How to fall in love and chat?

1, don't say something disgusting at the beginning, lovers in love often say something disgusting to each other. Although many words are true feelings, but in fact, for some newly met couples, this is a relatively taboo issue. Couples who have just met each other, don't tell each other how much I love you at the beginning, how big the mountain is and how big the sea is. Although these sweet words sound beautiful, they will make the other party think that you are frivolous and absolutely taboo. 2, feelings should be gradual and develop slowly. What girls are looking for is a stable boyfriend who can be entrusted for life. Boys should know how to step by step. Feelings are cultivated bit by bit, and there are still many days to come. Don't rush to the next step, and don't rush to say something too early when chatting. In particular, boys should not be too "impatient", some girls will be shy, and boys can wait until the relationship is closer before bringing up the topic of kissing or even closer. And girls should remember to be reserved, don't show that they hate getting married, and don't let others look down on themselves. 3, don't talk about some sensitive topics when chatting, even if the relationship between couples is too close, but after all, we just met, we still don't know what the other party's taboos are. Therefore, it is best not to mention some overly sensitive topics in the chat first, but to say some topics that the other party is interested in. Learn to listen when others are talking. For example, if the topic you mentioned is familiar to the other half, when they are talking in Kan Kan, don't interrupt each other, let them finish their views and opinions, and then you can express your feelings. 4, show concern for the other half when chatting, don't say drink more hot water! There is no doubt that caring for the other half can best show love for them. But if you want to show concern for your partner, you must know some methods, and you must also know some caring words that you must never say. For example, if the weather is cold, you can remind the other half to wear more warm clothes. However, drinking more hot water is absolutely taboo! Sometimes girls may tell their boyfriends that I have a stomachache, and boys reply to drink more hot water; When girls are sick, boys will say to drink more hot water. Drinking hot water is really helpful, but it's best for boys not to mention it, because your girlfriends will think that you don't care about them, and whatever you say is talking about drinking more hot water. Love chat method 1 1, don't worry about saying the wrong thing, many people just worry about saying the wrong thing, so many times they would rather choose silence than say something that they don't think is too profound. It is not advisable to have such an idea. The communication between lovers is to express their concern and understanding and achieve the purpose of enhancing their feelings. If you are afraid to say this in front of your girlfriend and are embarrassed to say that, what's the point? Therefore, we must dare to say that even if it is wrong, it doesn't matter, and the other party won't mind. 2. Know your girlfriend's hobbies. As the saying goes, it is the best communication skill, which is true, so you must find a way to understand your girlfriend's hobbies, whether she likes sleeping late or gluttony. Knowing this is very helpful for future communication and getting along. 3, looking for topics of interest, in the chat between the two sides, there is always a topic to discuss, in which the topic of interest for boys may be different from that for girls. Boys are more interested in current affairs, news, work and sports, while girls are interested in shopping, getting along with colleagues, movies and trivial things in life. When chatting with their girlfriends, they can talk more about topics she is interested in according to their own situation. 4. Make an interactive opening statement. After finding a good topic, you must be skillful in opening. Must not be descriptive or personal opening remarks, so that the other party has no chance to contact. This is a very unsuccessful opening. It must be interactive and mutually beneficial, so that the other party can participate as soon as possible. Love chat method 2 1, points of interest, everyone has their own points of interest, as long as they talk about their own points of interest, no matter how cute they are, they will shine, and it is inevitable that you will shout dota NO or lol NO in the university dormitory, which I think will spark a lot. So in the chat, you can introduce your interests first, and find out the songs of * * * when you know each other's interests. If you have different interests, you can expand your interests. For example, watching movies is directly related to painting, and writing is directly related to music. 2, career point, everyone must embark on the road of work after adulthood, work accounts for a large proportion in life! In dating, you can dig out the bright spots from your work, such as being curious about your work and wanting to know. For example, those who are still in school can talk about their learning points. 3, the focus is on whether there are points in the surrounding environment that can be spit out and whether there are points that can generate ideas during the dating process in your. These can all be used as talking materials. 4, the topic is the hot spots, phenomena in society, or your views on these things. For example, you can start from each other and praise each other's clothes carefully. Love chat method 3 1, the greatest interest, to increase the understanding between men and women, is increased through some topics, but which topics can be talked about and which topics can not be talked about, which also needs to be known. The first one is what is your biggest interest? Quickly judge whether you and the person sitting opposite you have the same topic. If you have the same hobbies, it will be a great opportunity to meet again. 2, music hobbies, talk about each other's hobbies in your spare time. It not only gives you a good topic, but also tests the connotation of the other party. What kind of music you like to listen to can reveal a lot of information: people who like rock, pop and symphony usually have different personalities. 3. Talk about friends and ask him if he has any good friends. What do you do with your friends? You'll know how he gets along with his friends, and you'll know more about whether the person you first date is a good person! Paying attention to his friends is definitely better than ignoring them. I know more about his family values and some personality problems than talking about his previous love history. 