Nowadays, mobile phones have almost become a necessary tool for people. Many people's lives are increasingly inseparable from mobile phones. The basic function of mobile phone is communication. However, with the popularity of mobile phones, people are becoming more and more unfamiliar.
Take couples as an example. Many couples prefer to communicate with others frequently through the screen with their mobile phones in their hands, but have nothing to say to their partners who stay together day and night. After a long time, husband and wife, like familiar strangers, feel very close, but in fact they are getting farther and farther away.
Therefore, mobile phones have become the biggest obstacle to emotional communication.
The next story, because of the mobile phone WeChat, almost broke a relationship. Fortunately, the hero woke up in time to avoid the tragedy.
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Lao Yang, 50, and Liu Yi, 50, are husband and wife halfway. They were single for a long time after losing their original matches. With the growth of age, children want to find a partner for themselves to live with.
By chance, Lao Yang and Liu Yi met. After just a few months together, I feel ok and I plan to get married. At the beginning, the two planned to open a breakfast shop together, and when they were old, they wanted to live in peace of mind.
The idea is beautiful, but it is not the same thing to actually do it. The test of emotion also begins with these small details in real life.
To run a breakfast shop, you need to get up early every day to prepare all kinds of ingredients. Lao Yang saw Aunt Liu get up before dawn every day to make steamed buns with flour, and sold them all day, but they were not sold out. Money is not earned, but people live very hard. This kind of life lasted about a month, and Lao Yang began to flinch and persuaded Liu Yi not to open a shop.
Aunt Liu used to be a restaurant and knew the difficulty of opening a new store, but she didn't give up. When Lao Yang saw that Aunt Liu didn't agree to close the store, she started her old job-driving a taxi, thinking that she could earn some money to support her family.
Although Liu Yi is busy with the business in the store every day, she takes good care of Lao Yang. She was distressed that Lao Yang was running a taxi outside in the hot sun, so she always prepared hot meals in advance to let Lao Yang go home for dinner.
Many women want to find a man who understands her. You can have a shoulder to lean on when you are tired, and a place to talk when you are bitter. It is enough for a man to be sincere with her.
Aunt Liu is not sure when Lao Yang will go home for dinner, so she always calls Lao Yang an hour or two in advance. But Liu Yi's kindness has become Lao Yang's trouble. He hates that Aunt Liu keeps calling him, making it inconvenient for him to drive.
No matter how Lao Yang explained to Liu Yi that she should not call him while driving, the more Lao Yang said not to call, the more Liu Yi called. Gradually, because of the phone call, the two people had a lot of conflicts.
Many times, women's love for men will become trivial and nagging. She blended her care and gentleness into the details of her life. If a man can't understand her pains, conflict is inevitable.
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Later, Liu Yi discovered Lao Yang's strange behavior, that is, when he was out of the car, or when he came home in the middle of the night, he always chatted with some opposite sex on WeChat.
Out of women's intuition, Liu initially interfered with Lao Yang chatting with other women on WeChat. She always secretly uses Lao Yang's WeChat when he is not looking.
When Lao Yang found that Liu Yi had checked his mobile phone, he was very unhappy. He said to Liu Yi, "I trust you very much, so I never look at your mobile phone. I also told you my mobile phone password. But why did you check my cell phone? If two people don't even have this minimum trust, then I won't think about it this day. "
Liu Yi is also a stubborn woman. When she heard Lao Yang's words, she was also very uncomfortable. She responded: "As long as you delete those women's WeChat from your mobile phone, I will live with you. However, if you don't delete it, you should get a divorce! "
As a matter of fact, Liu and Lao Yang have always been single-minded, and never thought about doubting him. However, Lao Yang talked about WeChat abnormally. When she checked his mobile phone, she saw intimate messages sent by some women, which made her feel uncomfortable.
Seeing that Liu Yi, who has always had a good temper, filed for divorce, Lao Yang began to get nervous. Finally, in front of Liu Yi, all the opposite sex WeChat was deleted. When Liu saw Lao Yang's behavior, her anger subsided.
Since that incident, Lao Yang began to restrain his behavior, stopped having too many intimate chats with the opposite sex, and lived a down-to-earth life with Liu Yi.
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Just like Lao Yang and Liu Yi in the story, they once went through a marriage and then came together because of fate. It is not easy for such a couple to get together.
Judging from Liu Yi's behavior, she has no second thoughts about Lao Yang and belongs to the type of total devotion. After all, he is 50 years old and has experienced his own marriage. She worked hard for a happy marriage with Lao Yang. As a result, instead of living a comfortable life, I crossed a worse heart. In fact, the main problem is Lao Yang.
On the surface, Lao Yang said that he was very upset that the shops in Liu Yi could not make any money and wanted to go out and drive a taxi to help his family. But what does he think? I'm afraid only he knows.
Besides, Yang Yi told Liu Yi not to call him often, but on the other hand, she chatted with other women on WeChat. This behavior shows that Lao Yang's love for Liu Yi is somewhat hypocritical.
Between husband and wife, it is necessary to understand such a principled problem that two people who can't really understand each other can't be happy. Loyalty is the bottom line of love and marriage.
As a man, Lao Yang can't need a stable relationship, and after entering this relationship, he coveted the fragrance outside the wall. Liu Yi and Lao Yang want to live a good life, but only Liu Yi wants to live a good life, and this kind of life can't be good.
Therefore, a man's understanding of emotional loyalty should be to adhere to and stick to such a principle, first settle down his heart, and then decide whether he can love his wife wholeheartedly, so that the day can continue.
In a relationship, if you need someone to be responsible for you, then in turn, we need to be responsible for others. This is a complementary relationship.
Therefore, I want to remind those married men that there are some relationships and boundaries that need to be understood: when you have a partner, it is immoral to be too close to other members of the opposite sex. But if you don't have a partner, your behavior is your own behavior, your freedom, and there is no problem.
It seems easy to maintain the relationship between husband and wife, but it is not easy to last. Only by sticking to the loyalty to marriage and partners can feelings stand the test and happiness last for a long time.