Fifty is an awkward age for men. Not old, let alone young. Without the 20-year-old spirit, 30-year-old vigor and 40-year-old self-confidence, some old-fashioned people are more and more pervasive in my heart. Men of this age, wrinkles began to deepen, bags under their eyes began to swell, their steps were not as vigorous and their thinking was not as active as before. Although I don't feel how old I am, I already feel my joints are stiff, my hands and feet are numb, my white hair is quietly increasing, and my eyes are gradually dim. I already know that I get up quietly in the morning and go out to exercise my sore bones and muscles, and secretly consult a health care doctor behind my back. Although I am very dissatisfied with the old age, I have begun to envy "it's good to be young" when I see the youthful spirit of young people. The embarrassment of 50 years old is that I don't feel old in my heart, but walking in the street, someone has started calling you uncle or grandfather. Maybe some of them really reached grandparents' generation, but you have to give your seat to the old people on the bus. The embarrassment of 50 years old is that after retirement, you have begun to quietly prepare fishing gear to go fishing in the suburbs, but there is a saying that the country will postpone retirement.
When a 50-year-old man is nostalgic, he will not only think of innocence when he was young, but also think of wildness and unruly when he was young. Perhaps, after nostalgia, there will be more sighs and bitterness, but the feeling of nostalgia is still like that cup of coffee under candlelight, which makes you want to stop and feel deeply touched. The stronger the taste, the stronger the feeling.
A 50-year-old man's career is like running millions of kilometers of car tires. Although it is still very convenient to use, it does not need to be overhauled, and it will be taken down and thrown into a corner that is no longer used. The sweat that once worked hard for his career has now cast a model that has been formed for a long time. He doesn't want to repair it, and he is too lazy to transform it. At this time, they have lost their dependence on money, fame and status in earlier years. Of course they can understand the right and wrong in the world. At the age of fifty, I will be much more open-minded and indifferent to the world like a cloud on the horizon. No disputes, more open-mindedness, less care and more easygoing.
A 50-year-old man will become more and more dependent on his family. Before that, he may only be a rest stop. However, with children and grandchildren, he realized that that home was his home after a long journey. Because he is no longer fascinated by the glory of the long river sunset and the desolation of the lonely smoke in the desert, he has begun to revel in the gentleness of his grandson.
A 50-year-old man can make a qualitative leap in his understanding of love. Romance at the age of 20, confusion at the age of 30 and restlessness at the age of 40 have all become the past. That young lover, middle-aged partner, will eventually be fixed as his wife. Lovers, wives, confidantes, and ultimately love will all end in their intimate lover's den. At this time, they will not let their hearts make a lonely trip, because they have settled their love at home! Love comes from home, love comes from home. When love and home are integrated, he knows that this life is enough! Because, his inner world has been very full, so full that he can no longer blow a trace of wind from east to west, north and south.
A 50-year-old man is full and calm. He can still exude his chic in decent clothes, but he has lost his interest in showing off in an ostentatious manner. Walking in the street, he is most concerned about the elderly couples holding hands and helping each other, because that is what he imagined his future would look like; He is also willing to tease toddlers. When he touches those chubby little faces, his eyes are full of endless warmth, because then he will think of his grandson.
Fifty years old, I have suffered a lot, and my tears have long since dried up. After spring, summer, autumn and winter, the branches are fruitful and precipitate the essence of the sun and the moon. It is the vision of a 50-year-old man to take a leisurely, peaceful and leisurely walk, watch the sunset with his lover and integrate himself into the infinitely beautiful scenery of the sunset.
Can you still dress like this when you are 50 years old? My wife always says that I dress casually and I am not pleasing to the eye, but I like it because I always quarrel when I dress.
My husband is 50 years old, and now I feel dizzy and deafening when I go to karaoke bars. Now he especially likes to stay at home quietly. His body is not as flexible as before, and both physical strength and speed are much worse than before. But my temper is much better than before, and I like to take me out wherever I go. I belong to a man who is particularly homesick.
A 50-year-old man's online chat;
I will be 50 years old in a blink of an eye, but I really didn't think about it, because my legs are all muscles, and I feel very young and in good health. My career is in the stage of power and money. Sauna, pedicure and seafood dinner are routine for me.
