1. The state that boys just broke up for a week.
If you break up, this relationship is a subjective desire of boys to break up. That just broke up, his state is to completely release himself. You know that feeling, like a bird trapped in a cage, trapped for a long time, very eager to be outside. You have been wanting to see the outside world every day, when the cage suddenly opened.
What would it feel like? I am free from now on, I am born again, I want to do what I want, no one looks for me, no one cares about me. Yes, and no girlfriend bothers me! Because usually the reason why boys want to break up is because in this relationship. It is too badly controlled, and there are still many unmet needs.
In addition, a large part is because two people have bad feelings and can't understand each other "at that point". Boys often say in their parting words with girls that I have no feelings for you. I have no feelings for you. The feeling and feeling here is nothing more than freshness. There are two people who can't grow and progress together, and the other person can't understand this boy.
This breakup is a kind of liberation. I can do all my repressed needs, play games day and night, and drink with my buddies and friends all night. You can do all the things that your girlfriend used to do, and those things that he is not allowed to do. There are even some boys, because he thinks he is single at this time, and he begins to flirt with other little girls. In addition, there are those who have been depressed for so long and want to change places for a change of air and jobs, or travel to another place, go to a place where no one knows themselves, go hiking and do something else. In short, I don't want to stay in my old environment. I want to say goodbye to everything before.
Two weeks after the breakup, the boy's mentality.
After this free life, it will last about three weeks for maintenance. Basically, I've experienced everything I should have experienced. When all this becomes normal, boys will feel as if it doesn't make much sense, and they will start thinking about these things and remember their previous feelings. Think of the beautiful feelings in the past, the little bits and pieces in the feelings, the happiness of two people accompanying each other, the intimacy and stability of each other.
At this time, in the memory of the male god, it must be better than bad. Girls may have some minor problems, but that doesn't mean they have to break up. Under the guidance of this emotion, the boys started slowly. As for the decision to break up before, is there anything wrong? Is it cruel to do this yourself? Should we break up?
Then the boy thought, I wonder if I should contact the girl or get back together. If I take the initiative to get back together, will I lose face? Do you think you will refuse me? Boys here will have a series of psychological activities to weigh the pros and cons.