Of course, is it really happy to adopt this open marriage?
After reading the following story, maybe you will have some new inspiration.
After shopping, Xiao Jia and Xiao Ni go to eat green tea.
Through the corridor, through running water and green plants, through a dark corner, under the dim light, Jony J stopped, and Xiao Ni turned to ask: What's the matter?
I think I see Jacko. Jia, keep up with Xiao Ni.
Lao Liu? Where is it? With who? Shall we invite him to stay with us? Xiao Ni wants to go back curiously, but Xiao Jia
Follow a woman, forget it. Xiao Jia said calmly: Ignore it.
Then what are you waiting for? Let's go Tear! Xiao Ni is going to roll up her sleeves and have a big fight. Xiao Jia not only didn't move, but also hugged his chest with his hands, full of laughter: with this strength, it is better to call a friend to save the game after dinner.
The feeling of my husband and I opening our marriage, you poked me in the eye, sister. Xiao Ni didn't want to fall into the well, but she couldn't help talking about the gossip nature of women: how many times is this? Why don't you let him go? Oh, no, Xiao Jia, it must be his advantage to be so tolerant of such a man who deceives women's feelings, so where is it particularly long?
Looking at Xiao Ni's interesting expressions and hints, Xiao Jia almost exploded with anger: it doesn't matter if you are old. It's pointless to toss and turn. Are you divorced? Big moves can hurt your muscles and bones. Why did you leave? Looking for small fresh meat, the old aunt is not confident and can't talk, looking for a divorced widow? Can you promise not to make the same mistake again?
Xiao Ni scoffed: Then you think so, ok.
Nine years ago.
Xiao Jia is twenty-six years old and ready to get married. And Xiao Qin.
Xiao Qin and Xiao Jia are high school classmates. Xiao Qin is the child of others in the big population, and Xiao Jia is the negative textbook in the teacher's mouth.
These are two parallel lines that don't intersect, but they intersect because they were admitted to a university in the same city. Of course, students go to 985, and students are mixed with junior college.
The two actually saw eye contact at the party of several old classmates, and then Xiaojia took the initiative and won Xiaoqin in one fell swoop.
Because we are both first love, we have a lot of time together. At that time, how wonderful! They did all the romantic things you can imagine in the world of lovers.
On weekends, the two ran to each other through most cities, snuggling in the corners of various parks and enjoying the sweet air of love.
Or, hiding in a small room in a small hotel near the school, wasting short and precious passionate time and sowing young hormones at will.
Not to mention those days when we went home together during the holidays, the two people behind our parents stole food/dates like lovers and ate rice like mice.
Xiao Jia's peach eyes, soaked in love, are gentle and full of spring breath, and the whole world is romantic pink.
Xiao Jia graduated one year earlier than Xiao Qin. Although not the material for reading, she has a special view on girls' makeup and fashion, and soon found a job as a cosmetics supervisor. Three years later, she accumulated qualifications and moved to an international luxury brand to do marketing. Not only has the whole popularity field improved by N grades, but her salary is also several times that of the state-owned enterprise Qin Technology.
Then, two young people with boiling blood borrowed money to buy a house, take wedding photos and book a honeymoon hotel. At that time, Xiao Jia was sure that they would have a husband and wife for life and would always be so happy.
Unexpectedly, a phone call broke this winding dream.
That woman is six years older than Xiao Qin, divorced with children. She didn't say anything on the phone, but whispered that I heard you were getting married. Congratulations. But don't you know? My son's name is Feng Ming's father.
Jony J exploded immediately. She called and threw away everything that could be broken at home. She even pushed a huge wedding photo from the third floor.
Xiao Qin got a fright. He hurried downstairs to confirm whether he had hurt passers-by. Fortunately, there are not many residents in their newly bought community, and there are no people downstairs.
Xiao Jia threw all the clothes and supplies of Xiao Qin out of the window, and then shouted into the air: Xiao Qin, you have to lie, find a woman taller than me and convince me! What do you like about that woman? Why don't you die?
