For the woman, you should know that the bride price has nothing to do with love. You can't say that you have to give me more bride price just because you love me. If you give me less bride price, you don't love my performance. You should be clear that the bride price does not represent love, it just reflects one aspect. Whether the bride price is necessary or not, and the amount of the bride price depends on the other person's family conditions, economic situation and the habits of your place. Where bride price is not advocated, it is not appropriate to ask for bride price excessively; It is not appropriate to ask for too much bride price when the other party's economic conditions are not plentiful; If the money will cause him a heavy burden, it is better to pay as much as possible. After all, you are a lover. Do you have the heart to let him marry you in debt? If you have filial piety, use the money you struggled together to honor your parents after marriage.
For the man, you should know that the bride price actually represents the face of this person to a great extent, especially the woman. In places where bride price is prevalent, it is not appropriate to have the ability to give bride price but not to give it; In the case of affluent economic conditions, it is not appropriate not to give a bride price. If her request is not too much, why not give it to her? After all, she will take care of your daily life. After marriage, there are many economic problems. Now she is so stingy. Will he help each other if you have something in the future?