As soon as people are born, troubles follow. Since we know that this is a helpless thing, we should accept our fate.
It is much easier to accept one thing than to change it. But many people don't want to accept the reality, don't want to believe what has happened, and desperately want to change the facts. The more they live, the more painful they are.
Seasons alternate, year after year, day after day, and everything becomes the past. What you really need to do is to live in the present and seize what you want, instead of fighting against the past.
In fact, all the losses in life will be compensated in another way, with gains and losses. Gain and loss is a normal state, and what has been experienced is destined to be experienced.
A friend Zhang said, "When a person really climbs uphill, he is probably in his forties." Why do you say that? At the age of twenty-three, a person wandering in society is ignorant and will never have experience. Besides, when I was young, I relied on my parents. When I was only forty years old, I suddenly felt all kinds of pressure.
Parents are counting on you to provide for the aged. There's nothing they can do anymore. Children grow up slowly and expect you to send them to the best school. And you, suddenly lost all your dependence, like a lonely boat, drifting in the sea of Wang Yang, but you can't reach the shore, so you can only bite the bullet and rush forward.
A person who walks through thorns is very tired and weak. But as long as you work hard, you can make life have "waves and flowers". From the age of forty, I began to climb uphill, and the more I went back, the more exciting I became. If a person's good fortune comes too early, it is not a good thing.
The truly wonderful life is often a late bloomer, not the infinite scenery when you were young. Some people can buy a house and a car as soon as they leave school. Most bosses are not very good, but their parents pave the way for him. Life experience is not enough, and it is not enough to control the "good luck" of life.
Therefore, if you still have nothing, in fact, you are in the process of maturity, you will become smarter because of setbacks, and you will certainly rise from the bottom of your life.
The later life is, the more wonderful it is, which is what it should be. As the saying goes, "He who laughs last laughs sweetest." Believe in yourself, no matter what age you start, it is the best start.
True freedom is not unrestrained freedom, but limited freedom. One can't be overbearing in society. You should respect the rules of society and have a bottom line. Can't do things that violate the law and discipline; Things with people in front and ghosts behind them are all bad things and cannot be done; Flattery will make you happy for a while, but it actually violates the principle of being a man, so be alert.
When you have a person around you who will take care of you all your life and make you live very freely, even very uncomfortable, it is actually the person who loves you the most. You marry him and live together. When you were young, you quarreled, blamed each other and even fought, but the older you get, the more you depend on him and hold hands with your old love, and you will be happier in your later years.
Your parents often nag in your ear and even beat you. Their original intention is to "hate iron and not produce steel". When we were young, we were all punished by our parents. At that moment, I really wanted to fly away and never live with my parents again. When I grow up, I suddenly understand my parents at a certain moment, but I hope someone will nag me.
Losing freedom is actually gaining love. This mode of thinking will make you understand others from another angle and truly see yourself. To love and be loved is actually a "circle". Anyone who enters this circle enjoys happiness and loses some freedom. The person who would rather give his true love has actually given up all his freedom. He should be kind to you and not be ignorant.
Everything will come out at some point, but I won't give you the answer now. Many things are predestined and you can't change them. No matter how hard you try to change them, it's in vain. For example, every tree has fallen leaves, whether you keep the tree in a greenhouse or watch the fallen leaves fly. Time will definitely go, you can't stay.
In fact, we are all unique people. If you want others to live your way, you will do the stupidest thing. If you let things have a fixed ending, you will be disappointed.
In this life, we are all trying to write our own scripts, with sadness, happiness, helplessness and surprise. Anyway, it doesn't matter if you work hard, even if you can't write well and play well. It is not until the curtain falls that you can say with a clear conscience, "I am really great." Then, you are the best person.
Don't worry, no matter what you lose, you will come back, just in a different way, and you may not even realize it yourself. Lose old love and get new love; Without the love of parents, you are truly independent; If you lose your ideal, you will find a direction that suits you; Losing all your money will force you to turn over; You can walk freely without a companion; If you lose today's sunshine, you will have the most beautiful moonlight ... The key is whether you can hold on and keep a positive attitude when you lose it.
Zeng Guofan said: "Things come in line, but the future does not. At that time, it was not mixed, neither love nor love. " Adapt to what has happened, don't worry about the future, do well in the present, don't think about the past, and don't be afraid of the future.
You never know what will happen tomorrow. If you want to achieve great things, don't hesitate, don't be trapped by everything in front of you, and believe in the future, everything will be the best ending.
You know, when you cry because you lost something, you are far behind others.
The strong are all people who run with tears! Not afraid of tears, all wounds can heal themselves.
Author: coarse grains in cloth.
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