Women are emotional species, born in born to love. Because they attach great importance to love, they are easily trapped and hurt by love.
Whether it is love or marriage, it is easy for women to immerse themselves in this relationship, so that they can devote themselves wholeheartedly, even put all their eggs in one basket, even at the expense of moths to the fire.
No matter in real life or in classic literary works, countless women are trapped and hurt by love.
Although love is beautiful and marriage is desirable, this emotional road is often uneven and far from smooth sailing.
As a woman, before you put it into practice, you should think well and be prepared.
For love and marriage, someone once said:
Love is a kind of mental work, and marriage is a kind of physical work. Love is like playing bridge, it all depends on calculation; Marriage is like playing mahjong, all by luck.
To this end, women must use their brains diligently, make good use of their wisdom, and spend more time on feelings and marriage in order to harvest their love and marriage.
Be a strong inner self.
The weather is unpredictable and people are unpredictable.
Life is like this, feelings are the same, who can say whose feelings can't stand the wind and waves, there are no twists and turns.
When a woman encounters setbacks in love or changes in marriage, she should dare to face up to the cruelty of reality, be brave to be a strong inner self, not be sad by things, not be confused by lovelorn, and not be suppressed by marriage.
A woman with a strong heart can better resist all kinds of storms in the emotional world, withstand all kinds of tests of life, and have the strength to withstand unpredictable changes from love and marriage and avoid being hurt by love.
Just like Luo Zijun in "My First Half Life", after a sudden change in marriage, if you don't constantly rely on yourself to overcome your inner weakness and make your heart stronger day by day, there will be no Luo Zijun born again in the future.
It's just that Malik Yili, if it weren't for her profound insight into marriage and her inner strength, she wouldn't have enough courage to calmly say that sentence when facing her husband's affair: "Marriage is not easy, but it can be cherished"!
Therefore, only a woman with a strong heart can resist the storm of love and marriage, see the rainbow after the storm, and avoid being injured in love and marriage.
That's how emotional rivers and lakes are. As long as you have a stone in your heart and stand firm, others can't hurt you.