My boyfriend is from Xincai, Henan, and I am from Jiangxi. He wants to marry me before I talk to him. Let me take him home. But taking him home proved impractical.

Although, I don't know your boyfriend, as far as the Henan people I met around me are concerned, they gave me a bad impression. They are stingy, haggle over every ounce, do not pay attention to personal hygiene, and lack a sense of collective honor. Of course, not all people in Henan are like this, just a few, but your boyfriend is a calculating person! If you feel good to you and sincere to you, it is still worth getting along with. If it is not sincere to you, it is not worth it. Besides, you should not test people. If you want others to be sincere, you should be sincere yourself!