How to become a mature, excellent and attractive woman

Improve women's self-cultivation and charm: to say charm, we must first improve our self-cultivation and quality; To put it simply, I think a person's temperament refers to the external expression of a person's inner self-cultivation or self-cultivation. Temperament is an unconscious exposure of the heart, not just superficial kung fu. If there is no ink mark on the chest and it is used in gorgeous clothes decoration, this person has no temperament at all, but will give others a superficial feeling. Therefore, if you want to improve your temperament and achieve outstanding temperament, you must not only dress appropriately and speak appropriately, but also constantly improve your knowledge. A person's temperament is the sum total of internal cultivation, external behavior, manners and attitude towards others. Elegant, generous and natural temperament will give people a feeling of comfort, kindness and easygoing. Temperament is not learned, but cultivated. As a woman, I can't say too much, but I should know everything. You should study more and read more books at ordinary times. (Not reading eight magazines) Learn to dance or exercise if you have nothing to do. Learn more about communication. Taste determines temperament; Temperament does have a natural influence, but it can't be changed in a short time. Under the educational background, you can try to cultivate self-confidence! A confident person will be beautiful, but he can't lose his modesty! Here is a girl's walking skill, such as holding out her chest and abdomen. Secondly, when she starts practicing, she can put two books that are not thick under her arm to ensure that her upper arm does not swing when she walks, and pay attention to her shoulders (that is indecent). If she practices more, she can take off the book under her arm, put it on her head, and put her arms on the back side of the human body seam (as far as I understand, this will make the lines of her shoulders more beautiful). Don't deliberately leave when she leaves. Temperament is also divided into many types, publicity, spirituality, charm, and nobleness that is more difficult to achieve. Temperament is basically manifested in dressing, words and deeds, and it is difficult to master every move! Some temperament is innate. If it is not born, it can only be cultivated. First of all, you should know what type you are, and then you should have your own opinions and create a perfect temperament for yourself. Temperament exudes a charm. Although makeup can change appearance, temperament still depends on internal cultivation. If you want to express your temperament with external things, it is affectation. Who says temperament is innate and cannot be cultivated? Is it like Maggie Cheung 10 years ago and 10 years later? Besides being pointed out by others, you should always remind yourself that I am the most beautiful and elegant. The most important thing is to have confidence. The beauty of a woman's temperament is the full expression of her beauty. Temperament beauty will make men ignore appearance and stay beautiful forever. A girl with a beautiful temperament, even if she is ugly, people will not say that she is ugly at all. The beauty of ignorance lies in appearance, in fact, it is difficult to print the beautiful mark on a man's heart. The former is elegant and the latter is tacky. A woman who cultivates temperament to make herself beautiful has a higher spiritual realm than a woman who beautifies herself with clothes and dresses. The former makes people live a full life, while the latter makes people carefree. And the most perfect is the combination of the two. Temperament beauty at least includes sincerity and kindness. A hypocritical and vicious woman, it is hard to imagine what she has. Almost all women are eager to attract others in character and appearance. We should have a good living environment and a good attitude. In order to cultivate good temperament. Different environments will create different people from childhood, and a person's experience, knowledge and understanding of himself will have a certain impact on temperament. Read more and think more. Temperament can't be changed in a month or two. It will take a year or two or even longer. Many people finish college, and people who haven't seen her for a long time say that she has changed. In fact, it is edified by campus life. It is always good to read more books. Another point is that you can be friends with anyone you want to be, be a gentleman and be a villain. After a long time, your temperament will naturally come out .. you have read less books, and no matter how you practice, there is still no connotation. Besides, reading more books will make your eyes brighter. After all, you can't wear makeup in your eyes. Although some girls are beautiful, they look empty and sad. Trust and care about others; Enthusiasm and concern are one of the most attractive qualities. Caring and understanding others will be rewarded in the same way. Others will be moved by this temperament. Dignified and confident. A woman