1, simply communicate with my mother by phone.
My boyfriend and my mother have agreed to meet us. So the first step is to introduce my mother, then pull her into your friends group and give him a multiple-choice question. Let's talk about our communication first. Is it suitable? Does he behave well in his work and life? In short, we need to talk about what is good for you first, and then introduce that we like each other very much. After the introduction, you can always ask my mother for advice if there are any problems between us.
2, take the initiative to introduce a boyfriend
If mom doesn't want to introduce you, just say so and let mom introduce you to your boyfriend. If mom doesn't want to introduce you, first see if they can accept you, and then tell your mom, "This is my boyfriend, and both of your families like him very much. If you like me, just introduce him directly. " Of course mom will agree with you to do so. If you say to your mother, "This is my boyfriend, I'll introduce you to your mother, and I'll introduce you to your mother directly …" Your mother will be very happy! So you introduce your boyfriend to your mother! In fact, here is a special note: the introduction object does not need to deliberately let the mother know who this person is, just for the convenience of communication. This is just your own idea. If you encounter other family conflicts, you can ask your mother directly!
3. Take the initiative to find your mother to introduce your boyfriend.
I didn't ask my mother to introduce me this time. She thought we were asking our parents to introduce us. My mother will definitely ask my boyfriend if he has a boyfriend. Then at this time, we need to take the initiative to tell my mother about our boyfriend and make an introduction, which can reassure her. We don't have to worry too much about having a boyfriend. Mothers will trust us more, and we don't have to worry about finding a boyfriend.
Take the initiative to tell his mother something about him.
How he studies, how he posts many photos in his circle of friends, and what hobbies he has are all important. If you don't know what kind of person he is, you should know his circle of friends first, and then chat with friends. If you are happy with him and he is happy, then mom will be happy, so that after you introduce your boyfriend, mom will find you attractive. You must really like such a person. How else would mom introduce you? After introducing your boyfriend, you can also talk to your girlfriend on the phone about what her boyfriend is doing recently to see if there is anything you don't understand. Is there anything you don't understand?
5. Invite my mother in various ways.
In fact, as we all know, my boyfriend and I are both independent people, and I support everything he does. May I invite him to my home? Can my boyfriend invite his mother to my house when he comes back? -If possible, we will invite his mother to visit us. I can use my boyfriend to send him a message when he is at the party and invite his mother to be a guest at home. I can also use my boyfriend to send me a message and invite my mother to help at home when he does housework. Although he is very busy, if I invite his mother like this, I don't have to worry that he will think I don't pay enough attention to him, and my mother won't think you are interesting. Do my boyfriend and I usually eat, chat and live together? -