Speaking of the house, Xiaojun is full of anger. She had many grievances to say, but at that time she didn't know how to vent them. She always thinks that her marriage will be ruined by the house. She doesn't want to, but it's true.
Things have to start from a few months ago. Xiaojun and her boyfriend Hui have been friends for two years. They are not bad to each other, both of them are old. Family members began to worry about their marriage, especially Xiaojun's family. Seeing that my daughter is in her early thirties, she will really become an older woman if she doesn't get married. However, Huijia is relatively less anxious. Hui, after all, is a man. Even in the fourth grade, she is still a good age.
Hui told his family that he wanted to marry Xiaojun. Hui's parents don't object to anything, only that they don't pay for getting married and buying a house. First of all, Hui has a younger brother who has not finished his studies and needs a lot of money. Secondly, the old couple had to save some money for their old age. Therefore, Hui's marriage is very desirable to them, but only physically.
Xiaojun told Hui that no matter whether they can afford it or not, if they get married, they must have a house. She can't be brave enough to marry a man naked. She has seen too many on-off and on-off, and basically dare not pin her happiness on a man's oath. She only believes the facts in front of her eyes.
Hui knows Xiaojun can't marry him without a house. She and he have feelings, but no one is stupid enough to eat feelings. Hui told her parents that she agreed to pay a down payment to Hui, but it was conditional to pay this down payment.
Two people took Hui's hand and said that women nowadays can't believe it too casually. Originally, the money was given to you, but people have to be mentally prepared. If this little soldier doesn't really live, and one day they can't live together, won't the house be divided into half for her? Instead of using this money to buy a house, it is better to temporarily deposit it in the hands of two old people. It's better to put it mildly than to put it mildly.
As for the married house, they can give the house they live in now to Hui and Xiaojun, but they cannot transfer it to Hui and Xiaojun.
Hui knew that Xiaojun would be furious when he heard such words. Therefore, before he conveyed these words to Xiaojun, he severely curbed his parents' thoughts. Hui said that he borrowed this down payment. After buying a house, he will do ideological work with Xiaojun and they will pay back the money together.
Hui said this, and her parents reluctantly agreed to his request. Its benefits did not inform Xiaojun about it. He felt that his parents thought too much and doubted Xiaojun, leaving him caught in the middle and not free. He decided to make his own decision and wrote an iou, but he hid it. He intends to pay back the money secretly after marriage.
The process of choosing a house was tortuous, but when it was finally decided, Hui's parents found him again. They told Hui seriously that the house can only write Hui's own name, and they hinted that Hui must leave a hand. However, Xiaojun participated in the whole process of buying a house, but they just didn't get the license. If Xiaojun's name is not written in the new house, can Xiaojun still marry him?
Hui once again refuted his parents' ideas. He knew that his parents were leaving him a good retreat, but he didn't trust his future wife from the beginning. He didn't believe that marriage would go well from the beginning. Hui listened to her parents and shook her head. He knew that Xiaojun's name had to be written on the real estate license.
The big house is finally in hand, and Hui is busy redecorating it. He wanted to tidy up the house according to Xiaojun's waiting, but then his parents came to discuss the house with Hui again.
They said that now that Hui has a big house, he will get married soon, but Hui's younger brother will graduate soon next year. They want to move to Hui's home, so they can also help take care of Hui. He and Xiaojun will have children sooner or later, and if they have children, they need the care of the elderly. So they still want to move in with Hui and leave their old house to Hui's younger brother.
Xiaojun shook his head when he said this. I asked her, in fact, it was right for the two old people to move in. Because they have children, they need the help of the old people, but Xiaojun said with a smile that she guessed the real purpose of the two old people before she could say it.
In fact, Hui's parents always felt that Hui was a little uncomfortable buying this house alone. They thought Xiaojun should at least pay something, so they came up with a way to live with Hui. First live together, and then say that it is inconvenient for two generations to live together. They insisted on moving to the small house Xiaojun bought before marriage.
Hui wrote Xiaojun's name on the big house, so they planned to ask Hui to persuade Xiaojun to transfer her own house to them. Xiaojun really didn't know what to say after hearing this ironic request.
In fact, some things are clear, and there may be room for discussion, but she always feels that others are fools who can't turn their heads. How can she stand such a thing? It hasn't been through the door yet, so calculate her, if it really goes through the door, she may not be calculated to death by them.
From the beginning, they didn't regard Xiaojun as their family. They think that marriage is between their family and Xiaojun's family. They won't suffer in this business, and they won't let go just because they are cheaper. Such a well-planned marriage is unbelievable and the feeling of happiness is strange.
Xiaojun looked at his early thirties. Maybe she won't get married now. She will have to wait another three to five years, and she will definitely meet the right person. But if the Hui family's conditions are compromised in this way, she is even more unwilling. Marriage really seems to be a transaction in the face of material benefits. She can make a temporary tolerance, but she can't compromise forever. Xiaojun later refused her in-laws' request because she didn't want to live in calculation all her life.