with free and easy steps, full of energy and confidence can attract others the most. When you are in trouble, you should ask your friends for help; Friends will feel their importance because you ask them for help. Not only will they not despise you, but they will become bosom friends and love you more. Don't haggle over every ounce; In communication, women should be open-minded and generous, and never be narrow-minded. Don't lose your temper, haggle over every ounce, or even embarrass everyone on many occasions, which will be very annoying. Don't be conceited; Women should not think highly of themselves. In social communication, don't show impatience or look down on others because of your different temper and identity. Of course, they can't be too humble because their positions and status are inferior to others, or because they look ordinary and dress poorly. They should be natural and graceful, neither humble nor supercilious. Don't show off your cleverness; Everyone has his own self-esteem and something to be proud of. Showing off is a sign of lack of education. Of course, women are generally more thoughtful and meticulous than men. If you show your thoughtfulness and carefulness in front of that careless man, he will attach great importance to you. Don't think it's smart, it's a sign of thinking in place and a woman's delicate mind. Don't neglect the instrument; As a woman, in social occasions, we must pay attention to dignified and tidy appearance. In social activities, proper decoration and dressing are appropriate. Don't be tired and careless. Do the above points, plus the following points, your temperament will get better and better, which will naturally make your temperament beauty mature. Read the most beautiful poems; Listen to the best music; Choose the most beautiful magazine; Read the best books. On the contrary, no matter how attractive a woman is, she will become haggard because of the passage of time and trivial life. For men, it is virtually a kind of "gloom", so is every family. When a 40-year-old man makes great achievements, his demands on women are ever-changing, and it will not be too useful to teach you anything. If you want to shine, you must let go, let go of your heart and baggage, find your own job, and do your best to show your enthusiasm. Woman, only when money is independent will your personality be independent. Why do you want to please her? To improve one's self-cultivation, one must first learn to serve oneself well, love oneself, and pay attention to one's dress at ordinary times. This is in many ways. I hope you can do well, let your own person love you very much, let him worry about you, and be afraid that your beauty will drop on others. Don't be all hands and feet. Don't let the pressure of life ruin your youth. If you miss a class, you must make it up. Woman, be kind to yourself. Self-confidence is the real beauty! Nowadays, there are many girls who are not only beautiful in appearance, but also smart in mind, and also have abilities that we men are not very good at when dealing with problems. In the real society, the beauty and ugliness of girls are no longer important, but the ability is more important. And there are many women who are better than some men at work. Girls can't live without men. Now there are too many girls who take this sentence as their own truth. They are not vases. This is the charm of women. Let's talk about the charm of women first: the charm of women is not an abstract concept, but a concrete perceptual image, which can promote the emotional changes between the two sexes and make the opposite sex love happily. They radiate charming brilliance from the inside out. The feudal consciousness of more than two thousand years has shaped the traditional women in China. In the long feudal society, men were the center. Women are deeply bound by political power, religious power, clan power and husband power, and are at the bottom of society. Women are just tools, accessories and decorations for men to reproduce. Bai Juyi has a poem saying, "Life is not a woman, but others are happy for a hundred years." But today, with the development and progress of society, women's consciousness is constantly improving, and they are no longer bound by anyone. They are self-confident, calm and resolute, smart and healthy, gentle and lovely. Now, the topic of how to make yourself more attractive is gradually put on women's agenda, how to make yourself more attractive and lovely, and how to win men's hearts-it seems that these are all compulsory subjects for women. However, many women misunderstand the word charm. They often think that it is feminine to know how to dress up, cheat, coquetry, celebrate holidays and drink with customers. This is the charm of women. Something often happens to me. Let me give you an example:' There is a girl who is beautiful in appearance and fashionable in dress, but she is not elegant when she opens her mouth. When she started writing, she didn't write words. Because she has no education, others don't even like her beautiful appearance. She is like a bunch of lifeless plastic