For the sake of children's education, the mother tried her best and broke her heart. Meng Mu moved three times. In order to provide a good environment for the children to grow up, he did not hesitate to move his family, which was well-intentioned. Today's mothers are even worse at educating their children. Since kindergarten, they have taken their children to various interest classes, learning piano, calligraphy, nursery rhymes, Olympiad, English, swimming and painting ... No matter what they learn, they must be accompanied by adults, and their mothers are the main force of this accompanying reading group. At this time, both the senior intellectuals in the city and the peasant women facing the loess in the countryside showed considerable courage and perseverance, and some gave up their high salaries and became full-time mothers; Some live in rented houses near the school district; Some sell real estate just to make up tuition fees; Some teach themselves all kinds of parenting knowledge ... Mother's efforts continue to bear fruit. Young college students, young writers, champions of international Olympic mathematics, physics and chemistry competitions, challengers of young Guinness records ... more and more auras cover younger and younger children.
Compared with the mothers' painstaking efforts, it is the silence and resistance of children in the face of their mothers' higher and higher requirements. According to a survey, more than 60% children list the people they least like as their parents. When children have something to communicate, parents are only the fourth person to tell their partners. Children at a loss will choose many extreme ways to express their dissatisfaction.
I believe that every mother loves her children, and every mother hopes that her children can grow up healthily and become useful talents for the country. No mother will train her children for the purpose of destroying them, and no mother will foresee that she will be killed by her children one day. A mother loves her children without hesitation. They scrimp and save, leave the best for their children, give him the best nutrition and give him the best education. They have tried their best to urge their children to study. Their children's success greatly satisfied their hearts, and they selflessly dedicated themselves to their children's growth. It is precisely because of this blind love that they ignore the normal physical and mental development of children and mistakenly believe that children will live up to their pains if they become famous, successful and attractive, while ignoring the foundation of education. Huixianya Guoxue advises parents to pay attention to and understand the following issues:
First, what should be taught to children?
Deciding what to learn should be based on an important principle-the principle of comparative value. Spencer, a great educator, brilliantly pointed out: "The most important question is not whether this kind of knowledge has value, but its comparative value." Knowledge has comparative value, and any subject studied has its comparative value more or less. However, people's time and energy are limited. What should children learn first, then what to learn, and what to focus on ... Be cautious about this and put time and energy on the most effective knowledge. That is to say,
Second, what is China education?
Sinology education is an educational method that allows children to develop their high intelligence and cultivate their sound personality by contacting the traditional culture of China, which represents the highest wisdom of human beings, at the age when their brains develop fastest. Tang Xue, a sub-country in Huixian, believes that the classics of Chinese studies refer to the original works in various fields of knowledge at home and abroad, and are the most valuable and important cultural essence proved by history. The classic that best represents the essence of Chinese culture for 5,000 years is < < University > >. & lt& lt average > >. & lt& lt & gt。 & lt& lt Mencius >>. & lt& lt Lao Tzu >>. & lt& lt The Book of Changes; And other important works.
Third, children must read Chinese classics.
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It is a systematic "code of conduct". & lt& lt Disciple >> Educate children to know how to honor their parents, love their brothers and sisters, respect their teachers, get along with others on an equal footing, be polite, keep promises, and so on. These are all passes for a person to integrate into society and directly lay the foundation for their happy life.
& lt& lt a thousand words >>- the first choice for children's literacy textbooks.
Poems composed of 1000 non-repetitive Chinese characters are the best teaching materials for children to read. Set nature, society, history, education, ethics and other knowledge in one furnace. After learning <<'s a thousand words >> children can easily start reading and cultivate their interest in autonomous learning and the habit of inquiry learning as soon as possible.
& lt>-China's "Bible".
Since ancient times, "half & gt has ruled the world". It vividly teaches us the eternal law of life, and we should be familiar with it from an early age. & lt> can make people have an insight into human nature and understand life, no matter whether one looks at others or chooses friends in business, politics, enterprise management or even life. You can learn from & gt and draw great inspiration from it.
& lt university >>-China people must read a book.
Dr. Sun Yat-sen called this book "the unique treasure of China people" and it is a must-read book for China people. Reading < < University > > can cultivate children's honest and upright nature, help to establish a correct outlook on life and values, and build a big pattern of "self-cultivation, keeping the family in order, governing the country and calming the world" from an early age.
< < average > >-a guide to a harmonious life.
The "golden mean" means that people are not extreme, just and peaceful, and "mediocrity" means eternity. Therefore,> I am talking about eternal harmony. I have learned that & gt can develop leadership potential, cultivate the wisdom of dealing with interpersonal relationships and become a talent with high emotional intelligence (EQ).
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4. Nobel Prize winners and classic works
-Yang Zhenning, Li Zhengdao, Ding Zhaozhong, Yukawa Hideki.
Yang Zhenning said: "I doubt the law of taking risks and never dying, which is similar to what I learned in The National SouthWest Associated University & gt Experience. << book of changes >; There are yin and yang, yin and yang, or yin flourishes and yang declines, and yang flourishes and yin declines. It has been a great success for a long time. " Yang's father found a "different understanding" of mathematics. Wise father didn't strengthen and develop his son's talent, so he asked Tsinghua University Chinese teacher to teach him the quintessence of Chinese culture. Zhenning will recite the two holidays in junior high school. > He described classical culture as "as important as sunshine and water" to his personality formation, thinking method and scientific research.
Li Zhengdao was inspired by Zhou Dunyi: "The traditional culture of China has given me profound ideological enlightenment. The turbulent Taiji diagram profoundly expresses everything from cosmic nebulae to electron protons. "
Ding Zhaozhong grew up under the education of traditional culture. He said, "> He hopes that the next generation in China will have a new understanding and thinking about things, so that the experimental spirit can be truly integrated into the culture of China. Hui Xianya's Chinese studies have also met many celebrities and people who have benefited from traditional culture during these years of Chinese studies education.
