Qingchuang Star has countless points about my growth. For me, I have to choose one or two. What I can't miss is my first acquaintance with Meng Jie, my courage, the study of the Five Rings Law and the cultivation of altruistic thinking. These three points are my decisive moment.
I stumbled and met you for the first time.
Fortunately, I met the Star of Qingchuang earlier. Of course, when I met her, it was still early, and she didn't have that name at that time.
When we first met, she gave me energy. That was the first hurdle I encountered in my previous life. Most women have encountered this hurdle, and physical problems and emotional problems are superimposed. At that time, I felt very helpless somehow.
I can clearly remember that day I was scared and helpless, and I didn't know what to do next. I rode my electric car slowly and aimlessly, and finally stopped at the jiaozi store. Don't want to go home, don't want to go to jiaozi store, then a voice came from my ear, talking about how to control time and study life efficiently. Clear words, powerful words, warm and hopeful feelings rushed out of her heart with her voice. This is the first time I have heard Sister Meng's voice.
At present, I am fascinated by brushing 3 and 4 paragraphs from the first paragraph of audio. I forgot that it was around 8 o'clock, and I was shocked to see the people in jiaozi's shop looking at themselves strangely from time to time. I went in and bought a jiaozi, wrapped it up and took it away.
In retrospect, what power is this? Just as you don't need all your strength in the swamp, you try your best to wave your arms for help, but the sound of help seems to be silenced and no one answers; At this time, a special voice came from a distance, but the words that could not answer the marginal questions made you walk into another world. But it's amazing that you stand up and look up from the mire where you are. At that time, you only had one thought, and I still had a lot of things to do. It's only 1 km from jiaozi store to home, but at that time, it's only 5 or 6 minutes by bike.
This humble episode seems simple, but this experience later taught me what to do when I encounter this kind of emotion. Don't do what? But I didn't give a clear definition of this power at that time.
In the future, whenever my body is short of electricity and there are many things to do, I will consult with the "teacher here". Bubble, you can look at Meng Jie's energy management, which may be helpful to you. I'm also because of her. I know I can walk with my other foot besides work. I study social new retail, start a business, and step into the camp of making money.
Looking back now, I learned a lot here, and I dare not say how strong I am now. As I told my boyfriend, I'm not as good as I was six years ago. Although, at that time, in the eyes of others, I had a happy family, just returned from studying in Taiwan Province Province, had a promising job, and had a good partner ... But at that time, I was angry when I met anything.
It was not until my body pulled the alarm and all the balances became unbalanced overnight that I began to think about running all the way's life, which seemed to have no personal goal, right? Later, I thought it was nothing more than throwing away my self-thinking, living aimlessly and stepping on watermelon skin.
Here, the initial learning is unconscious, not to say how powerful I am, but because I am really weak and the foundation is too weak. At that time, every knowledge about myself was precious to me. I am just a sponge. Follow the pace of large troops and learn time management, target management, efficiency management and health management; Later, I learned to start a business, became a maker, and tried to learn the results at the Qingchuang Star Dojo.
Wang Yangming said that people must practice in things; Therefore, in Qingchuang Dojo, I tried and tried, applied what I had learned, and let my skills grow in my body instead of cramming truth into my mind. So I'm not afraid of making mistakes. I became brave and grew through trial and error.
Now I am a university teacher, and I tell these to my students. I said that my teacher Alina Zhang said that daring is more important than competition, and the stability of actions leads to the stability of results ... My team head coach Xue Ping said that it is the answers to questions and actions that lead to the results. In the new media era, we should be seen, bother others and ask more questions. ......
When others see young people, they all shake their heads and say that every day is like beating chicken blood to see how long they can last. After listening, we shook our heads. How long do you think we will grow? In Maslow's hierarchy of needs theory, the highest level is self-realization. Why is it the highest level? Once you get it, your sense of pleasure and happiness is unparalleled.
Now that I think about it, I was in front of Jiaozi's shop, wondering what power it was. Now I have the answer.
(2) the courage to dare to challenge
20 16 I participated in a big project. In this process, my body appeared early warning. I have to take hormones. After breakfast, medicine and fluids every morning, I began to follow Sister Meng in the ward for 60 seconds. During this period, she relapsed many times and lived in several hospitals. It was in the hospital that I got up for 60 seconds. After being hospitalized for 28 days, she was given oral hormone after discharge. Take 10 tablets orally every week until it is reduced to 5 tablets, and reduce 1 tablet every week until it reaches zero. This is my daily life.
