What details indicate the failure of blind date? With the development of the times, more and more people begin to accept blind dates to get to know the opposite sex. In fact, if you want to know how successful the blind date is, you can judge it by some details. Let's discuss which details indicate the failure of blind date.
What details show that the blind date failed?
In order to alleviate the embarrassment after meeting, many people will introduce themselves first, and then introduce the situation at home. But some people ask their partner's RV as soon as they get up, no matter what they like, which obviously makes the blind date fail.
Keep looking at your mobile phone
The other person keeps looking at her mobile phone, which means she has something on her mind. If the conversation is good, she will tell you because she has something important to do. If the conversation is not very pleasant, she wants to end the conversation with you as soon as possible, so when you see the movements of the object, the blind date fails.
Leave no contact information
If the other person doesn't have a crush on you, she generally won't leave you contact information, even if she does, it will disappear, so when you encounter this situation, don't pester the other person for contact information, and there is no need to get along.
Hardly speak.
Some people's silence is not a good thing. Of course, it is understandable that many people talk less when they meet for the first time, but if they talk less and ask for answers, or even just answer a few words, it is obvious that the other party doesn't want to associate with you, but it is hard to say it, so they can only silently refuse.
Impatient
Some impatient people have a bad temper when dating, so they finally show their impatience to the fullest. Think about it and you'll know the result. Either the other party doesn't want to, or the other party deliberately spoils the game, or wants the blind date to fail.
egoistical
Many boys don't subconsciously care about the people around them when dating. They eat together and don't even give napkins to girls. What's more, they just eat by themselves. At this time, girls will be very sad and disappointed. Even if they manage to finish the meal, it is estimated that there will be no next time. Who wants to have dinner with such a person? Let alone a blind date.
Go home alone.
If you go home alone, I believe you know what's going on without others saying. If the blind date is successful, the boy won't let you go home by yourself. He will take you home and then go home by himself. If he lets you go home alone, it's that he doesn't agree, and the blind date can only end in failure.
The basic situation is as follows:
Send a message to the woman after the blind date comes back, and don't answer the phone;
The woman took the initiative to send a message saying that we were not suitable;
Invite the woman again and keep saying that she is not available; (such as eating, watching movies, etc. )
Through the introducer, she felt that it was not very appropriate;
Often silent when dating, the woman excuses to leave;
The first reason for the failure of blind date: social dating habits.
Everyone says that girls over 30 are day lilies, and 32-year-old Xiaoli is a picky ghost in the eyes of relatives. Mom and dad let seven aunts and eight aunts find all kinds of blind date objects, and they have never really succeeded until now. They often met once or twice, and they all died in the end. Why do blind dates fail many times? That's because you're really not distracted!
Good white skin, dignified appearance, cheerful personality, no bad hobbies, stable work income. The family sat together and analyzed the reasons why they couldn't find a partner. Finally, it was found that her living habits affected her life, so there were some problems in social dating. Every time I come back from a blind date, my parents always call the first time to find out the situation, and the answer is: not bad, just so-so. So my parents said, because you only met once, you don't know each other well, so it's good to know more.
Three or five years have passed in a flash. During the Spring Festival, the matchmaker in my hometown introduced a 37-year-old unmarried man. Under the attack of both parents, the two met several times and kept in touch with each other by mobile phone. However, the matchmaker called Xiaoli's parents many times and said that Xiaoli's mobile phone often couldn't get through. Xiaoli's parents explained that because she is the manager of a coffee shop, the service industry can't check her mobile phone in time every day. The matchmaker asked again: if you don't answer the phone or reply to the text message too late, at least return it to others after work, otherwise it will be considered as a deliberate refusal.
