Matters needing attention in dating girls

Politeness in a narrow sense is respect and friendly feelings for others expressed through words. Politeness in a broad sense does not stop at polite words to others, but also in proper dress and behavior. When dating a girl, you should first pay attention to your clothes. Be sure to clean yourself up. Choose a hairstyle that suits you, wear clothes that match your temperament, shave your beard and so on. These external modifications respect the performance of girls, which will leave a good impression on girls and add points to your next dating atmosphere. Praise is an appreciation and affirmation of others and an important expression of politeness. The first thing to do when meeting is to praise the girl's dress and find her advantages. Or cute, or elegant, or tall and so on. Praise will make girls feel affirmed by you, and will unconsciously have a good impression on you, which will help to further warm up the relationship between you. Initiative and enthusiasm Most girls are naturally shy when facing boys. Therefore, when dating, boys should be lively, cheerful, chic and active. Boys must take the initiative to ask girls out and set a date time. Before dating a girl, boys must book a hotel that girls like in advance according to their own preferences, and pretend to book it carelessly in front of girls. It's best to prepare a small gift for girls and give them a surprise, so that girls can feel your concern and your concern for her. I am active and enthusiastic, and I also mention myself as a gentleman everywhere. Taking the menu is to let the girls order first, and then make a decision when the girls are hesitant. Take the initiative to pour tea and take paper towels for girls when eating. Try to send the girl home after the date. Even if she won't let you, you should look at the girl and show your thoughtfulness, so that the girl thinks you are a considerate boy, which will make you exude the charm of a man from the inside out. Create an atmosphere when most girls start dating, they may be dull and at a loss. In order to avoid being embarrassed by silence, boys should actively show their humor at this time. Tell jokes or magic tricks to girls, use your enthusiasm and cheerfulness to influence girls and make them open up, so that you can get closer to her and know her better. This will make your dating atmosphere more active. It only takes a year or a few years to learn to listen, but it takes a lifetime to learn to listen. Learning to listen is a kind of respect, a kind of attention and an important ability for others. Girls are naturally talking animals, although before they start talking, they are quiet, shy, shy and even boring. However, once a girl's chatterbox is opened, it is like a surging river, flowing down the river and choppy. You should never doubt a woman's language ability. Therefore, when a girl's chatterbox opens on a date, you must listen carefully, and when listening, express your views appropriately, or agree with her views, or praise her insight and so on. In short, the most important thing is to make her feel that you are listening to her carefully and that you attach great importance to her. Listening will not only make you leave a special impression in her mind, but also make her look forward to meeting you next time, laying a good foundation for your further development. I believe that having these skills will definitely benefit you when dating girls. Notes on dating girls 2 1. Wear clothes suitable for the occasion. How formal you are depends on where you are going. If you want to attend a high-class dinner, wear a short skirt, long skirt or slacks with a beautiful coat. If you are going to see a casual movie, wear a pair of beautiful jeans and a shirt with a little more decoration than usual. Remember: you should dress formally to match your appointment. If you are not sure, ask the other person what to wear. Make sure your clothes are newly washed. It may be ok to wear dirty clothes and spray some perfume or deodorant in an emergency, but the purpose of dating is to get close to each other and get to know each other. You'd better not risk wearing dirty clothes. Don't forget your shoes. If you dress formally, you should wear high heels or beautiful flat shoes. If the date is casual, you can wear boots or sneakers. Clean shoelaces and a wet tissue can make your sneakers look more suitable for dating. 3. Highlight your best-looking features. You know, wearing clothes that highlight your strengths can make you more confident when dating. 4. Pay attention to collocation. Clothes that are too tight look strange, too loose and sloppy, as if they don't pay attention to dating. You'd better find a dress that suits you. Make sure that the waist of trousers or skirts is appropriate-three fingers can fit in, but you can't get any fatter-the legs of jeans or slacks should be just below the ankles. The length of the shirt should exceed the waist, but not the hips; The collar should be cut properly and comfortable to wear, so it doesn't need to be pulled often. If your clothes don't fit you, consider asking a tailor to change them for you. If you just make simple changes, it is usually very cheap. 5. Find the color that suits you. When you choose a shirt, you should choose a color that suits your complexion. If you want to set off your blue or green eyes, you can try a darker cool tone, such as purple or dark blue. To set off brown or hazel eyes, try bright warm colors, such as coral or beige. If you are worried about your bad skin and want to cover it up with the color of your clothes, don't wear bright red or white-these colors will make the erythema on your skin more obvious. 6. Highlight your figure. You can use the color of clothes to highlight the characteristics of your body, or look better. For example, if you are pear-shaped, your hips and legs are fat, but your waist and arms are thin, you can wear dark color below and light color above. Dark clothes are thin. If you feel a certain part is fat, you can cover it with dark clothes. Light-colored clothes can better show your figure-you can use it to show your figure advantage. 7. Don't be afraid to ask for help. Most people don't stand in front of the mirror all day, so you may not know what to wear. Ask your friend who thinks you have good taste and ask him/her to choose one for you-he/she may notice that you look particularly good in a certain dress. If you want to go shopping, you can ask the friendly shopping guide for help. Most of them are willing to help others choose suitable clothes, and they are also very experienced. 8. Pay attention to hygiene. On the first date, you should pay more attention to personal hygiene than usual. A clean and tidy appearance will make you more confident and attractive. Take a bath before getting dressed. Then moisturize with scented emulsion. Trim facial hair. You don't need to trim your eyebrows carefully, but you should use tweezers to pull out the eyebrows around your nose, not the part above the inner corner of your eye. Pay attention to the hair on the chin and lips. Brush your teeth and floss. After brushing your teeth, gently scrape your tongue with a toothbrush. Then floss your teeth. This is especially important if you wear braces-you don't want to be seen with food residue on your teeth on the first date. Finally rinse your mouth. Trim your nails. You can cut it to the bottom (all the white parts are cut off) or leave it longer. If you have time, you can apply hand cream, nail polish or lotion. Make up. You can wear light makeup or heavy makeup, depending on your personal style. Pay attention to the choice of lip gloss and eye makeup-one of them can be exaggerated, but not both. Don't wear too much makeup. You want to look the same as usual, just more radiant. Tidy your hair. If you want to change your hairstyle, you'd better try it one night in advance to make sure you can go out and meet people. Otherwise, keep your usual hairstyle. You can wear a lovely headscarf or hairpin as an ornament, or you can make your hair curl more than usual. Perfume and body spray. You'd better spray a little, not too much. For perfume, two sprays are enough; Spray body spray up to three times. You want to smell good, but don't overdo it. Remember, your nose will get used to your smell and stop sending messages to your brain. Just because you can't smell it yourself doesn't mean your date can't smell it either. 9. Get dressed. Every time you put on an ornament, you should look in the mirror and take off one. Remember, your date wants to see you, not the 30 rings and dazzling gold earrings in your hand. If you want to go out at night, or the weather is cold, take a jacket. Take your wallet, lip balm, mints and anything you need.