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Once a married woman loses her temper, some people will say that it must be menopause. Husband and children will also make her feel that she is in a bad mood and bad temper caused by physical problems.
Although she is always moody and makes her husband and children cautious, as long as she is allowed, the whole family will live in peace.
But there is another kind of woman, who has a bad temper, likes to nag and swear, and never stops. They often look at no one pleasing to the eye, and her husband and children are the first choice for her punching bag.
No matter what goes wrong outside, or if the husband and children are a little thoughtless or dissatisfied with her, they will not stop cursing.
At this time, they don't think about it: can their state and image be liked by their husbands and children?
Netizen Xiao Gan recently finished the college entrance examination, rested at home, and then was often baptized by fucking nagging.
One morning, Xiaoqian's aunt came to his house and cried, letting Xiaoqian's father make decisions for himself because his uncle had domestic violence. Penny's father asked for a morning off, and instead of going to work, he made a special trip to talk to Penny's uncle.
Then came back from work in the afternoon, and Xiaoqian's father was scolded. Because Xiaoqian's mother rubbed against someone else's car while driving out that day, she blamed Xiaoqian's aunt for crying when she came home early in the morning, saying it was an ominous sign.
Actually, that's not the point The point is, Penny's mother always hates Aunt Penny and comes to Penny's father for help. Therefore, I complained that my aunt on the third floor and those on the third floor of the inner building scolded her for caring too much about small money and her housework.
Dad didn't eat dinner, so he washed and went to bed. Penny tried to persuade her mother, so she said, "Mom, don't always call me aunt in front of dad. After all, she is her sister ... "
Before she finished speaking, Penny was scolded, saying that you turned your elbow outward and learned nothing, becoming a baiwenhang.
Penny had to hide in the house and didn't dare to close the door because her mother was still talking. Later, the wind closed the door. His mother thinks Penny slammed the door into Penny's room and killed him. Take out the old things, too. be endless ...
Penny is a good-natured child. She has been silent, but her mother is still not satisfied. She has been scolding the father and son these days, nagging about such trifles.
Xiaoqian said: "He really can't stay in this family. He hopes to leave home soon, and then he can't go home without going home. But he doesn't know if this is unfilial or sorry for his mother, but he really has no good way to face and deal with his mother's state. "
It is normal for a child and such a grumpy mother to have such an idea. Maybe every woman in marriage has dissatisfaction and resentment, but can't she lose her temper? How long will it take? Do you nag? There is still a difference.
Some women are practical, while others are endless and don't solve any problems. It can only make her husband and children unhappy and dislike getting along with her.
With such a hostess, the atmosphere at home is naturally bad, and neither husband nor children will want to go home, because there is no warmth and harmony at home, only malodorous.
Of course, Penny's father and Penny are also responsible. The responsibility is that they don't know how to make this "hostess" happy.
But in the face of a person who blows up a little bit, most people can't coax or tease freely and smoothly. If they are a little introverted, they can only choose to escape.
This is also the reason why many men don't want to go home, because women nag, because women always curse and lose their temper.
Some tempers are caused by men's thoughtlessness, but others have nothing to do with them. Therefore, if a woman has a bad temper and loves to nag, she should still reflect on herself, because it is not good for herself at all.
If you want to control the "members" at home, attract their attention and concern, and get more love and care from them, you can't lose your temper. This is not to establish prestige, but to make the other party more disgusted.
Express your dissatisfaction in another way, express your thoughts, demands and unhappiness in a pleasant way, don't scold at the beginning, and don't be endless. Otherwise, your husband and children will really get farther and farther away from you, so far that they don't want to go home.