But what I am most proud of is my body. I insist on swimming and fitness, so I have a good figure. Physical examination indicators are normal every year.
Conquering the world and women is the pride of my life. Life is only 30,000 days, so be romantic. Just a few days ago, a beautiful young woman and I just spent three days and two nights together, and found that we were still Jiro for one night! Cool! But when I got home, I was scared. Now more than a week has passed, and I still feel very tired, as if I had collapsed. Time and tide wait for no man!
As a man, I don't want to disappoint myself in this materialistic world. I have the right to be rich. I don't need it now. Expired and invalid. Although many women make eyes at me, I still choose what I like. Women nowadays are also very strange. As soon as I seduce her, I invite her to dinner and buy her a small gift, and she will punch in with you. And it seems that she enjoys it. In fact, this is the opening of society, the opening of humanity and the liberation of the soul.
Of course, I still take care of my family. My daughter goes to work in other places, and my wife stocks at home, so there is no need to worry about the economy at home. I am also a good man at home.
I am an approachable and good leader in the unit.
Alas, a 50-year-old man still has to wear a mask to live. I won't miss anyone, I won't miss any woman, I won't crave any feelings, I will have a chance to go out and have fun, and I will arrange playing cards, drinking tea and chatting with my friends at other times.
Let's have some fun for ourselves and find something we like to do.
Men wait until they really reach the threshold of 50. I believe that he has accumulated rich knowledge and wealth in his life. As the old saying goes, "A man stands at thirty, but not confused at forty, and knows his destiny at fifty".
(The author of this article is Liu Maoxun, welcome everyone to pay more attention, thank you very much! )
When a man reaches the age of 50, his children may have almost finished their studies and made money by going to work. Most of them are even grandfathers. At this time, some people are 50 years old, at the peak of their careers, and still choose to continue their efforts. Some people give all their career and family power to their children, and with their rich work experience and social experience, they silently help their children to start businesses and make money, becoming a veritable "advisory Committee."
I am a person hovering at the threshold of 50 years old, and my career has been basically completed, leaving only two elderly parents at home to take care of. Fortunately, my old parents are over 80 years old and can take care of themselves. My main task is to urge my sons to work and make money. I dare not relax for a moment and give them a hand. I want to be honest with myself and give my son a vanguard and exemplary role.
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I am a dragon from 1964, and now I am an old man in my fifties.
Years, really is a butcher knife!
In rural areas, men in their fifties are definitely standard old people. You can lie on the kang and do nothing. Your children and grandchildren are full!
I'm afraid I'm not a guy in my fifties in the city.
Hey! Am I really an old man? Or do you like the latest word on the internet-middle-aged greasy man? Look at me when I was ten. I'm not sure if I'm ten. This is my first photo when I was a child. Anyway, I am a teenager. At that time, I lived in a particularly remote mountain village and seldom went to counties and cities. I wonder how wonderful the outside world is. I'm 20 years old, and I'm a sophomore in the provincial capital. I made a vow at the back of this photo: I'll worry about my parents first, and then I'll make my parents happy.
Now, I am old and my parents are old, but I have not broken my oath. At the age of 30, I am in rags and have a hard life. But as long as the three of us have a little leisure, we will wander around Guxiangba, and the last shadow of our youth remains on my face. At the age of forty, my face began to be filled with happiness because my family life began to improve. Although there is no Saturday and Sunday, I come early and leave late every day, but where can I gain without paying? I am 50 years old, with a wrinkled face and gray temples. The local government supports the central government, which makes me more calm when the dead mouse feels not cold.
Now, I'm over 50 years old, and I just went bankrupt. I don't care about my image anymore. Isn't there a few hairs left? Just pick them all! Come as comfortably as possible, as long as you are comfortable.
However, people are over 50 years old, and all the friends who answered this question have made a success, but I am still worried about my livelihood and life.
I stayed up almost all night last night, thinking.
What kind of variables will the situation in Northeast Asia face when you think of the Golden Specialist? How should we weigh the pros and cons? How to face the change?
