Teach children how to be kind and firm.

Three generations of gentlemen. Education is the eternal task of mankind. In recent years, with the increase of the only child, not only the society attaches great importance to education, but also every family regards the education of children as the top priority of family activities. However, education has never been effective. There are two major misunderstandings in the education of children in society: first, it is too strict with children; One is to spoil children too much.

There is a child, I don't know if he is lucky or unlucky. His parents are both educators, and his studies have always been excellent. Maybe he inherited his parents' "knowledge" cells! But at any time, I have never seen a child happy. His eyes darkened at the mention of homework. ...

Why is it that learning from excellent children and doing homework is not something he is proud of, but a shadow in his heart?

It turns out that his parents are too strict with his study. Every time he does his homework, no matter whether it is good or not, his parents will tear it up for him repeatedly. No matter how impressive the child's achievements are, the little boy who is helpless in the face of "parents give up tearing up homework" wears a pair of glasses. He can relax at school, but he is very stiff when he comes home.

It's really a cold sweat for this little boy. The little boy lived in fear for a long time, and the shadow of fear always stayed in his heart. Can his grades last forever? How long can this little boy survive in panic and depression? In parents' mind, is a boy's achievement more important than his physical and mental health? This child with good grades but unhealthy heart, under the strict guidance of his parents, is depressed except panic. It is difficult to find a pure and cheerful childlike innocence in him, and there is still a little innocent smile on his face.