1. Personality condition: 1. A person with relatively healthy psychology is a happy person who loves life and has good adaptability. He can properly handle his own psychological conflicts and eliminate daily interference, thus ensuring the smooth progress of helping others; He is a helpful person. Only a helpful person can give warmth to the client in the consultation relationship, create a safe and free atmosphere, accept all kinds of positive and negative emotions of the client and enter the inner world of the client; 3, is a serious and responsible person. Patiently listen to the client's narrative, concentrate on it, make the client feel concerned about their difficulties, be able to talk to the client sincerely and frankly, and make them willing to expose their inner privacy and secrets, which is worthy of their trust.
Second, knowledge conditions: to do psychological counseling well, you must have the necessary theoretical knowledge. Psychological counseling does not rely on good wishes, enthusiasm and common sense to comfort, persuade troubled parties or encourage psychological patients to fight diseases. Psychological counseling and psychotherapy are scientific work. We should use the scientific knowledge of helping others to help the parties, let them understand the real reason that bothers them, correct or give up their maladjustment, and make them psychologically mature.
Third, the necessary technical conditions: psychological counseling doctors should have skilled help skills, including how to collect information about visitors in the shortest time, make troubled situations or events, the time when symptoms appear and their development and changes, and how to ask questions in a timely and alert manner. How to find the unconscious cover-up and resistance of the parties? How to guide them to gradually understand the crux of their own hearts, how to design some corresponding methods to correct some bad behaviors, especially for neurotic children, how to explain something to customers in time, what to explain, and so on.