When he thought of ZTE, he was pinched by Trump, wagging his tail for mercy and paying a fine of $654.38+04 billion. I have to thank Lord Long En. I have to replace the whole board of directors and accept the supervision of others. How can I be timid? !
Think about the torn war between Cui Yongyuan and the film and television circle, where will it eventually develop? Can the big names of film and television turn the war into a jade, cover their hands for the rain and turn the tide again and make waves? Can justice win in the end?
Thinking of the national team's defeat in Tokyo, Liu Wangyang sighed, the fans sighed, and the Japanese became increasingly rampant. Who is responsible for all this?
I thought the donkey was 30 years old, his career was booming, his target was full of twists and turns, and the years were pressing. What is the fate of waiting for the donkey?
It's really hard to think of Xiao Pang after retirement, for the sake of this family and for making more money, still smiling and under pressure.
Thinking of my parents getting older, my father has been having physical problems for the past two years. Can they remain as energetic and youthful as before?
Think of my unit, once an immortal legend in the industry, how did it become what it is today? I am faced with unpredictable changes at any time, so that I am in my fifties. I don't know if I can retire as scheduled and enjoy my family.
This is the inner world of me, a man in my fifties-family affairs, state affairs, what's going on in the world, worrying about everything!
What can I do when I am old? My wife has given up.
Flowers bloom and fall, clouds roll and clouds are comfortable, a man standing at thirty is not confused at forty, but has a destiny at fifty. Many people will have this kind of exultation, thinking that they have seen everything, understood everything, and are no longer confused and worried. At this moment, it is time for men to settle down. Some winners win, and those who are eliminated are out. Then the winner will appreciate respect, and the elimination will have to taste the sadness of being alone. Whether it is good or bad, you will understand the reasons for success or failure.
Moreover, the overall situation is hard to change, and the summary of victory, defeat and elimination has become valuable experience and wealth for future generations. Fifty-year-olds are calmer than forty-year-olds and funnier than sixty-year-olds Although over 50 years old, it is still a proud plum blossom. Fifty-year-old men all have the same characteristics, that is, they are particularly nostalgic and especially unyielding.
A man's foothold is his career. If his career is just a tool to earn money, or a sustenance to eat and drink mediocre, then he will live a depressed and lifeless life every day.
If the work can reflect his ability, talent and value to him, he can fully reflect and make use of his own advantages, be independent and achieve results. Then work is his spiritual pillar and sustenance.
If a man is self-motivated, his career is the most important part of his life and his proud capital.
Followed by family. Men's emphasis on family stems from their strong feelings for their lovers and children. If a 50-year-old man's wife and son are filial, then a 50-year-old man will no longer have spirit and loneliness. There is no longer the feeling of floating. A man has a warm home, a warm heart and a woman who loves him, educating his children, honoring the elderly and doing housework for him. Men will confidently go out of their homes and strive to belong to their own world. No matter how hard and tired, a 50-year-old man is willing. As long as his family is happy, all the efforts are worth it.
Fifty-year-old men also have privacy, and everyone has privacy. And 50-year-old men, their privacy is almost related to a woman.
Whether it's for love, sex, heart or something else? What, deep down, I long for a confidante or bosom friend.
A 50-year-old man's appreciation of women is not just superficial. They can see a woman's heart through her face. Gorgeous, plain, amorous feelings, self-discipline, virtuous, elegant and fragrant. All kinds of women drift by in front of their eyes, occasionally breaking their hearts, sometimes attracted by a woman, perhaps by their own fantasies. That woman became his idol. They are ambitious and want to have the woman they love, but they think and think, but they hesitate to miss an opportunity.
Because 50-year-old men still have responsibilities on their backs and morality in their chests, they are no longer young and reckless, and will not rashly announce everything.
Everything is natural, just hidden. A 50-year-old man has strong self-control and can avoid many embarrassing situations. A 50-year-old man, very proud, will be decadent when frustrated and hit. Women appreciate men's maturity and strength, warmth and kindness, because women are not as perfect as men.
A man of fifty! So spend it in helplessness and imagination! Through hard work and struggle, I have passed my destiny.
What do you think of a fifty-year-old man? Let's discuss it together! ?