4, where to travel, travel is a topic that many people are willing to talk about, whether from the past or special experience sharing, to the place you want to go in the future, you can learn about each other's preferences and interests from one's thoughts and experiences about travel. If you are a girl who loves shopping, the other party says that he hates the shopping malls in Hong Kong or your small island which loves adventure and free sunshine, but he likes eating and drinking in big cities, so it is easy for you to have a simple imagination about the future. How to fall in love and chat 2. The interesting thing in life is falling in love because of love, and chatting is to let each other know each other better. So finding a topic in love can be an interesting thing in life. For example, in business and family, as long as interesting things happen in your life, they can be a good topic, so that the other party can get involved and understand some habits of the other party. Second, * * * the same hobbies all say that only with the same hobbies can there be endless topics. Although we talk about interesting things in life, many of them are about a person's life, which makes the other person feel no participation, difficult to talk about, and easy to talk fully. But * * * the same hobbies are different, and the two sides have contact, which makes it easier for people to be interested in talking about this topic. Humor Gossip Humor is also a good topic material, which can be a popular TV series or something about popular Weibo. This kind of topic is easy to find, and it is easy for the other party to improve their image. But this topic can easily make boys too mean, and it may also make girls feel bored. Every love has a transition period, that is, the process from knowing to liking. Many people are single because they can't handle this process well. We must go through this process quickly or slowly, depending on whether you use the right method or not. Just like from Guangzhou to Shanghai, thousands of kilometers apart. Our quickest way is to fly for a few hours. Of course, it can also take more than ten hours by car. Then, in this transitional period with girls, what we need to do most is to chat and exchange information between two people, so that both sides can get to know each other openly, whether online or face to face. So to chat well, this is also indirectly shortening the process. Salvage skills How to find a topic to chat in love, these three categories are the best topics, but we should also distinguish the types of chat objects. Lively and cheerful life interesting things are in line with her appetite for chatting; A fresh literary hobby can enhance her affection for you; In reality, the humorous gossip that loves beauty has won her heart. How to fall in love and chat 3 How to chat with your girlfriend at the beginning of love 1. Talking about each other's hobbies, you can't fully understand a person at once. You can ask your girlfriend about her hobbies, or you can talk about your hobbies. Sure, remember what you said. Don't end this appointment in a perfunctory manner, but accept some things mentioned in this chat happily in a sincere manner. In order to avoid being at a loss when you need to give gifts in the future. Ways to chat with your girlfriend II. Find a wide range of topics and take the initiative to find topics. Boys can take the initiative to find some topics at this time, but it should be a wider topic, because after the topic is too narrow, girls may not be interested, or you don't know what kind of topics girls like. At this time, a wide range of topics can avoid these problems. Of course, boys can also talk about what is happening around them or interesting things, which can not only adjust the atmosphere, but also keep the chat going. How to chat with your girlfriend 3. Observe your girlfriend's interest when chatting with her. When chatting with your girlfriend, you may be willing to observe whether your girlfriend is interested in these topics. If you are not interested, even if you feel bored, you should think about changing the subject. Pay attention to the sense of language. Sometimes the other person doesn't want to discuss this topic, but because you are in high spirits, I'm sorry to interrupt, but it won't be very pleasant to get along like this. When chatting, sometimes you should pay attention to the tone and content of your speech. Don't say so much that people don't know how to answer. This is particularly important. Consider the girl's position. How to chat at the beginning of love 1. Talking about hobbies When a relationship is just established, we need to get to know each other better. At this time, we can improve our understanding by talking about hobbies. We can also talk about each other's biggest interests, what they usually like to do and what their hobbies are, so as to know whether they have the same hobbies, and also know each other's life and experience, as well as their personality and taste. Second, talk about daily life. Many times when two people get along, there is really not much to talk about, but some special things will happen in life, so that when we get along, we can talk about some interesting, happy, fresh and sad things we encounter in daily life, so that the other party can see what they have experienced even if they are not around, and let the other party know more about themselves. Third, talk about childhood. Many stories will happen when everyone grows up. Childhood is a period that many people cannot forget. In childhood, there are always many things worth remembering. You can talk to each other about your childhood and the happy, sad, childish and interesting things that happened when you were young. Although your former partner didn't participate, you can learn about your's past through chatting, which can bring us closer together. Chatting skills in the early days of love 1, sending messages, and paying attention to the rules. When you find the right topic and the chat gradually reaches its climax, both sides' interests are mobilized. Remember, enough is enough. For example, tell the other person "I'm going out for a while" and "I have to answer the phone", so that you can end up in a wonderful atmosphere. If it continues, it may become a stage with nothing to say. It is better to stop at the right time and let the other person relive this chat experience and let the other person look forward to chatting with you next time. Just like food, if you eat enough at one time, the more you go to the back, the less you will experience the food, leaving room for both sides to start better next time. 2. Know how to implant a heart anchor. The development of two people's love from shallow to deep is often a process in which the impressions of both sides are gradually clear. In the early days of love, the other person often has a general understanding of you, but doesn't remember you very much. At this time. The importance of heart anchor is reflected. What is a heart anchor? In fact, the anchor in love is to look at things and think of people. For example, we often see that in film and television works, men and women often think of each other because of certain scenes or things. For example, seeing balloons and fireworks reminds the other person of you under certain circumstances and makes the other person's impression of you more and more clear. If you do nothing, the other person will think of you, which is more useful than doing anything. 3, appropriate push and pull In life, things that are not challenging often make people uninterested. For example, if you play a game, you will always think about it. However, if you find the external hook of this game for customs clearance, and all the difficulties are settled in front of you, then you will soon lose interest in this game, and so will love. The taboo of chatting at the beginning of love is 1. It is easy to mention the topic of ex in communication, but many boys don't know how to control it. Because girlfriends nowadays often ask you why you broke up with your ex, girls are always serious and want to find out how you broke up with your ex. Therefore, boys should never take the initiative to take the lead! 2. Make sense to girls. Boys are rational and girls are emotional. Many times, don't try to reason with girls, otherwise it will only make boys understand girls' hysteria. Sometimes, boys should try to tolerate girls and don't give girls reasons. After all, if you like her, you should spoil her and tolerate her. 3, emitting negative energy In fact, many times, girls want to get positive energy from you, while boys are always complaining, complaining about reality and blaming society. Occasionally, once or twice, girls will choose to understand, but if boys keep this negative state blindly, they will only let girls chat with you and think you are sad, so that they are unwilling to communicate with you too much.