How to treat a poor scholar who married a beggar's daughter, but disliked her birth and abandoned her wife to take her to someone else?

In ancient times, there was a poor boy named Xiao Mo. Although his parents died when he was a child, he was very good-looking and talented, and he was a scholar at a young age. When Jin, the boss of the beggar, learned about it, he wanted to marry his daughter, thinking that he would make great achievements in the future, so he called a matchmaker to act as a matchmaker.

At that time, the leader of beggars was called Tuantou, and Jiao Xiao's father had been the Tuantou of seven or eight generations. Although he is not rich, his family is relatively rich.

Xiao Mo was very happy to hear that Xiao Jiao, the daughter of Boss Jin, was very beautiful, but he was a little unhappy when he learned that Xiao Jiao was a beggar. What he thinks in his heart is that he is too poor to marry a wife now, so he can only wronged himself temporarily.

In this way, Xiao Mo successfully adopted the Kim family, became a son-in-law and married a beautiful wife without spending a penny or giving a bride price. After Xiao Mo and Jiao Xiao got married, his wife Jiao Xiao always advised Xiao Mo to study harder. For him, Jiao Xiao spent a lot of money to buy books for her husband Xiao Mo, invited people to improve his literary talent with him, and took out his private money to let him go out and make friends with people with lofty ideals. Jiao Xiao's efforts were not in vain. Three years later, Xiao Mo graduated from high school and was shut down.

Xiao Mo is riding a horse in official clothes on his way home. On the way, he heard someone laughing at him as the son-in-law of the head of the beggar group. Xiao Mo was very unhappy after hearing this. He wants to know what he has achieved today, but he is not afraid of those rich and powerful aristocratic families calling themselves professionals. The more he thinks about it, the angrier he gets. After returning home, Xiao Mo took Jiao Xiao to take office by boat. In the evening, Xiao Mo was very uncomfortable at the thought of marrying the beggar leader's daughter. An evil idea suddenly flashed through his mind. He woke up his sleeping wife, Jiao Xiao, and took Xiao Mo to the boat on the grounds of enjoying the moon at the stern. Inadvertently, he pushed his wife into the water, and then he immediately woke the boatman and let him continue sailing.

Maybe Jiao Xiao's life shouldn't be doomed. She has just been saved by a big official named Xu Dehou, who happens to be the leader of Xiao Mo. Xu Dehou and his wife heard what happened to Jiao Xiao, and they were very sympathetic to her. The couple decided to accept Jiao Xiao as their adopted daughter and promised to find a reliable son-in-law for her, but Jiao Xiao refused, because she thought the marriage should be consistent. Since she married her husband Xiao Mo, she won't marry anyone else.

Xu Dehou had to arrange a matchmaker to talk to Xiao Mo. When Xiao Mo heard that his leader wanted to recruit himself as a disciple, he was very happy and immediately agreed. On the wedding day, Xiao Mo walked into the new house, but was beaten by the girl's mother-in-law with a stick. It was not until Xiao Mo shouted for help that the bride stopped the girl's mother-in-law. Xiao Mo lifted the bride's red veil and was surprised. The bride was none other than his wife Jiao Xiao, who personally pushed her into the water.

After Xiao Mo was beaten up on her wedding night, she reconciled with her wife Jiao Xiao that night, and the relationship between them was better than before. This is a story in Feng Menglong's "So Speak Out", which tells the story of the heartbreaker and Xiao Mo abandoning his married wife. One must choose the right person to get married.

1, appropriateness is very important.

Xiao Mo is a poor scholar and Jiao Jiao's family is a beggar, but he is also a rich man. Xiao Mo doesn't really like Jiao Xiao, but he hates each other very much. He is just poor and regards Jiao Xiao as a temporary wife candidate. Once he succeeds, he will probably abandon his wife. So when they get married, their feelings are stable and harmonious.

2. Leave someone who doesn't love you.

In the story, Xiao Mo abandoned his wife Jiao Xiao, but Jiao Xiao still didn't leave Xiao Mo. It looks a bit silly today. So, if a person doesn't love you, it's better to go and find someone who loves him, instead of being with him.

3, two people pay each other to balance the relationship.

In this relationship, Jiao Xiao spent a lot of money and energy to help her husband, but her husband took Jiao Xiao's contribution for granted. In my opinion, this relationship must be unbalanced. A good relationship state must be that two people give to each other, and such love is healthy. What do you think of Xiao Mo in the story?