flowers. Without knowledge, a person will appear shallow and boring, uneducated and vulgar. How can it be charming? As far as I know, more than 70% of men now want their future wives to be knowledgeable, lively and lovely, gentle and considerate, and dignified in appearance. Therefore, education can make women perfect, but knowledge is the source of women's charm. Every man is eager to have a charming, kind and lovely woman. It's not their fault that men always pay attention to those beautiful women. Men always have a naive hope for these women-there is a beautiful heart under that beautiful appearance. And when they pay a sad price for this naive hope, they will find that it is the plain women who attract them and finally have unique charm. In fact, a beautiful face and a well-proportioned slim figure are just the external image of a woman, and a woman with attractive internal character will often change your initial impression of her. You are not only happy to get in touch with her, but also willing to reveal your inner secrets to her. Watching her approach, you will feel that she is getting more and more beautiful. Is it delicate flowers that make butterflies beautiful or beautiful butterflies that make flowers more delicate? Nowadays, more and more women pay attention to external dressing, while ignoring internal cultivation and knowledge supplement. Some of them don't even know what happened in the world recently. Having dinner with a bunch of men or male colleagues, talking about current affairs and the economy, suddenly changed the topic, but when it comes to romance, I'm embarrassed to interject, sitting there only blushing and drinking. But deep down, they don't want to set foot in men's world, but when they look back, they spend all their time on appearance. They don't know if it has ever occurred to them that there is still room here when youth is gone. They are undoubtedly dinner decorations now. An attractive woman is not only mature and sophisticated, but also has the ability to have meaningful conversations with others and keep calm in any social situation. Some women, sometimes out of shyness and lack of sharpening, often don't know how to communicate with others, and even have inexplicable fears. And some women who have experienced hardships in society are more elegant in practice, extremely good at socializing, and play around in all directions. In social interaction, if you need others' approval, you need others to know you and know you. I am confident to be an independent, self-respecting and capable new woman. The more you open your heart, the more calm you will be, and the misunderstandings and conflicts will be reduced. On the contrary, introversion is elusive and will become more detached. A friend complained to me that he was afraid to meet his girlfriend because she didn't like talking all day. If you guess correctly, you will be filled with joy and smile. If you are wrong, you will be angry. This situation is female. In fact, their inner world is surging, but they just can't say it, which will easily make the wedding yellow crane go away. Women should know how to tolerate others. There are many girls waiting for words now. Their great shortcomings are arrogance, pretending to be strangers and not knowing how to communicate with others. If nothing else is said here, I hope they can learn to smile. Smiling is a simple act and a wordless language. It seems to tell people in detail the feelings of "I like you" and "I feel very happy to meet you". One of my apprentices, her work performance is often better than other colleagues, not because of her particularly strong working ability, but because she always has a sweet smile on her face and always leaves a deep impression on her customers. My conclusion is that everyone is under too much social pressure in life and work, and I think meeting her can be a little relaxing. I remember, Tolstoy said, "Women are not beautiful but cute." Nothing in the world is more affordable and effective than a smile. It is natural and normal for women to associate with men in social life. Have manners, be neither humble nor supercilious, stand and sit, be open and not afraid to fight. However, we should pay attention to some misunderstandings, distinguish between public and private, and don't accept private dates of male colleagues casually; The attitude of conversation should be clear, not ambiguous, causing misunderstanding; Don't be too concerned and reckless with your superior male colleagues; Pay attention to "a bowl of water is flat". As a woman of the times, we should always pay attention to general social knowledge. Only in this way can we become popular figures in society. A woman's beauty is not attractive, and knowing how to dress is not attractive. Only when she is recognized and understood by everyone in this society, has certain common sense, self-cultivation, develops good temperament and living habits, knows and understands the dynamics of all aspects of society, and constantly improves herself, like a more and more beautiful butterfly, her charm will shine with eternal glory.