Xu Zhimo once said: "At least once in one's life, one must forget oneself for one person, asking for no result, no peers, but meeting you in the most beautiful years."
Love is the most dazzling flower in the world. It is glamorous and exudes the most attractive fragrance, which makes countless people intoxicated and unwilling to extricate themselves.
But love is a magical thing after all. When it comes, it can't stop, and when it leaves, it will be silent.
The beauty of love is that the person you love loves you, and you can come together until death do us part.
The biggest regret in love is that you fell in love, came together, and finally separated because they were not suitable for each other.
This is a particularly sad thing, but many people can't stop it We all want to be with the people we love, but sometimes some things we face are always beyond our ability.
Love doesn't mean it's appropriate. After all, love can't be eaten. Inappropriate feelings can only be avoided by letting go early.
Even if they are forcibly tied together, everyone will get tired of being together after a long time. Once that good feeling no longer exists, all that remains is some bad memories. At that time, everyone will be more injured.
Yang Tao broke up with his girlfriend, which is a special pity, because it took him two years to catch up with him. Everyone thought they would be together for a long time, but I didn't expect love to be defeated by reality after all.
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Yang Tao met his girlfriend by chance. Before that, he never believed in love at first sight. In his view, love at first sight is only appearance. He won't be moved if the other person looks ugly.
But it turns out that there really is love at first sight in this world, and he met it. His girlfriend is not particularly beautiful, at best, pure, but he is recognized as a handsome guy.
Yang Tao's height1.8m. He is particularly handsome. There are always many suitors around him, but he is a man of special principles. He will never hurt someone he doesn't like, and he will never fall in love with someone he doesn't love, so he stayed single until he met his girlfriend.
The power of love is always far beyond everyone's imagination. From the moment 1 met, Yang Tao fell in love with each other deeply. In order to see his girlfriend again, he created many opportunities.
In the later time, he directly pursued it. At first, his girlfriend didn't want to accept this relationship because he was too handsome and made people feel insecure.
It is normal for a girlfriend to have such concerns. After all, Yang Tao is really excellent. The reason why my girlfriend refused may be because she felt a little inferior. After all, there are many beautiful young girls around Yang Tao. Although he doesn't like them, the existence of those girls really makes people feel pressured.
Yang Tao seems to see through his girlfriend's mind. He keeps his distance from all his friends of the opposite sex. During two years, he insisted on appearing frequently in front of his girlfriend and doing all kinds of touching things.
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People's hearts are all meat. After two years of comeback, my girlfriend was finally moved by his sincerity. They are together. That day was Yang Tao's happiest day. He invited all his friends to have dinner together and posted their photos on various social platforms.
When a man really loves a girl, he will go public. He wants everyone to know that they are together. This is the best expression of love.
But it is such a pair of lovers who parted ways after half a year of love. The breakup was put forward by Yang Tao. He used to spend so much time chasing each other, but now he wants to let go.
After being together, Yang Tao found that he and his girlfriend had some differences in consumption views. His girlfriend's family is poor, but she always spends money lavishly. Although Yang Tao has a good family, he never buys useless things.
Girlfriends earn about 4000 yuan a month, but their consumption often reaches 6000 to 7000 yuan. She pays in monthly installments. After being with Yang Tao, Yang Tao paid off all her debts.
They broke up because their girlfriend asked him to help pay the rent.
Different consumption concepts will create different life concepts. Two people with different life concepts can't live in harmony because they can't stand each other's lifestyle.
Yang Tao can't understand that his girlfriend's monthly income is already very low, but she still has to live in a high-end residential area.
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That day, Yang Tao received a phone call from his girlfriend, who said that she was about to pay the rent, but because of excessive consumption some time ago, the money on hand was not enough to pay the rent for one month.
Yang Tao scolded her a few words, saying that you shouldn't live in a high-end community if your income is not high. That's a huge expense. If you spend it, your life will only get worse.
But my girlfriend thinks that the most important thing for people is to live in the present. Anyway, as long as they enjoy it, they won't regret it.
They quarreled because of different ideas and finally broke up. However, before breaking up, Yang Tao paid a quarter of the rent for his girlfriend, which was the last thing he did for his girlfriend. From then on, they became strangers.
Someone always thinks that the two of them are making a mountain out of a molehill. People always say that it's just different ways of spending money. Why don't we adjust each other? Everyone seems to have overlooked the seriousness of this matter. Once a person's habits are formed, how can they be changed so easily?
A person's consumption view can reveal his outlook on life. Since two people's life values are completely different, naturally there is no way to accompany them for a lifetime.
Breaking up may be the best result for them. Although Yang Tao really likes his girlfriend, she is also planning for the future. He loves marriage. Since it is not suitable for two people to stop early, it is good for both of them.
If we continue to delay, girls will be hurt in the end, because girls don't earn much, but spend too much money. If this goes on, I'm afraid life will get worse and worse. If we miss the best mate selection period again, we will probably go up in smoke.
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Being in love is not the same as getting married. If you just fall in love, you may not interfere with each other, because couples can live apart like friends and only stay together when they are dating.
But what's the point of such love? Since we have decided to be together, we should plan the future together and strive to enter the marriage hall. But marriage is an important event in our life, so we should handle it carefully.
Two unsuitable people should be separated as soon as possible, which is good for each other, at least not to the point of mutual loss. Two people with different consumption views really can't live together, because such two people will have various contradictions if they stay together for a long time.
Life is real life. After marriage, everyone will face very trivial daily necessities. At that time, couples would often quarrel because of these problems. If they have the same consumption concept, they can naturally minimize the contradiction.
However, if their consumption concepts and values are completely different, the results will be somewhat different. What one party thinks is reasonable consumption is equivalent to wasting money in the eyes of the other party.
After all, we are all ordinary people, and it is common to quarrel over money. At that time, everyone will feel what real life is like.
Choosing a spouse is always an extremely important thing for everyone, so when choosing the other half, we must first examine each other's consumption view. It is really not suitable for two people with different consumption views to stop losses together in time to avoid mutual harm.