Netizen Xiaoli sent me a private letter saying that her house was demolished, but her mother-in-law went to her parents all day to ask for a house.
Xiaoli and Xiao Wang are in free love, and their economic conditions are similar. Although Xiao Wang's mother was somewhat strong, fortunately Xiao Wang loved Xiaoli more, so they joined hands to enter the marriage hall.
Xiaoli is an only child. When Xiaoli got married, her parents told Xiaoli that she would give this house to Xiaoli after a hundred years, but it was this house that made Xiaoli very headache.
The house for Xiaoli is about to be demolished. Although Xiaoli's parents said they would give it to Xiaoli, it would take them a hundred years to hand over the ownership of the house to Xiaoli. At present, Xiaoli's parents still have the house.
Xiaoli and her husband have never had any idea about this house of Xiaoli's parents, and naturally they will not urge their parents to transfer the house to themselves, but her mother-in-law is very concerned about this matter. If something happens, she will go to Xiaoli's parents' house to urge them to transfer the house to Xiaoli.
Xiaoli's parents naturally understood Xiaoli's mother-in-law's thoughts, so they told Xiaoli that if there was any demolition money, they would also deposit the money on Xiaoli's card, but Xiaoli's mother-in-law was always worried about putting the house in Xiaoli's parents' name, so she told Xiaoli that this house is your parents' dowry and naturally our family's property, so we should transfer the house to you as soon as possible.
But Xiaoli doesn't think so in her heart. Xiaoli thinks that although this is a dowry given by her parents, how can it be regarded as the property of your family? Besides, their parents only have their own children. What's the difference between giving early and giving late?
Xiaoli's mother-in-law holds another view that the house should be transferred to her name as soon as possible.
Emotional analysis. In fact, in Xiaoli's case, it is not difficult to find that Xiaoli knows that money can't run away, not to mention that these are her parents. Even if she doesn't give it to Xiaoli, what's wrong? That's their property, and they naturally have the right to decide.
They want to give it to Xiaoli, and Xiaoli is very grateful. They don't give Xiaoli, and Xiaoli shouldn't have any complaints.
It is really wrong for Xiaoli's mother-in-law, which is likely to affect the relationship between the two families, not to mention her in-laws.
For Xiaoli's mother-in-law, it can be said that it is a rogue practice.
Emotional information. It is a favor for others to give you, and it is their obligation not to give you. They have 100% right to decide what belongs to them. They can decide whether to give it to you or not.
For some unreasonable demands, we naturally have to take a refusal attitude.