left. He Kang felt a little uncomfortable, but he soon got excited. He can finally be with Qin Li.
Qin Li didn't care that He Kang was divorced and had children, so He Kang married Qin Li. When I first got married, two people had a good relationship, and some contradictions could be tolerated.
However, in the third year of marriage, after Qin Li became pregnant, there were more contradictions. The problem is mainly with children.
Qin Li is pregnant and doesn't want to take care of He Kang's children any more. For this reason, He Kang can't say more. However, the children are also older, and they don't like their stepmother. Now he feels that his stepmother's stomach threatens him, and he feels even worse. He often loses his temper and won't stop at home.
Qin Li wants He Kang's parents to help take care of her children and send them to her grandparents' home. Such a decision made He Kang and the children dissatisfied. He Kang thinks that Qin Li is selfish, and the children think that the stepmother will drive them away and monopolize the family.
This topic didn't stop until the children in Qin Li had a full moon, and it became a knot in their hearts.
He Kang realized Qin Li's selfishness, and Qin Li began to doubt whether he was an outsider in this family. Even if he is pregnant with a child, he is still not the mistress of a family. So two people with different ideas continued to deal with life. There are more and more contradictions with the years after marriage. At first, it was because of the children's problems. Later, almost all the big things and small feelings in the family had to quarrel.
He Kang found that Qin Li began to hide private money, constantly sending his family's money to his parents' home, and never saying hello to himself. When he asked Qin Li why, Qin Lidu plausibly said that she was filial to her parents, which was right.
However, every time Li Qin is obedient to his parents, he is generous to the generosity of others. He Kang earned the money, but his income didn't move.
After discovering Qin Li's behavior, He Kang began to control his income and no longer trusted Li Qin to manage it.
In this way, the relationship between husband and wife is becoming more and more alienated.
It was not until He Kang's father suffered from cancer and needed a lot of money for treatment that the marriage between the two sides came to an end.
He Kang planned to take out his savings and sell the house to see his father first, but Qin never agreed.
Qin Li didn't say it directly, but the implication between the lines was clear: "The old man is too old to live for a few years, so there is no need to spend so much money to see a doctor.".
Words are not so rude, but He Kang still understands that Qin Li denies people money, and even his father, Qin Li won't care.
In this way, He Kang and Qin Li filed for divorce in a rage, and they have nothing to do since then.
After Qin Li's divorce, He Kang's financial situation was even worse, and he was almost overwhelmed by the cost of his father's treatment.
At this time, he began to think of Liu Mei's kindness to himself.
If the people around her are still Liu Mei, she will never disagree with her because of money, and she will never refuse to see her father for money.
Unfortunately, things that have been regretted have happened for several years, and there is no chance of recovery.
At that moment, He Kang felt that she finally understood that love was simply an illusory bubble, and it just broke when she looked at beauty. Only marriage can be relied on, and only by truly loving your wife can you be with yourself and work hard for the happiness of both sides.
Unfortunately, He Kang woke up a little late, and now he has to bear the pressure of reality alone.
I remember someone saying that the meaning of marriage is reflected in the dark side of life. Life is stable on weekdays, and I don't feel the weight of marriage at all. Only when you encounter hardships and shocks in your life will you realize that your partner has irreplaceable significance and value to yourself. In that case, even if she can't help herself, as long as she can never give up, she will give herself the greatest courage.
Moreover, couples who really love each other, no matter how many setbacks they encounter, will choose to face side by side. This is the weight of marriage. Those so-called love and those dew love can't be compared at all.