"How did you find a wife when you were so beautiful?"
"I'm a talent scout!"
When asked how he met his wife, Li Jian replied jokingly.
Although Li Jian is not a talent scout, what he said is true.
Because of her good looks, his wife Meng Xiaobei was indeed discovered by the scouts, but she just devoted herself to academic research and refused to enter the entertainment circle directly.
Many people are surprised at who Meng Xiaobei really is and who can capture the hearts of a generation of talented musicians.
After learning Meng Xiaobei's resume, I will sigh that Li Jian is "the highs" after all.
Making tea, planting flowers, making coffee, taking photos, drawing pictures and cooking. As a wife, Meng Xiaobei can be said to have got a kitchen under the hall and mastered all 18 martial arts.
Compared with these, however, it is even more surprising that Meng Xiaobei is a female doctor in Tsinghua University.
When I was young, I was even discovered by scouts because of my outstanding appearance. It is really enviable to have such a beautiful woman with both talents and looks as a wife.
One is a humble and low-key musical talent, and the other is a talented woman from Peking University. Why did two people with such excellent genes persist for nearly 20 years, Dink?
Meng Xiaobei was especially like a Russian girl when she was young. She was born with yellow hair, snow-white skin and deep eyes, and she was as beautiful as a doll.
That summer, ten-year-old Li Jian met five-year-old Meng Xiaobei.
Although he was still young at that time, Li Jian remembered Meng Xiaobei, nicknamed "Little CIS Girl" by his father at a glance.
Later, it was seven years later. At this time, Meng Xiaobei was slim and graceful. Although her face is slightly childish, you can see at a glance that she is a beauty embryo.
At the wedding of relatives, twelve-year-old Meng Xiaobei and seventeen-year-old Li Jian met again.
Although separated by seven years, Meng Xiaobei recognized the familiar figure-teasing her big brother when she was a child.
"Just because I saw you again in the crowd", just like the artistic conception described in the lyrics, their eyes crossed the vast sea of people and looked at each other like this.
Like destiny takes a hand, time stops in an instant, as if only they are looking at each other.
If you are innocent when you are young, then the reunion when you are young is the seed of love and destiny takes a hand.
The eye contact that day was so profound that when Li Jian wrote the song Legend, Meng Xiaobei accompanied him.
Later, Li Jian was walked to Tsinghua University. He loves music and formed his own band at school. Meng Xiaobei, who is full of admiration for Li Jian, now regards this big brother as his idol.
In her spare time, Meng Xiaobei would shyly hold a notebook and ask Li Jian for advice. When he is free, Li Jian will also teach Meng Xiaobei to sing.
In the shade of the school, the boy sang on the guitar and the girl listened with her chin cupped. Time seems to have solidified at this moment, and unconsciously, the seeds of love have sprouted slowly.
"Meng Xiaobei, Meng Xiaobei, I'll call you Little Shell in the future." Li Jian nicknamed Meng Xiaobei "Little Shell".
It was just a whim, but the name "little shell" has been called for twenty years.
Meng Xiaobei regards Li Jian as her idol. In order to stay away from her idol, she also wants to take the Tsinghua exam.
Five years later, Miss Jie, who once ran behind her eldest brother, finally got into Tsinghua with her own efforts. The longer she grows, the more beautiful she becomes.
There are many boys chasing her, but Meng Xiaobei always has a Li Jian in her heart.
As a girl, Meng Xiaobei wants to remain reserved and dare not confess. She took the initiative, fearing that years of friendship would be destroyed.
But at that time, she would never have thought that Li Jian had touched her heart.
In 2002, Li Jian composed the song Legend. What Meng Xiaobei didn't know was that Li Jian wrote this song for her.
Only at that time, Li Jian wanted to be busy with music and didn't show much to Meng Xiaobei.
Until later, after the fire, Li Jian quit the group, and he suddenly lost his way in fame. After seven years of retirement, he hid in a dark little house and composed music alone.
However, Meng Xiaobei has been with Li Jian for seven years.
Because she knew that this was the time when Li Jian needed support most. He pretends to be indifferent on the surface, but in fact, his inner bitterness has never been told to others.
At that time, Li Jian was very poor, even though he lived in poverty. Also ushered in the most sad bottleneck period in his own music creation.
Li Jian wanted to write his favorite folk songs, but in the 1990s, pop music was so popular that few people bought his music. Even friends around him began to persuade him to rewrite it.