Xiao Qin looked up at the familiar window and silently picked up things on the ground one by one. Finally, he looked at Xiao Jia standing at the window overlooking the earth. He saw that there were no tears in her eyes, only anger and despair. She held out her hand in front of him, slowly took off the ring finger of her left hand and dropped it without hesitation.
Kobayashi's inner ring was set with a diamond ring, which accurately hit his left face. Then it fell to the ground, bounced back, jumped a few times and rolled into the sewer.
After all, it is scattered.
It took little Aga a long time to get out of that vigorous relationship. During that long time, she doubted life, love, men and herself.
But from beginning to end, Xiao Jia didn't have a chance to defend Xiao Qin. Why not listen to his defense? Because she didn't dare, for fear that she would be shaken.
How many things happened between men and women when they were young? Big enough to trigger the Trojan War. Xiao Jia and Xiao Qin were burned to ashes in this war.
A few months later, the ignorant Xiao Qin left his hometown. Five years later, Xiao Jia chose Xiaojie, who is neither salty nor light, and she will get along with each other in a paper marriage.
Traditionally, Xiaojie is not a good person. After three or four years of marriage, Shan met three or four women.
In fact, Xiaojie didn't put forward the argument of open marriage at the beginning. He just said that he understood her emotional trauma. He said he wouldn't force Xiao Jia to be sincere to him, as long as she didn't refuse him and gave him a chance to appear in her life.
Of course, Jiang Weiwen said this for a reason. He knows Xiao Jia's past. He told Xiao Jia before. At that time, Xiao Jia and Xiao Qin were entangled, and she refused him. But he didn't insist, and he always lived beside her as an ordinary friend.
Xiao Jia's attitude towards men is dispensable, but she decided to give Xiaojie a chance because she felt that she should explain to her parents, relatives and friends for so many years.
As a result, after half a year of marriage, Xiaojie cheated for the first time, and the means were not clever. He went to take a shower and put his mobile phone on the bed. The screen is lit up, and the content is: the same place tomorrow!
Xiao Jia was not too sad, so he showed his cards directly. So he confidently mentioned the magic of open marriage to her.
Xiaojie's original words are: people have desires, and facing desires does not mean not taking responsibility. There are various forms of marriage in the world, and we can try open marriage. As long as we can trust each other completely, have no privacy, understand each other and accept everything from each other, I believe we can come to the end of our lives.
What is the end of life? Xiao Jia has no time to take care of her. All she wants is to go our separate ways and not interfere with each other.
In this way, Jony J was selectively blinded once, twice, three times or four times. The question Xiao Ni asked does not exist. Why did you leave? Xiaojie is good in everything except changing partners from time to time. When they are together, he takes care of her more, whether it is the details of life or the emotional value.
As for the life of husband and wife, did Xiaodian tell others about this shameful problem? After Xiao Qin left, he never contacted Google again.
Who can I live with without love anyway? At least Jiang Weiwen has feelings for her.
Xiao Jia came home late, pushed open the door, and Xiaojie was still awake, leaning on the bed and reading a thick history book.
I'm sorry, I didn't receive your call or hear from you when I was singing with my friends at night. Xiao Jia explained while removing makeup.
Never mind. Later I asked Xiao Ni, and she said you saw me wearing green tea. His face was still buried in the book, and he didn't look up, but his tone showed displeasure: You are getting more and more heartless if you don't invite me to dinner or even say hello.
Xiao Jia holds the hand of makeup remover cotton, stops on Huahua's face and looks at the man on the bed from the mirror. Suddenly a little soft, explained: not heartless, but afraid to disturb your dinner with friends. When I saw you, you almost finished eating.
She didn't ask who the woman was, but defined her as his friend euphemistically. Xiaojie didn't speak again, closed the book, turned off the bedside lamp and lay down on his side and fell asleep.
Xiao Jia reluctantly went to take a shower, took a shower, painted his face, leaned against the bed and turned on his mobile phone. A message jumped out: Xiao Jia, I'm back and have time to get together. Qin Xiao.
The next day, Xiao Jia wore makeup for a long time, and could not cover her dark circles. Having dinner with Xiao Ni at noon, Xiao Ni didn't forget to hit her: Yo, sales director, your bags under your eyes are almost falling to the ground. How to discipline your handsome men and beautiful women?