Love skills
Once, in order to give her a surprise, a man went to pick her up after work at night. I didn't expect Xiaoli to leave the store. The night before yesterday, the man said Xiaoli was lying to herself and sent a questioning text message at night. The next day, he asked the matchmaker to call Xiaoli's parents. In fact, Xiaoli was at a relative's house that night. At this time, Xiaoli's parents realized that her daughter's habits for so many years would have such influence and misunderstanding. No wonder there were so many blind dates before that they all went away.
Xiaoli is also a big boy. Her parents went out to work when she was a child. When the left-behind children grow up, she has little dependence on others. She always thought she was doing well alone. She is addicted to her job. She always seems to feel good, but she doesn't feel too old to get married. Strangely, everyone is highly dependent on mobile phones now, but she is a person who tolerates the remaining 15% power in her mobile phone, so that others can never contact her.
Born in the fast information age, whether out of courtesy or in essence, it is really a headache not to call back to find someone, let alone date.
The second leading cause: occupational disease.
Haoyu was born in a second-tier city. After graduating from junior college, he worked as a mechanic in a shop in 4S for four years. Later, with the vigorous development of the real estate industry, it is said that selling several suites a year in real estate sales is worth a year's salary for office workers. So, he switched to real estate sales, struggled for three years, and bought a suite with his own skills to prepare for his future marriage.
But what I didn't expect was that years of sales work had a subtle influence on his life. The most puzzling thing is that even when he was dating, the woman thought he was selling real estate and houses. When we first met and chatted, we asked the woman's topic:
What is your salary? If you don't work, follow me, and you will earn several times as much money. Do you have any plans to buy a house? XXX district has great potential. I believe I won't lie to you. Don't listen to those advertisements. Do come to me when you buy a house. Is there enough money? How big a house are you going to buy? If you are my future girlfriend, I can also lend you money to buy it. It is right to invest more. ....
The topic of the whole meeting and WeChat chat is around the house, proudly proving their achievements, but I don't know that the woman's heart has been questioned or even disdained. I thought I was mistaken for a blind date and told my parents the truth directly. The woman said to Haoyu: You are a hard-working man. In front of you, love is second to career. I don't want people like you. In fact, the subtext of the woman's heart is: is this a business, a blind date? She wants to brainwash me and let me buy a suite!
Remember that blind date, any small shortcoming of the other party can be the focus of veto. It is said that falling in love is because each other's bright spots are together, so blind date can gradually dig out the trust and trust that can last a lifetime with t a on the premise of accepting each other's imperfections. Do things for others, don't get into a dead end. Only by saying what you are good at and looking for similarities can you continue.
The third reason: "the door is right."
The "right person for each other" here not only tells everyone that it is the family background of both sides, but many people look at the "label" to choose a spouse, and it is also because the "label" is too positive for a person, but it has the opposite result.
Huai Ming was born in an intellectual family. His parents taught in a university, and Huaiming's sister was admitted to a graduate school and successfully entered a public institution. Only Hao Ming rebelled when he was a child. Under the persuasion of his parents, he went to a junior college after finishing high school. Two years after graduation, he married a nurse in a city hospital on the recommendation of his parents. In the eyes of parents, people engaged in medical treatment are good-natured, gentle and virtuous, and have stable jobs. The nurse got married at the urging of her parents.
However, after half a year of marriage, the nurse repeatedly asked for a divorce, and all her friends laughed at her for being stupid. How good their family conditions are, and several houses in the city center have no worries about food and clothing. However, she said: If the person who sleeps next to me every day is a person who only plays games, turns upside down day and night, and always treats himself as a child, I don't know what the purpose of marrying him is? Do you expect to rest on your laurels in the future?
I chose his home because of his parents' occupation, but I didn't expect my son to be a cynic. They also think that I am smart and sensible, but in the end, I still can't get along. It's my three views on this man!
Nowadays, blind date is like a hundred poisons to many older young people. But most of the time, it's not that they don't want to find the other half, but that if they are afraid of some people's ideas and barely cope, I don't think it's necessary and waste time, so that after N times, it's hard to extricate themselves. How can they meet ta at first sight!