Japanese Yukawa Hideki's mother is from China. He was inspired by >. , < Mencius >>, < Laozi >>, < Zhuangzi > He loves
Five, the classic achievements enrich life-Li Ka-shing, Wu Renbao, Zhang Ruimin
Li Ka-shing, the richest man in China.
Li Ka-shing was born in a scholarly family, and he could recite it at the age of three:>. & lt& lt & gt。 "At the beginning of life, human nature is good; Sex is similar and learning is far away. " It is in these children's books that they begin to be influenced by traditional culture. When I entered primary school at the age of five, I began to learn four books and five classics. Confucius said poetry. < & lt & gt。 & lt& lt Lao Tzu >>. & lt& lt Zhuangzi & gt；; . < < Li Sao > > With his life, he laid the foundation of national culture and national spirit. Li Ka-shing lamented: "The knowledge I learned when I was young is precious and will benefit me for life."
Huaxi Village in Wu Renbao
A farmer, with extraordinary political wisdom and almost innate entrepreneurial talent, survived day by day for decades, turned the red flag from a political-led era to an economic-led era, won the reputation of "the first village in the world" for Huaxi, and was selected as "80 people in the 80th anniversary of the founding of China". He dropped out of school after three years in a private school, and ". & lt Three-Character Classics >:> For example, "If the son doesn't teach, the father is at fault" ... His traditional Confucian culture and morality led the people in the west to create miracles.
President of Haier Group-Zhang Ruimin
I like three books best. . & lt& lt & gt。 < < The Art of War > > Zhang Ruimin said that Lao Tzu's Tao Te Ching was his favorite reading. I also like to consciously apply the excellent culture of the Chinese nation to management. "< < Lao Tzu > > helps me to establish the overall situation of enterprise management and development; & lt& lt Mencius >> Cultivate my heroic, unyielding, humble, enterprising and vigorous integrity; & lt& lt Grandson >> Help me form specific management methods and enterprise competitive strategies. " He frankly revealed his ambition: Japanese management (team consciousness and fighting spirit)+American management (personality stretching and innovative competition)+management essence in China traditional culture = Haier management model. In the final analysis, we want to build China's own brand. "
The wisdom of intransitive verb Mao Zedong and the four books and five classics.
Rivers do not choose streams. The key for Mao Zedong to become an unprecedented politician, thinker and educator in the history of China in the 20th century lies in his being a great scholar. The formation of Mao Zedong Thought benefited from some original works of Marxism-Leninism and rich social practice at that time. It is no exaggeration to say that most of his most basic ideas and methods can be found in China's excellent cultural classics. He commented that & gt batch processing & gt reading & gt. Research & gt. Read around & gt Check "A hundred schools of thought contend", especially the "Four Books" called Confucian classics (i.e. & gt. & lt& lt average > >. & lt& lt & gt。 & lt& lt Mencius >>) and "Five Classics" (i.e. & gt. & lt& lt Zhouyi >> & lt& lt < Shangshu >; . & lt& lt The Book of Rites; . The study, research, application and inheritance of < < Spring and Autumn > > undoubtedly played an extremely important role in the final formation of his leadership thought.
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2. The "mass line" comes from Mencius' "Ethnology".
"Serving the people" comes from & gt "Taking a trip to the main road is also a public service." ......
Thinking: Mao Zedong's study, mastery and application of the "Four Books and Five Classics" can be said to have reached a superb level. In his works, classics are full of vitality of "keeping pace with the times". Although he later severely criticized Confucius and Mencius and Confucian culture because of various political factors, Mao Zedong Thought would certainly be incomplete if he extracted the influence of the excellent classics of the Four Books and Five Classics. Mao Zedong still does, but it's time for us to abandon it. From the early education received by these Chinese and foreign celebrities, it is not difficult to find that it is inevitable for a person to absorb the best spiritual nutrition of human beings in childhood, cultivate the ability of self-study and independent thinking as soon as possible, and embark on an excellent life path.
7. Grasp the sensitive period of education.
According to the theory of children's brain development, children's intelligence and personality are 60% at 0-3 years old, 80% at 3-6 years old and 90% at 6-8 years old. After 8 years old, the development is gradually slow, and the most critical sensitive period of brain development ends after 13 years old. Then it is necessary to grasp the most critical sensitive period of children's brain development. But because of its immaturity, its mind is still pure, which is the most memorable stage in its life. After many years' summary, Hui Xianya's Chinese studies found that we should grasp the particularity of his memory and do a good job in education during this period. Ancient sages and sages were far-sighted, and invariably chose classics such as Four Books and Five Classics, Laozi and Zhuangzi as the main teaching materials to teach children to read them well, so as to achieve the purpose of reciting. In this way, they give full play to their good memory, learn the most valuable classics, immerse themselves in the aboveboard wisdom of sages, and exert a subtle influence on their temperament, and the value of classics will grow with their own life experience, which can help him overcome the difficulties in life and cultivate the ability to read ancient Chinese.
Eight, the idea of learning Chinese studies:
The method of learning Chinese studies can be very simple. As long as parents are patient, cooperate with teachers, make good use of their children's spare time, take their children into children's Chinese studies classes, and study with them, they will naturally recite and understand the meaning through teachers' persuasive explanations. There are only two key points in children's Chinese studies education. First, from the teaching materials, let him come into contact with the "most valuable books" and "eternal books", as long as they are valuable. Secondly, from the teaching method, it is to make him interested in classics, remember the original text by reciting, understand the connotation by learning, and then apply it to real life, that is, to learn classics, enlighten wisdom and improve character. Classic learning will benefit children for life.