Xiao Jia put his hands on his forehead, opened the message and pushed the phone to Xiao Ni.
Xiao Ni smiled naively, shook her head and sang: As long as you can't get it, the past is always the most appropriate.
If you don't get it, if you lose it, or you will never forget it, or you will never forget it. Memories of others will beautify each other. In Jony J's memory, she stubbornly gave Qin Xiao three points, rounded to zero. What's left? This is the betrayal and injury of 100% cone heart.
Xiao Jia sadly found that from beginning to end, she never walked out of failure.
Do you see it? Still can't see that the problem always lingers there. Is that what she wants to face one by one? Or continue to avoid shrinking?
It is said that this is an open marriage, but Jony J has always been indifferent to her feelings and never really let go. As for Xiaojie's emotional release again and again, she really doesn't care. Does it hurt?
Xiao Jia has no intention of working and feels very confused. She turned on her mobile phone and wanted to communicate with Xiaojie. However, these strings, she wrote and deleted, deleted and wrote, repeated many times, and finally gave up.
This is a relationship with nothing to say. Xiao Jia has to admit that Xiaojie has always been the leader of this marriage, and she just participated in it absently.
Celebrities who have experienced it all say that an open marriage relationship is the result of independent choice by both parties. But what did Jony J do? She was bound and coerced by life and put her feelings in prison.
Xiao Jia decided to go on a date with Xiao Qin, finish what she had not finished in the past and see if she was alive or dead in another world.
Coffee shop on the first floor of the hotel. Xiao Jia arrived ten minutes earlier than the appointed time. She doesn't want to be late. I didn't expect Xiao Qin to arrive earlier than her, and her painting style changed suddenly. On the contrary, she was surprised.
Haven't seen you for a long time. Xiao Jia said awkwardly.
I didn't want to keep you waiting, so I came early. Xiao Qin's eyes stayed on her face for a second.
My face suddenly became hot. Xiao Jia felt that she was back to her girlhood in an instant. Simple greetings, shallow smiles. There is nothing, but the sensory world is intertwined.
This is useless and dangerous. Xiao Jia's eyes touched the ring finger of his left hand, a simple ring, which was Xiaojie's promise. Subconsciously looking at Xiao Qin, his finger also has the same marriage confirmation.
Aware of her eyes, Xiao Qin drew back his hand without trace. The next second, he stood up and hugged her. The hug was fast and tense, and she didn't have time to react. His lips were stamped.
Qin, let me go first and listen to me. Breathing gap, Xiao Jia said first. Xiao Qin stopped and stared at her tightly, but couldn't say a word.
Needless to say, everything. Xiao Qin took her hand and couldn't wait to go upstairs. Open the door of the hotel room and kiss everywhere.
Breathing is connected with breathing, and the chest is close to the chest. The fingers are interlocked, and Jony J's finger diaphragm touches Qin Xiao's finger. The ring clearly entered Xiao Jia's mind.
Wait a minute, Qin Is it true what that woman said before she got married? Xiao Jia suddenly asked.
Xiao Qin, who was burned by the raging fire, instantly solidified. He let her go and said, Jia, you haven't changed a bit.
Xiao Jia's eyes are a little dim. Finally, in his silence, she looked neat and messy, pulled her wrinkled clothes and turned and left.
She finally admitted that she still cared about her bones. No matter what the origin of things is, betrayal is really betrayal. No matter how long time has passed, no matter how they meet again, it is impossible to erase the cracks in their hearts.
She thought, not forgive, not forget, but forget, put herself down, turn it over, and that's it.
Out of the hotel, Xiao Jia walked alone for a long time.
Unexpectedly, after meeting Xiao Qin, Xiao Jia's heart changed from boiling blood to calm. Before she met him, she still had some illusions. She hopes that he still misses her to prove that they really love each other. Only after she really tried did she know that she had a desire for him but no love.
Time is really a magical thing, which destroyed what was engraved in her heart in an instant.
The feeling of my husband and I opening our marriage, why is it suddenly like this? Didn't all those years of entanglement go to waste? Xiao Jia suddenly felt that the world had changed and life was ridiculous.