Four years ago, my aunt asked me to donate my kidney for my cousin. If I wavered at that time, I didn't know how important "a kidney" is to the human body until now.
At that time, I had just graduated from high school and received an admission notice from a local university. I am going out to work and study in the summer vacation.
However, menstruation's phone call almost made me regret it all my life. On this day, my classmates and I were shopping and were about to discuss drinking milk tea together.
Menstruation's phone call came in.
First, my aunt asked me how I was doing on the phone and whether I had bought food. I should study hard when I was admitted to college. Then she suddenly fell silent as she talked.
I knew something must have happened, so I asked my aunt what happened.
Then my aunt said flatly, I said, "Your cousin is in hospital, and his condition is a bit serious."
I was suddenly surprised. My cousin has been in good health, so I asked my aunt which hospital she was in. I will visit my cousin tomorrow morning.
Aunt said it was in the "County First People's Hospital"
The next morning, I rode an electric car to the hospital and bought some fruits and other things from outside. My father taught me all these things, so I must not go home empty-handed. According to the address given by my aunt, I finally came to my cousin's ward.
I saw my cousin still sleeping, and my aunt sat watching him.
Aunt didn't let me go in directly after seeing me coming. Maybe she is afraid that I will disturb my cousin's rest. She came out, took my hand and said calmly, "Hunan and Guangdong, I haven't seen you for more than a year. The longer the better. "
I interrupted my aunt and said, "What happened to my brother? He is in good health. Why is he so ill? "
My aunt carried me to the chair in the corridor outside, wiped her tears and said, "I don't know why, but your brother has chronic renal failure."
"I can only rely on dialysis to barely maintain vital signs every day. Your uncle and I have agreed to donate our kidneys to him, so that the children can have hope of rebirth. However, after testing, it was found that our kidney sources did not match. "
Now I have found more than a dozen hospitals, but I still haven't found a matching kidney source.
I said, "Don't worry, Auntie, you can definitely find a suitable kidney source."
Aunt wiped her tears again and said, "Xiangyue, you haven't eaten yet, and now it's 1 1 more." Aunt invites you to eat outside. "
"This afternoon in the hospital with my aunt. My aunt is so lonely. "
Then my aunt took me out to a restaurant for dinner, and we talked for another hour. When we went back to the hospital again, it was already a little faster. On the way to the hospital, we met the doctor who treated my cousin. While they were chatting, the doctor told him to go out of town at once.
See if you can find a suitable kidney source elsewhere, or your son will be in danger.
Aunt is also very anxious. We kept walking. As a result, my aunt suddenly said, "Xiangyue, why don't you make a kidney source match?"
I said, "Ah, me?"
Aunt took me and said, it's okay. Make one. It won't take much time.
So I was dragged to draw blood, took a ct and filled in the information. After chatting with my cousin in the ward, it was past five o'clock, so I said hello to my aunt and went straight home.
The next day, I was awakened by the phone ringing.
Because there is no class, I usually sleep until ten o'clock in the morning, but it's only eight o'clock when I turn on my mobile phone, and my aunt has missed four calls.
I turned on menstruation's phone and called her. Her excited voice came from the other end of the phone: "Xiangyue, your kidney source matching was successful. Come to the hospital. "
Hearing this, my mind is dizzy.
Almost kneeling on the ground, I replied, "Ahhh, that's impossible."
But I dare not go to the hospital at the moment, and I dare not donate my kidney for my cousin.
My aunt may have learned my concern on the phone, so she went on to say, "Hunan and Guangdong, it doesn't matter. The doctor told me that even if one kidney is missing, it will not have much impact. "
All you have to do is donate your kidney to your brother, and then our family will support you. Do you remember how good I was to you when I was a child? I often buy you food and play. I even trembled when I heard this.
I know very well that losing a kidney will not be fatal, but it will cause irreversible harm to the human body, and the child may not be born in the future. How can I get married?
So I didn't dare to speak, so I let the phone go through and people walked aside.
Later, my aunt came to see me several times and told my parents about it. My father told me never to talk about the donation and let him solve it. It's been more than four years now, and my cousin didn't find a suitable kidney source as early as a year ago.
