Can you get 100% of the resources only by the mutual affection between Fan and Andy's neighbors? Not necessarily. When Bao Yifan promised Qu Xiaoyu, he repeatedly said that he was just introducing her and was not responsible for the rest. Also let Xiao Qu dress formally; And asked her if she wanted to find a technician or something. As you can see, even for Qu Jia's attractive influence, he still needs to think twice, what's more, what about Wang Baichuan who won't get any benefits?
You come and go, and resources are equal. So in the future, no matter Andy, Qu Xiaoyu, Singularity or Bao Yifan, these five girls can't help each other because of friendship. There is mutual affection, but we still have to fight for it ourselves in the future. Although hard work can change everything, everyone is born with an established ceiling. No matter how hard Wang Baichuan tries, he can only reach the level of standing in Shanghai, and he will never become the second "Lao Tan" or "Lao Song". But seeing through the limitations does not mean that efforts are useless. As long as we keep moving forward and constantly break through ourselves, we can also spell out a world. But if you don't do it, there is nothing.
Fan Meisheng is his weakness. The biggest limitation of Wang Baichuan's career is fan Mei Sheng. He is a sentimental person. After graduating from college, he came to Shanghai to develop. In the past ten years, there has always been only one person in Fan's heart. He said: Keep it in your heart and forget it every day. This lingering love deserves to be touched and praised, but it will also hinder the development of the cause.
He loves Fan Meisheng and is considerate of her everywhere. In the play, he knew that Fan's brother had hit someone and the creditor came to collect debts. Fan is in a difficult position. He tried to help, but he was turned down. Later, Fan's father suddenly fell ill and lay in bed waiting for money to save his life. Wang Baichuan turned to Andy and Singularity for help, and Xiao Qu used carrot and stick to force Fan Meisheng's mother to sell the house and save her father's life.
Aside from the complicated family of fans, his true feelings for fans alone are enough to affect his career development. Family, which makes our life more fireworks, also consumes a lot of energy. Take Fan as an example. If she didn't spend her spare time on blind date and communication, she would be above the average level in ten years. This is why many successful people are still single.
Of course, this is not to say that attaching importance to feelings is not a good thing. I can only say that we are all ordinary people, just enjoying an ordinary life. No one wants to be a millionaire while enjoying the happiness of ordinary life. It is difficult to balance work and life, just find your own happiness.
Character is his constraint. Wang Baichuan's character defect lies in his lack of self-confidence, which is the key to hinder his career. Ten years after graduation, he wanted to meet Fan, but he was not confident, so he rented a BMW, invited her to a high-end restaurant and gave her a brand-name gift, giving her the illusion of success in her career. Maybe he is too eager to get it, so he will choose to hide it; Perhaps love is too humble for him to tell the truth; Maybe he cares too much, so he is just waiting for himself. ...
In this kind of relationship, he only pays, even dare not ask for anything, and can only be passively controlled by the model. Look at Singularity's step-by-step pursuit of Andy, and Bao Yifan's bold action of pursuing Andy, and you will know that Wang Baichuan is actually a very inferior person at heart.
Because he was too afraid of losing it. He is afraid that if he says one more word and goes a little too far, he will be rejected or even have no chance. In fact, the feeling of doing business and negotiating is the same, both of which are psychological games. Wang Baichuan lost his feelings, so naturally it is difficult to get the upper hand everywhere in business.
Wang Baichuan, throughout his life, can only be a thrifty person. All he can give Fan is a basic life in Shanghai. If Fan is still addicted to the emotional appeal of the upper class, two people will not be happy even if they get married.
As Andy said, many successful studies are illogical incitement. We should work hard, just try to make life better, instead of trying to be the second Bill Gates. Realistic goals and steady steps. All you can have is your happiness. You can imagine the end of going beyond the limit to pursue what you can't get.
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