In the process, I was thinking, why should I reduce pills at such a frequency? I think this is the same reason that I started training to get up early. I can't do it overnight. As soon as I arrived, I was attacked by fire and my body was overwhelmed. We must adopt a scientific attitude, increase slowly and decrease slowly. Practice the habit of getting up early with tactics that the body is unaware of.
With this rhythm of life, I began to observe the details of life and found that everything in life was following a natural rhythm. There are patients with the same illness living in that ward, and I find out how I can have so much energy and accomplish so many things every day.
After a year, I slowly recovered, but I have to admit that I have become a chronic patient. If you don't pay attention, you will enter this cycle again. Later, I got an internship in a central enterprise and became their employee after passing. Through the interview, I received a short message to enter the next round of assessment. That night, I plan to walk from home to the company, a few kilometers, which is estimated to be possible with my current energy. That night, halfway through, I began to feel sick and I went home. The next day, I naturally didn't go to the second round of assessment.
During my training in Dali, I walked along the river that morning. I suddenly got a call from this company and asked if I had any idea of working in this company. I was very excited at that time, but I was still worried that my body could not bear the high pressure. At that time, I didn't know that an idea came into my mind, and it was more important to dare than to meet. So, I agreed. Some beliefs will really guide you, especially when you stay at the bottom. Direction and courage are really important. Although I am slow, I want to say that speed is not important, but direction is more important. If I missed it at that time, it was really a mistake for several years or even a lifetime.
So, I may not be very stable now, but when no one is around, I still smile and feel how lucky I am.
(3) With the gradual persistence, the compound interest generated is more valuable.
In my previous job, in the legal department of the finance company, I can feel how they control risks through financial and legal risk control means. Closed loop is a word they often say. During the study of Qingchuang Star, I learned how to make your study effective. The five-ring method is a closed loop in the whole learning process.
What five rings do you mean by learning the Five Rings Method? Learn to think and teach victory. What new knowledge does learning mean for you? Thinking refers to raising your level and depth of thinking by asking questions. Form reflection in the process of doing, stop iteration, and achieve your own transcendence again and again; The highest standard of learning is teaching; Winning is to achieve results through learning.
The first time I seriously tried to learn the five-ring method was after taking the course of "High Emotional Intelligence Leadership" after class. I was really outspoken at that time, but when this method went through the second and third rounds, I began to find that the effect was amazing. Not only the people who listen gain a lot, but also the people who speak can understand the knowledge points more thoroughly in the process of speaking.
A lot of card points were broken. Why do you say that? You need to digest these contents before you are ready to share them. First, if you agree with each other, you should ask yourself why you agree. Can there be relevant theories to prove it, and can you find some practical cases to prove it? Second, if you don't agree, ask yourself why you don't agree, and find many theories and cases to prove it. Third, how to apply these theories? How are you going to realize it? This is actually preparing for the next step.
Whenever I open the sharing platform, I know that I am ready to share my internalized information with my partner. The process of speaking is not the end of learning, but a new starting point for me. I am iterating over knowledge and smoothing out blind spots.
When I received a link from a maker who was willing to pay to listen to my share, I thought I was getting close to the winning node. Of course, I know I'm still green, but I can really feel my change.
Now, I often tell my students about the rules of the lotus pond. Every day, the number of lotus flowers in a pond is twice that of the previous day. In the first 29 days, the lotus in the pond was only half open. This is the most people who give up, but the last day is the fastest, equivalent to the previous 29 days. Nothing is difficult in the world if you learn like this. Only by persisting in not giving up and accumulating perseverance can we wait until the final accumulation and get good results.
Every time I receive an assignment from my classmates according to the teacher's instructions, I know that it won't be long before they know the teacher's intention that day. Just like I told them that my teacher taught me this, I used it with good results and taught it to you.
(d) altruistic thoughts that you need to be aware of.
In the process of obtaining the "online learning service teacher" three certificates, take the initiative to sign up for the publicity Committee. In fact, when I signed up, I didn't know. I am introverted and not good at dealing with people. The role I want to participate in is to deal with students every day.
Every day, we should learn the class content of the day in advance, refine the key points and golden sentences, and organize them into a 20-second verbatim draft. The next morning, I need to turn the manuscript prepared yesterday into audio, and then make a small video to release the new lesson content that students need to learn through the class group work that day. Of course, I was in a hurry at first, but with the help of my partner, I passed the initial hectic period smoothly.
During the process, all class committees responded to the questions in the group to solve the problems encountered by the students. All this is done in an orderly way, thanks to the teaching work of scholars.