I have passed away, and I cried very sadly when I heard the news.
Remember the man who sold his kidney for an Apple phone? If I had donated my kidney, I might have stayed in bed all my life. I'm afraid of death, and I dare not even think about donating my kidney.
A friend's distant relative seems to have a kidney cut off because of a car accident. Live carefully, I haven't contacted for many years, and I don't know what the result is.
What I want to say is my opinion:
I really don't approve of giving a kidney from a healthy person to others!
If it is between relatives, you can't give up your affection, just ask it voluntarily. If it is not voluntary, who is qualified to make such a request?
This is not as simple as cutting a piece of skin. The human body has evolved to this extent today. In fact, no organ is redundant! The doctor said nothing, but everything was obtained according to the conventional conditions. People can eat whole grains and avoid three diseases and six disasters. Not if you are tired, not if you are sick. Then, what will you use to resist? How is the quality of your life?
So, no matter who is sick, as long as you don't want to-don't worry about it! You must refuse the donation directly!
I think we should consider increasing the publicity and related benefits of organ donation. This can also avoid the black-box operation of organ transplantation to some extent. For example, if a family member has organ donation, immediate family members can give priority to this opportunity or preferential treatment for serious illness. In short, they can study it. But don't be like donating blood. Agree that close relatives can also benefit. As a result, the hospital is not linked to the blood station, and I can't use it! I really want to contact the blood station, people are already cold!
Of course, it's just a means of encouragement, not too utilitarian, mainly to let everyone have a sense of donation. Death is fire anyway.
However, I have to admit: it's easy to say people, [covering my face] I didn't pass this pass myself.
If I am seriously ill, I choose to give up rescue and intensive care.
I don't like lying on the operating table, so I just decided to donate my cornea.
I hope there are more people who are more open-minded and brave than me.
I hope everyone is healthy!
This is a true story. The protagonist of the story is Lin Kang, who donated her kidney under emotional entanglements, and her fate afterwards made people cry.
Lin Kang is a rural child. She spent her childhood with her brother Kang Lei. Play, go to school, sleep, inseparable.
The two brothers and sisters are naughty once in a while. They dig other people's sweet potatoes together and steal other people's watermelons together. Every time they are caught, their mother will chase two streets with a stick, making them cry.
The companionship of childhood, the growth of youth, and the deep affection between brothers and sisters are unparalleled!
For Lin Kang, her younger brother is the mainstay of her life. She confided in her younger brother when he was wronged, and let her get back at her when he was bullied. Depend on each other and love each other.
Later, the two dropped out of school to work, frustrated in life, encouraged each other and made continuous progress. Later, both of them had their own families, but they often went back and forth and told stories about their childhood.
It was not until both of them had children that the beautiful and warm life gradually went to the black abyss.
Lin Kang Sheng gave birth to a son, a chubby, round head, very cute. When the son grows up, he often takes him to his younger brother's house, because the younger brother also gave birth to a son. The two brothers and sisters hope that the two children can cultivate deep feelings like them.
Until one day, my brother Kang Lei's son Xiao Lei suddenly fell ill. A few days later, he vomited, felt dizzy and looked terrible.
The family thought that the child had caught a cold and took cold medicine for a few days. The symptoms were not light but serious. Kang Lei took Xiao Lei to the village clinic. The doctor frowned after observing for a while, because the doctor couldn't tell what was wrong. He suggested going to the hospital.
On the day of going to the hospital, Lin Kang and his son went to the hospital together. After a series of inspections, the brothers and sisters' faces were completely ugly, as if a thunder had bombarded their minds.
Congenital renal insufficiency, uremia!
This year, Xiao Lei was only eight years old. No one expected that a happy and healthy child would suddenly get uremia without any symptoms before.
On the bus back, Kang Lei held Xiao Lei tightly in her arms, and the whole person frowned and fell into anxiety. Lin Kang didn't say anything, or didn't know what to say. She wants to comfort, but she can't.
"Don't tell your parents when you get home." Got off the bus, Kang Lei said seriously. Lin Kang nodded and could only obey.
