Ask Jeff Chang Shin-Che Shenche about his affair with his fan girlfriend ten years ago.

At that time, A Zhe went to Hong Kong to publicize, and a female fan who liked his flower shop followed him for five days in a row. On the last day of publicity in Hong Kong, a girl named "Zhu Xiaomei" stuffed A Zhe with a diary, which opened A Zhe's heart. From then on, A Zhe and Zhu Xiaomei exchanged letters and phone calls. Every time they went to Hongkong, they dated Zhu Xiaomei. However, Zhu Xiaomei's parents are firmly opposed to his association with A Zhe after they know that their daughter is in love with the same singer. A Zhe's several home visits still didn't help. Later their relationship was exposed by paparazzi. A Zhe didn't listen to the company's advice, but admitted the relationship in front of the media, because he thought it was disrespectful to Zhu Xiaomei not to admit it now that they were together. But in the end, Zhu Xiaomei broke up with A Zhe on the grounds that he couldn't stand the external pressure and went abroad with his parents. Because of this blow, A Zhe hid himself, and no one could find him. After a while, A Zhe released a new album, among which "Don't be afraid of my sadness" was particularly touching. Many people say that A Zhe sang that song for Zhu Xiaomei.