Once arrogant talented musicians began to question. Li Jian, who once had full confidence in his music creation, began to doubt whether he should stick to the music path he chose.
But fortunately, he has been accompanied by a little girl "Little Shell" since childhood.
The audience didn't appreciate the songs written by Li Jian, so Meng Xiaobei begged Li Jian to sing and let him listen alone. When Li Jian sings, she will listen quietly, and when Li Jian reads, she will read with her.
Even though the whole world didn't appreciate Li Jian at that time, in Meng Xiaobei's eyes, her eldest brother was always the brightest existence.
Seven years for one person is hard, but seven years for two people can be spent together.
Accompanied and supported by Little Shell, Li Jian survived the most difficult seven years.
Seven years later, his talent was finally discovered by the world, and more and more people like him, but it has not changed for so many years, and Meng Xiaobei has always been around him.
Even if the fire, Li Jian has kept a low profile, this, Meng Xiaobei and he is the same.
After graduating from Tsinghua University, Meng Xiaobei continued to study in school, finishing her master's degree and doctor's degree successively. Before others knew that she was Li Jian's wife, she was a doctoral student in Tsinghua University.
For many years, Li Jian has never announced his love life to the outside world. In his view, as a public figure in this society, his love life can only go far without being disturbed.
So Meng Xiaobei never asked Li Jian to reveal their relationship. As long as we trust and understand each other, why do redundant people need to know the feelings of two people?
Li Jian likes reading, followed by Meng Xiaobei;
Li Jian likes drinking tea, and Meng Xiaobei learns to make tea;
Li Jian was keen on music creation, and Meng Xiaobei gave him the greatest support.
Some people say that Li Jian and Meng Xiaobei have been together for so many years, without a formal wedding, their own house or even children. How did Meng Xiaobei persist for so many years?
Maybe this is the tacit understanding between two people.
They don't like their personal feelings being disturbed. The fewer people know, the more you can enjoy the sweet space that belongs to only two people.
There is no wedding, no house of your own, and material things are just a form.
The marriage between Meng Xiaobei and Li Jian is not only a combination of two people, but also a high fit of two souls. It is difficult for people who don't reach that level to understand their love.
As for Dink's choice, Meng Xiaobei also fully supports her husband's choice. For a knowledgeable family like them, the pressure of raising children comes not from material things, but from spirit.
Raising a child is not just about spending time and money. The most important thing is education. When a child can't be guaranteed a good education, choosing Dink is often the most responsible decision.
So Meng Xiaobei and Li Jian's feelings are pure.
There is no conflict of interests and values. Two highly compatible souls stay together and spend all their thoughts on dreams and life.
Meng Xiaobei said: "During the holiday, my husband leaned against the door to watch me clean up the teahouse. He said with a smile, our present state can be combined into one word. Guess what-just stand by and watch. "
In the heart of "Little Shell", Li Jian will always be her idol. A simple "sir" expresses her ordinary but deep love.
They turned rice, oil and salt into poems and paintings in the book, and stood hand in hand at dusk, accompanied by stars. The book was half-dead, and the night was already deep.
They are the same two souls, but they light up different lives. Although the pace of life is fast now, in their world, there is only enough to love one person in a lifetime.
The meeting at the age of five paved the way for a half-life love. It sounds like a love story in a fairy tale, but Meng Xiaobei and Li Jian staged it in reality.
20 15 During Li Jian's concert in Beijing, a photo of him and Meng Xiaobei suddenly appeared on the big screen, but Li Jian's first thought was that the exposure of Meng Xiaobei's photo would affect her life.
Meng Xiaobei worshipped Li Jian all his life, and Li Jian cared about Meng Xiaobei all his life. Li Jian is not so much to protect his wife and family as to keep a low profile.
Someone asked why such a romantic couple didn't go on their honeymoon, but both Meng Xiaobei and Li Jian replied, "We have been on our honeymoon all our lives."
"Just because I took one more look at you in the crowd, I never forgot your face."
I met at the age of five and fell in love at the age of twenty. From childhood to adolescence, from ignorance to maturity, the life situation has been changing. Fortunately, that person has not changed.
The love between Meng Xiaobei and Li Jian is very simple.
Just like their simple souls, they only do one thing and love one person all their lives.
"choose a city to die, and meet one person with a white head."
The most romantic thing, of course, is to join hands with the person you love the most.