To their father, Xiao Lei is the grandson, the lifeblood and the apple of their eye. If the two old people know their illness, they don't know how scared they will be.
However, the contrast between long-term dialysis in the future and Xiao Lei's physical condition can't hide all this.
Kang Lei's wife knows, the two old people know, everyone knows, and everyone is anxious.
Kang Lei's wife is pale all day with tears in her eyes, while Kang Lei's parents are looking for a side room everywhere, hoping to cure their grandson's illness. However, diseases never pity people. Xiao Lei had dialysis once a week at first and three times a week after one year.
"Xiao Lei's illness was discovered very late. Dialysis can only maintain normal physical indicators, but it won't last long. Kidney transplantation is the best way. "
The family listened to the doctor's advice and begged the doctor to find the kidney source.
"Unless someone donated a kidney, but there is no blood relationship, even if there is a kidney in the warehouse, it is difficult to match. At present, there are 8 patients in the hospital waiting for kidney source. In view of your child's current good physical condition, it is best for immediate family members to match. "
Donate your own kidney, and don't hesitate for every biological parent. But it was Lin Kang who passed the match test.
Lin Kang froze, the whole portrait froze. It never occurred to her that she would be Xiao Lei's only hope. Her heart is so complicated that she doesn't know how to deal with it at all.
She is only thirty years old. What will happen to her health if she donates her kidney? How to take care of children like a sick seedling all my life, my husband will not agree.
It takes a lot of courage for anyone to donate a kidney, even those who are very close.
"Go home." Kang Lei is afraid to look at his sister. He dare not say anything, because it is cruel. He is unwilling to sacrifice his sister's health for his son. But what can we do?
In the days to come, the family will be covered with dark clouds, and the previous laughter will become a long-lost luxury.
"Go and ask your sister. As long as she can save our son, I can give her all my property. " Kang Lei's wife kept pleading. During this period, she tried to find Lin Kang several times, but was stopped by Kang Lei.
Perhaps because of fear, Lin Kang didn't come again in the next three months, as if she was deliberately avoiding all this.
"I will never force my sister to do something she doesn't want to do." Kang Lei told his wife that his words were full of firmness and weakness, and he pinned all his hopes on the hospital, hoping that a miracle could find the kidney source.
Kang Lei's parents are also in pain. How could they have the heart to let go of a young son who has passed on the family line?
So, my mother got on the bike and left alone. She wants to find her daughter and let her save her grandson.
Lin Kang knew that she could not escape after all. At that moment, when her mother knelt down, Lin Kang's struggling defense line completely collapsed.
"Daughter, you can live without a kidney, but your grandson cannot live without your kidney."
Lin Kang and her mother's knees are opposite, and she nodded hard. "I saved it!" The word weighs a thousand pounds, but it came out after all.
Lin Kang's husband fell down. He wants to stop it, but he can't. In particular, Lin Kang said to him, "If you don't agree, we will divorce."
On the day of the operation, two families stood at the door of the operating room. They all breathed a sigh of relief when the news of the successful operation came out.
In the hospital bed, Lin Kang was pale and bloodless, but her expression seemed relaxed, which was a kind of relieved pressure.
Before the hospital bed, Kang Lei cried like a child, holding her sister's hand tightly, expressing inexpressible gratitude and guilt. Although Xiao Lei is also lying in the hospital bed, in Kang Lei's eyes, my sister needs to be taken care of most at the moment.
After more than ten years, Lin Kang lived an optimistic life. She can't do manual work. She can still earn some money by doing manual labor occasionally. Sometimes I go to the square dance. Unfortunately, I can't dance for long.
Kang Lei's son has entered the society and has his own job. Whenever he comes back to visit, he will be close to Lin Kang, because he knows that there is a part of menstruation in his body, which is a kind of intimacy of "I have you and you have me".
From the day after the operation, Kang Linyi had two sons.
Conclusion: The word "kidney donation" has never stopped. Besides the selfless dedication of parents, who will willingly give their health to others? If there is such a person, please be kind to her and protect her. Because she is the most kind and selfless person in the world.