Judging from the information you provided, her parents' divorce has caused some psychological harm to her and made her a little fragile. But there is nothing unusual. Although her psychology and behavior are abnormal, you can't understand it, but first of all, her psychology is normal, which will produce such a result. This is a sign that the soul needs protection and care, not mental illness.
For example, suppose a person has been injured on his hand before, and the wound has healed, leaving only obvious scars. You can't still treat him as an injured person. If the wound does not heal for a long time, often bleeds, or has infection, it needs further treatment.
By the same token, your girlfriend's situation, on the whole, is positive, friendly and has a sense of justice, which is the normal result of a normal mentality and belongs to a normal state. On the contrary, if she gives up on herself after her parents divorce, or rejects all men, or hurts small animals instead, or is indifferent to injustice, or becomes more and more withdrawn and depressed, then she is suspected of mental health.
She loves you, which shows that she trusts you, believes that she can get protection from you, and is willing to entrust her heart to you. To love her, we should trust her, respect and tolerate her, encourage her to pursue happiness and appreciate her cuteness, instead of changing her personality and temper according to our own requirements.
She likes watching small animals. Why don't you sit down and watch 10 minutes with her? You can't take stray cats and dogs home, let her prepare something to eat in her bag at ordinary times, and feed a little when she sees it. She can't stand you going shirtless at home. You can wear a hurdle vest, which is polite, sweat-absorbent and more comfortable. Let her wash it for you when it is dirty, hehe. Cynicism is characteristic of young people. She is not confused in her forties. She's only in her twenties, and she's not ready to stand on her own feet yet. You can also let her try to put herself in the other's shoes, learn more about society and increase her experience. Listening to her more at ordinary times, influencing her with your peaceful mind and being a good listener are the best ways to calm her psychological trauma.
People's psychology is very different, and everyone will experience setbacks, injuries and scars. No one is completely healthy. The problem between you should be more about how to understand and take care of each other's ideas, adapt to different living habits, and run in. This is a process that most lovers have to go through. You can ask such a question, which shows that you are sincere to her, and there is nothing false. I believe that as long as you have patience and confidence, you will get more and more happiness.
Friend, it is not surprising that people have different ideas, behaviors and abilities.
Some people warn loudly when they meet thieves who are stealing, while others pretend not to see them. You can't say one of them is a patient.
You can't meet the right opposite sex and say that one of them is a patient.
Some people don't get drunk after drinking a catty of wine, and some people blush after drinking a sip of wine. You can't say one of them is a patient.
When shopping, some people are easily persuaded, and some people will not give up until they reduce their prices. You can't say one of them is a patient.
Such examples abound in life.
Your girlfriend is stubborn (in fact, you are also stubborn, a natural couple ~ ~), but not to the point where you can't get along with others normally, and you don't always quarrel as long as you are together. If you can be together, there must be a lot of mutual attraction and you can get along well. Then why do you want to hold on to her imperfections and even treat her as a patient?
What she thinks and does is neither illegal nor harmful. In fact, you shouldn't violate your principles and bottom line. Similarly, what you asked her didn't violate the law, didn't hurt anyone, and shouldn't violate her principles and bottom line. For you, such differences should be mutual tolerance and seeking common ground while reserving differences. This is what lovers should do, otherwise, what do you want in love?
On the contrary, accusing the other party of being a patient raises the non-principle contradiction to the principle contradiction, which hurts the feelings of both parties and damages their trust. I wonder what you want to do.
Everyone has his own thoughts and emotions, so does everyone. However, not opposing other people's ideas does not mean admitting that you are wrong. People should have emotions and temper, but they should not be influenced by their own emotions. Isn't it right to control your emotions properly and take care of those you love?
If you are both looking at the answer to this question, then calm down, think about each other's good, smile at each other, send a smiling face online, and stop arguing unnecessarily, okay?