At the end of the course, at the stage of preparing for review, I drew the content and closed-book form of the course system with my mind map according to the materials I studied. After the end, according to the knowledge points of the open book, the whole tour guide map was improved by checking and filling the gaps. I shared the guide map with the students in need. They said that when they saw this map, the outline of the whole stadium appeared in their minds. Until now, I still have this guide map.
In this process, I can deeply understand the strength of the team. I found that, as a class committee, it is not a great feat for us to step forward unconsciously when other class committees need help, but when we need help, you are a teammate worthy of entrusting. Through this experience, I found that at the end of the camp, we gathered as comrades-in-arms
This month means a lot to me.
For a whole month, it was not so much my learning process as my participation in community operation. I understand what altruism is and what team strength is. These zeros and zeros will always come together, and there will be an order of magnitude improvement on my growth path.
Seeing this, I think you will be attracted by the friendship I described. But I want to say, in the process of providing mutual learning service, won't students be moved by the altruistic spirit of the class Committee and disciples? Won't you get a peer learning experience in the process of getting a timely reply to every appeal?
Kazuo inamori said that in order to make life happier and better managed, I hope everyone can do more good deeds and do more things that are beneficial to others. On the platform of Qingchuang Star, when I first came into contact with altruistic thinking, I was still very outspoken, and I also said that I would do charity business and not make long-term remarks. Now I understand that what I said was actually half a bottle of water, and I didn't really understand the essence.
Kindness is like water. If you start with kindness, your kindness will eventually come back to you.
(5) Write it at the end.
Recently, because of the epidemic, the school launched online teaching. I was lecturing in the dormitory, and a teacher was very surprised when she heard my lecture. She thinks my ideas are very different. I asked, would you like this kind of teaching? Before she could answer me, I said that when I was waiting for someone to open the door on the college floor of the office building, I was attracted by a sentence on the wall of party member Learning Garden, "Any narcissism will fall into a narrow world."
I am an introverted person, and I am not good at making friends with others. Also began to share their own growth, and how to overcome difficulties, step by step with the headquarters and team, iterative growth. Seeing this sentence, I can't help but think of my own changes. In the process of communicating with this teacher, I talked about my study in Qingchuang and my online business.
I have my own accounts on various self-media platforms, and I will publish the books and related opinions I read according to my own positioning, so as to drain from the public domain and attract people with the same frequency. When your influence is enhanced, you can share your study and life day after day, be seen by people on the same frequency, and do your best to be altruistic, and you will be rewarded. Both the platform and your users.
When the teacher learned about it, he thought it was amazing to make money like this? I said yes, in addition to achieving the teaching objectives, I want to tell students more about their thinking beyond their cognition. I feel that I am a window to them, knowing that I can still think so. I said, I can't force them to do this. As a teacher, I use my experience to help them understand the border, let them see more diverse cultures within the border and increase their cognition.
I still remember my fragile scene. Of course, I'm not talking about my external body shape. What I want to describe is my mood at that time. Can't stand any negative information, one blow at a time. Now, I will remind myself to think twice before you act, and don't be kidnapped by emotions. When you encounter problems, you should either think about the solutions yourself and try them one by one; Either learn from others and get help from others; Either ask yourself questions, and ask three questions to dig deep into the essence of the problem.
Sister Meng taught us to make decisions based on policies, business models and human nature. When I have my own decision-making mode, I no longer decide what I should do through others. At the Star of Youth Creation, our mission is to help young people grow up successfully and use growth to drive growth. Facing the team, we met in Tencent to talk about gains and changes, so as to illuminate others. In the face of every maker, the old maker takes the newcomers one-on-one, and after listening and practicing the growth process, follows up the feelings of the students and newcomers.
All of the above, passers-by look cool and inconspicuous, but all the makers created by Qingchuang will get the message. Because these let us have a decisive moment, we took a footprint with our lives.
I joined the team early and felt that my starting point was ok. I had a period of stagnation and confusion, and I thought about giving up. Every time you bite your teeth, there will always be a reward signal. When a maker who just joined the Star of Qingchuang communicates with me, I will share my growing feelings with her according to her demands, and I will always be thanked. Adults can achieve their goals, which is our value concept.
The mission of Qingchuang Star is to help 1 100 million teenagers grow up successfully.
Just like our vision, young people are strong and the country is strong. Being in this generation, witnessing the great rejuvenation of the country and participating in it have an infinite sense of mission. Gratitude.