Ms. Zhang, who is nearly 60 years old, burst into tears as soon as she saw the reporter. I can see that her heart is broken. She cried and said that it was not wrong for her to spoil her son, but he didn't know how to repay him. Ms. Zhang's wife, Mr. Liu, said that he told his son that if he really suspected that the old couple were in the way, he could leave, but his son told them to leave quickly.
Before leaving, there was a scene that made Ms. Zhang's mood difficult to calm down. The night before she left, considering the penniless and homeless life with her wife in the future, she hurriedly told her son that life and death were irrelevant, so just give her 50 thousand yuan. Then she kowtowed to her son three times, and his son sat on the sofa unmoved.
Then Mr. Liu took the reporter to his son Xiao Liu's house. He was not at home, and the reporter dialed his phone. Regarding the contradiction with his parents, Xiao Liu said that he was still very angry and wanted to draw a clear line with his parents. He didn't drive them away, but his parents kept picking on him. Xiao Liu said that in June of 20 18, 10, she opened a factory and a family of five moved to the factory, but her mother always complained a lot.
2065438+In February 2009, my parents asked to leave the factory, and they didn't want to live in his house. Instead, he knelt down and asked for money, saying that he must give money. Then they began to kneel and kowtow three times (without helping her), but he never said a dirty word from beginning to end. Ms. Zhang said that in order to support her son to open a factory, she sold her house for 450,000, and her son took 250,000 and 200,000. His son booked a price-limited room (50 square meters) for the old couple and paid a down payment. She felt that her son just wanted to take their money.
Xiao Liu said that he sold the house because he used money to start a business and because he wanted to help his parents improve their living environment. His parents thought his kindness was blackmail, which made him sad. He is devoted to this family and has no intention of cheating his parents. However, Ms. Zhang thought that her son was concerned about the house and her wife's provident fund. At first, the wife did not agree to give her son a provident fund of 6.5438+0.2 million yuan, but it was urgent to solve her son's problem.
Xiao Liu's difficulty is that Qian Gang hasn't invested for a long time, and he hasn't returned for a while, so he made it clear to his parents in advance. It is really impossible for his parents to go back now. Ms. Zhang said that in fact, the old couple wanted nothing but a warm word. My son and wife didn't give it. She hasn't had a new pair of shoes for seven years. She works hard for her son. Xiao Liu said that this is all her mother's acting. Faced with such a situation, the reporter repeatedly persuaded Xiao Liu. After all, parents are elders, and parents should be grateful for taking out all their savings to support entrepreneurship. But Xiao Liu said that parents are not parents at all, and they fought with their wives in July.
Xiao Liu said that before getting married, her mother looked down on her daughter-in-law, but she was driven out of the house by her parents on the third day of marriage. Ms. Zhang said that her son and daughter-in-law were driven away because they didn't take the old couple seriously. Xiao Liu said that after being driven out by their parents, the couple could only rent a house outside. Until three years later, the wife suspected that the family was living together again, but the mother often quarreled with her wife.
Ms. Zhang said that the old couple were melodramatic when they were working in the factory, and the daughter-in-law slapped the table and pointed at her nose and said that she would block her! At that time,1.20,000 yuan provident fund had not been obtained. She thought of her son's marriage 10 years, and she paid so much. She also got angry and hit her daughter-in-law. Then her daughter-in-law held her head in her arms and told her to continue playing, and she did the same. After the fight, her daughter-in-law cried, and so did she. Afterwards, she apologized to her daughter-in-law.
However, not long after the factory started, the daughter-in-law had a conflict with her father-in-law. Mr. Liu said that he taught his son to scold him, and his wife came out of the house and said not to scold her husband. If you want to ask, ask her (Ms. Zhang). She said no, so she picked up a pot and cut her. Ms. Zhang said that it was because of these two contradictions that the relationship at home was cold to freezing point. Coupled with physical fatigue, they decided to leave the factory, so there was a farce of kneeling for money.
After the reporter's persuasion, Xiao Liu said that he was going to sell the house, pay back his parents' money, and pay the alimony stipulated by law in the future. He will go back and think calmly about his behavior.
Bian Xiao thinks that the relationship between parents and sons is not difficult. As parents, we should also be considerate of our children. After all, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is difficult to get along with. Children should not get involved too much when they have a family. Of course, they must be filial as sons. After all, it is not easy for parents to raise them. What do you think of this matter?