Going to the hospital to have a second child, do you want to bring Dabao at home? First of all, Dabao had better not take it with him. Because Ma Bao went to the hospital to give birth to a second child these days, the family is short of manpower. Baoda must always be with Ma Bao and take care of Ma Bao's daily life. Especially Ma Bao, who was delivered by caesarean section, could hardly move for the first two days after the operation. Bao Dad must help Ma Bao turn over regularly, feed Ma Bao with water, wash her face and brush her body, and Ma Bao can't stay in bed all the time, but also take appropriate underground activities. However, Ma Bao was very inconvenient to move after the operation and needed help. In addition, the newborn Bauer needs someone to take care of him, changing his diaper, wiping his ass, changing clothes and having a hospital check-up, all of which require manpower. If Ma Bao can't open the milk in time, she will have to make milk powder, feed the baby and burp after drinking the milk. Therefore, in the days when Ma Bao was hospitalized with her second child, except Bao Dad, other family members had to help together, and there was no energy to take care of Dabao. Moreover, the hospital has a large flow of people, and some people carry all kinds of germs. If Dabao is small and runs around, in case someone takes him away or something happens, the family will be in chaos. It is best not to take Dabao to the hospital.
Secondly, Dabao had better entrust familiar family and friends to take care of it, and it would be better if it is a familiar family of Dabao. Because Ma Bao went to the hospital and gave birth to Erbao, for Dabao, there will be some sense of loss in his heart. After all, parents' love will be shared with others, and Dabao needs a process of gradually accepting the facts. At this time, Dabao and I are not around, and we have to leave for several days, which is a greater blow to Dabao. Therefore, he and Dabao need to find a favorite place to stay, that is, a family that Dabao is familiar with or likes. If we can have children of the same age together, and it is not so easy to take care of the children's daily life. People who are familiar with Dabao can understand children's preferences, communicate with children better, and tolerate children's naughty ignorance. After all, it takes a week to give birth in the hospital, which means Dabao will live in this home for a week. If everyone can get along well, not only Dabao will have a good time, but also Bao's parents can take care of Bauer with more peace of mind. Of course, Bao's parents should explain the situation to Dabao in advance, and make it clear to Dabao that his parents simply love him and let Dabao happily separate from his parents.
Thirdly, if you really can't find a suitable family to take care of Dabao, the baby's parents can only take Dabao with them, but it is best to reserve a single room in the hospital where you gave birth. In this way, the family can live in a relatively spacious room and bring their favorite toys to Dabao to prevent the children from running around. If there is a real shortage of staff, baby Ma Bao can consider asking the nurses in the hospital to help take care of Ma Bao and the baby. They are more professional and can share many things with Bao Dad, so Bao Dad will have the energy to take care of the baby.
Conclusion For a family, having a second child will mean mobilizing the whole family. However, this is still a problem that Ma Bao must pay attention to. Only by balancing the relationship between two children can we create a happy family atmosphere and become a happy family of four.