When Wang De was in his thirties, he first really felt that he was facing a midlife crisis. A series of blows followed. First, his wife was ill, and finally he spent money to cure the disease. His unit was depressed and he was laid off.
When Wang Degang lost his job, the whole person was particularly uncomfortable. He wants to pay back the rent, water, electricity and mortgage at home. His wife had a serious illness and was recuperating at home. She can't do heavy work. There are two children at home who are in junior high school and need to spend money. For months, money flowed out like running water, but it didn't come in at all. Looking at the figures on the deposit, Wang De was so anxious that his hair turned white and looked around.
In his most difficult time, his parents-in-law came to him. Mother-in-law said, "We know you are in trouble. I will give you a pension every month except a few hundred dollars for living expenses. If you can't find a job, you can start your own business It is better to rely on yourself than to bite your teeth. "
Wang De thinks his father-in-law is right. From that day on, he began to prepare for starting a business. He started his old job, started a logistics company, found a good market, found a good venue and found good contacts. He is short of funds. Just when he was at his wit's end, his father-in-law heard that he was going to do business. Without saying anything, he sold all his possessions and the house in his hometown, raised 300 thousand for him and moved in to help them.
Mother-in-law told Wang De: "Son-in-law, you are laid off. I will sell a house to help you start a business of 300,000 yuan." Wang De received the money and was moved to tears. He said to his mother-in-law, "Mother-in-law, you are my mother."
It's hard to start a business at first. Wang De and his wife worked in the dark early in the morning, leaving everything at home to help their parents-in-law. They get up early every day, buy food and cook, do housework and send their children to and from school, making the whole family warm and simple, which makes Wang De feel particularly warm.
Time flies, Wang De's business is getting better and better, and the logistics store he opened is getting bigger and bigger. Business is good, and after he has money, he still remembers to be grateful. His parents-in-law and parents are old, and he takes four old people as his parents and provides for their old age.
My mother-in-law always has cramps all over her body, so she went to the hospital for examination and got brain atrophy. This disease is difficult to treat and it is difficult to take care of yourself. Sometimes she eats when her hands can't even move chopsticks, and her son-in-law cooks and feeds her mother-in-law bite by bite.
Not only that, he also feeds, bathes and sends water and medicine to four old people every day. Old people sometimes have a bad appetite. Retired Wang De ran around the vegetable market, trying his best to make some delicious dishes and fish soup so that the old people could eat more.
Especially in winter, when the weather gets cold, Wang De takes the clothes of the old people to the heater to bake and put them on every morning. Every summer when the weather is particularly hot, Wang De will adjust the temperature of the room and air conditioner just right, and even squeeze soybean milk and make milk for the old people to drink. ...
Under the careful care of Wang De, the son-in-law, the four old people lived happily in their later years, and their children gradually grew up and got married. Under the influence of good family style, they are also very filial to the elderly. Every weekend, they always pack their bags and go home to visit the elderly, chat with them, sit together and watch TV, listen to songs and play mahjong. This is the real family.
Emotional comments
Filial piety has never been a particularly difficult thing, as long as we show enough patience, take care of our parents like girlfriends, like lovers, like children, take care of the elderly as the treasure in our hearts, take good care of them, accompany them well, and let them spend their twilight years safely.
As the saying goes, the old man smiles on his face and his children are filial. As children, they should correct their ideas. Filial piety to the elderly has always been a happy thing, not a very troublesome thing. Only by taking care of the elderly in a state of enjoyment, satisfaction and happiness can we get spiritual feedback, fill our hearts with satisfaction and make our lives full of regrets.