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Since I had a baby, I really understood what "women are weak and mothers are strong". The road to raising a baby is full of hardships. Although the standard on this road is that mom and dad's two comrades walk side by side, the reality is often that dad's children's shoes become "pig teammates" as soon as they leave.

Pig teammates not only have low online rate, but also are good at "God assists". The following summarizes the four "God-assisted" moments of the child's father, which makes us feel the despair we have experienced or are experiencing now again.

1, when the child just fell asleep

Putting the baby to sleep can be said to be an event with high difficulty coefficient. Think about it, the mother who worked hard for a day was exhausted in bed, but the children around her were not sleepy for a long time, and tried their best to put the baby to sleep several times. The bedroom door creaked and her husband appeared on time. Voice "Is the baby asleep?" To wake up the baby who just entered the shallow sleep properly, Xiong Haizi woke up again in an instant, and his mother was heartbroken all over the floor!

2. When mother and son are in conflict.

In the process of getting along with children, it is natural for mothers to stumble. Once there are conflicts between parents and children, such as quarreling and cold war, perhaps both mother and child can ease their emotions and calm down for a while, and then they can make up. But often at this time, pig teammates will appear on time and ask angry children a question. Although it is also out of concern for children, his intervention makes the atmosphere between mother and child more tense, and even makes the atmosphere more tense.

3. When mothers educate their children,

In many families, mothers are involved in educating their children. For the mother herself, educating her children is also a process of continuous learning and growth. "Moistening things quietly" is the ultimate goal, but before that, verbal warnings and even uncontrollable howls are essential. But whenever a mother talks to her children seriously, the father who usually doesn't ask appears immediately. At that moment, he was the embodiment of justice, and his job was to "protect children". The child was confused by his own operation. Who should I listen to? At the same time, my mother's kind words instantly turned into air.

When the children are in a hurry.

It is said that children have ink stains, but I think the father has more ink stains than the children. Get up early for school. If it's dad's turn to send the children, it must be the morning when chickens fly and dogs jump. The children consciously packed their things and were ready to leave at any time, but just as they were about to go out, the child's father turned on the "God Help" mode again, only to see him bend down, frown, mutter "Wait for me for a while", turn around and enter WC, leaving only the child and mother messy in the cold wind at the door.

In fact, it is normal for couples to have differences because of their children's education in the family. The difference of "practice time" between them leads to their cognitive deviation. No matter who gives priority, I hope mom and dad can communicate more, instead of hating each other. After all, their common goal is to cultivate children with a strong sense of happiness, and they must all strive to achieve one thing.

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