Male blind date skills and matters needing attention

Notes on men's blind date 1. Preparation before blind date No matter who the blind date is introduced to, you should at least have a minimum understanding of each other: height, age, family, marriage experience, work, address, etc. These simplest materials, if carefully analyzed, can "guess" some of his behavior habits and personality to some extent. If you are rational, you will probably have a certain concept in your heart, and what aspects will you focus on when dating; Emotionally speaking, as long as the other person has one or two qualities you like, you will look forward to the day of blind date. If conditions permit, you can learn more about each other's lives from the side. In this way, if you know that he/she is excellent and you like him/her very much, you can only make targeted preparations to make the other party equally satisfied with you! Notes on men's blind date II. When choosing a blind date, you must be optimistic about the weather forecast, because blind date usually comes in a hurry, so you should choose a sunny day for blind date in the last few days. Because rainy days can make people feel bored and unhappy, the chance of blind date in this mood will affect the success rate. Choosing sunny weather to make people meet and talk with friends in a pleasant and comfortable mood will greatly improve the success rate. Notes on male blind date 3. Avoid asking random questions. For example, when a man comes up, he asks, do you have a car and a house? What is the salary? What do parents do? Any background? Something like that Smart girls don't ask, observe for themselves. Continue as appropriate. If it doesn't meet the requirements, say "we are not suitable" through contact. Men shouldn't ask women about their salary or anything. Asking is purely the rhythm of dying (unless you want to break up, can't find a good reason, and deliberately provoke others). Blind date tells us a lot, and the person you imagine in your mind may not be right for you. Whether male or female, as long as you meet the right one, that is the best. To put it bluntly, it's like buying home appliances, only choosing the right one, not the expensive one. Choosing a life partner is only suitable, not the best. Male blind date skills and precautions 2 1, paying attention to the image "face value is justice", this statement still has some truth. Appearance can determine whether a relationship between two people will start or not, while internal factors determine how long the relationship can last. When we meet for the first time, a neat and generous overall collocation and a clean face are necessary. Boys should remember to wear fancy clothes, especially tight pants, not too fashionable and literary. Mature and steady dressing style is suitable for most men and women. 2. Reduce small movements when speaking and consciously avoid a series of small movements. On the one hand, it makes you feel insecure, and it may also make the other person feel that you are not attentive. It is better to hold something in your hand, such as a magazine and a drink, which can increase your psychological sense of security. If you really can't control it, don't do too much, let nature take its course and let the other person know who he really is. Maybe ta just likes your truthfulness and frankness. 3. Pay attention to eye contact and interaction with each other. You should keep eye contact as much as possible, but this kind of communication should be gentle and don't stare at ta. When ta is talking, listen carefully, and then actively extend new topics according to the topic of ta, so that ta feels that you are very interested in ta. If the other person starts to share something actively, then you have a chance to succeed. 4. Give Small Gifts In the blind date program "If You Are the One", many guests will consider giving small gifts when they meet for the first time, and it is easy to leave a good impression on others. No matter what the price of the gift is, it is actually a small gift, which can also reflect your intention for this blind date. This is an extra reward. 5, take the initiative to find the "bright spot" of the topic If the other party has few topics, you should take the initiative to find a topic to mobilize the atmosphere, and don't let the whole atmosphere be awkward and cold. I don't want to talk about the same topic, but I can talk about my current job and career, as well as my future plans. Talk about your dream, and by the way, talk about your efforts for it, but don't be as modest as a diaosi without self-knowledge in the process. We should also take the initiative to discover our hobbies, and we can also learn from each other in the discussion to enhance our understanding. 6. Treat each other sincerely. Regardless of whether the blind date in front of you has the idea of continuing to develop, please treat ta sincerely and let ta see your sincerity. Tell the truth about yourself. Anyone who is willing to come out on a blind date with you will not make fun of you. If it is not suitable, you don't have to make friends reluctantly, which can be regarded as expanding your circle of friends. Moreover, not everyone is suitable for love at first sight, and it is likely to be a long-term relationship in the future. 7. You must have some manners to show your manners, especially when you meet for the first time. For example, basic ladies are preferred, be polite and take care of each other. Pay attention to your attitude when talking, and don't give the other person the feeling of being self-righteous and sexist. It is best for men to pay for the first meeting, but women can't take this behavior for granted. They can ask AA or I'll treat you next time. 8. Keeping an interactive blind date after meeting is only the first step. If you want to continue to develop with each other after meeting, of course, you should continue to follow up. The other party sent a circle of friends, praised it from time to time, and made a comment, which naturally became more familiar. Or send a WeChat chat from time to time: follow some simple principles, such as sending messages with as few questions as possible and using more declarative sentences. Don't rush for success from the beginning, don't try to upgrade your relations through the Internet, and don't talk too much nonsense in the chat process, try to be mature.