Girls who live alone need to pay attention to the details. Nowadays, more and more girls rent houses by themselves, and women are vulnerable groups, so girls who live alone feel more secure. Let's share the details that girls who live alone need to pay attention to.
Details that girls who live alone need to pay attention to 1 First, find a house.
Living alone starts with finding a house. Generally speaking, fresh people who have just entered the society will not be too rich, so many girls will look for some relatively remote areas or some relatively old houses when looking for a house. This is natural, but there are still some things to pay attention to.
1, please try to find a good security area. If an area is mixed with dragons and snakes, the population composition is complex and public security accidents occur frequently, please don't choose here, even if the price is cheap.
Please try to find a large residential area with complete facilities. It's not just the city center that has large-scale residential areas. With the increase of urban population, more and more remote areas also have dense residential areas gradually built. The more perfect the facilities, especially the security, the more people live, the higher your safety factor.
Please try to find a house near public transportation. Most of the current jobs have the need to work overtime or work early, especially to save rent. Girls who live far away from the company are likely to leave early and return late in order to get to work on time. Then in winter with short days and long nights, you may travel in the dark every day, and if you live in a house far from public transportation, you have to say that your risk factor has really increased greatly.
4. Pay attention to your landlord. Don't trust the agent completely. Talk to the landlord at least once before renting a house. Try to observe the movements and eyes of the landlord, so as to infer the character of the other party. If possible, it is best to ask the landlord's family situation by innuendo. Please try not to rent the houses of children who are lewd, violent, take advantage of others, are financially strapped and have things that are not worth having, such as unemployment, alcoholism and gambling.
5. If you are satisfied with which house, please observe as much as possible (observation during peak hours can find the neighborhood components best), especially the neighbors who are close to you. You'd better choose neighbors who live with your family, couples with children, and even this runs in the family. With such neighbors, your living safety will be greatly improved. And if you see dishonest or suspicious people frequently appear in the building where you want to live, please be vigilant and focus on the investigation.
If your neighbor is a family of three or even five, try to get on well with them after you move in. Families with children and the elderly are generally stable and safe, and they can help each other when they encounter difficulties.
Second, keep an eye on the portal.
1. Be sure to lock the door when you leave home. Lock the door immediately after you get home. Check the doors and windows, water, electricity and gas before going to bed every night. Unplug the power when going out for a long time, and please take care of your familiar friends regularly. Home phones or mobile phones have shortcut keys for alarm. These are the most basic attempts, not to mention.
2. After staying in a house, change the lock. Your landlord and your last tenant are all people who can invade this house. Of course, there is a 90% chance that they are law-abiding citizens, but you can't bet your 100% personal safety on the character of strangers. Also, don't forget to keep the lock cylinder you changed and help others change it back when they refund the rent.
3. Try to install security doors. If not, install anti-theft chain or anti-theft bolt on the door. Install a peeping cat's eye. Most importantly, make sure that the porch light outside your door is working properly. The light in your house is broken. You can be lazy for a month or even a year without changing the light bulb. But if the porch light outside your door is broken, please contact the property maintenance immediately. If they can't, they must repair themselves.
Never let your door be dark every night. Speaking of which, I must say that I hate the voice-activated lights that are popular now. Is it fun to go home without beating gongs and drums?
I know some girls leave the room with the door open temporarily. For example, go downstairs to take out the garbage, for example, go downstairs to get express mail. This is very, very undesirable. Even if you leave the room for only a minute, someone will take the opportunity to invade. A friend of mine left the door unlocked for two minutes when he went downstairs to take out the garbage.
When she went home again, she found that the camera on the coffee table was gone. Luckily, she may just be a shoplifter passing by. If not, what if it is a real thief? But what if it's not just theft, but also lurking in your room? The consequences are unimaginable.
When many girls start to live independently, they will find a shared room for economic or security reasons. Therefore, it is a key lesson to inspect roommates. Living in the same room, it is only a small problem that two people will have friction because of different living habits. If you find a roommate who will endanger your own safety, you will be in big trouble.
Please be sure to choose a roommate who has a proper career. Choose a roommate who has no major bad hobbies, such as drinking and gambling. If you are a girl, please don't share a room with a single man under any circumstances.
Promiscuous roommates are absolutely not allowed! Third, make an agreement with your roommate. Don't bring the opposite sex home easily. If you have a stable boyfriend, you must tell him in advance. You can't keep your boyfriend overnight when his condition is not stable enough and you know it yourself. These should be discussed in advance and the articles of association should be listed. If your roommate thinks you are making a mountain out of a molehill, you should consider changing roommates.
Regardless of your roommate's personality, please install a door lock or bolt in your room, and don't give the key to the other party.
6. Don't bring people home casually, especially the opposite sex. Don't bring anyone home casually, whether it's your suitor, your new boyfriend, let alone a net friend. It's always right to close the door before you determine a person's family status and personality.
Third, information security.
It must be said that information security, especially network information security, is one of the problems that can endanger real security. That's why I started writing this long microblog. After surfing the internet for many years, I found that there were so many girls who were not caring.
1. Try to send the package to the company instead of home when shopping online. In any case, it is not a good thing for single women to let couriers visit frequently. If you have to receive or send at home, please try to choose a large courier company. To tell the truth, I personally think that it is much safer and more reliable to let a SF courier come to your door when you are alone than to let an X-link courier come to your door.
2. After online shopping, please tear up or blacken your express bill completely, and then discard it. It's not just a courier. Including all letters and bills involving your personal information. Such as credit card bills, utilities bills, bank card bills and so on. In fact, I strongly suggest that you burn these things or destroy them with a shredder.
Some sister papers will say that it is too difficult to tear the express bill off the box! I know that many people who throw away the courier and boxes directly are lazy for this reason, so I recommend the seal that hides private information, stick the seal on the courier and cover all the information. You can find it by searching Taobao. It's only tens of dollars. Buy a peace of mind.
3. I really want to mark it in bright red-please pay attention to the security of your network information!
Over the years, I have seen many girls unscrupulously expose their private information on the Internet. Which campus do you live in, which school do you go to, which unit do you work in, and which club do you often go to for fitness? Even which restaurant you like to go to for lunch, what time you take the bus every day, how much is your monthly salary, how many square meters of your house, how much is your down payment, and how much is your loan.
Every time I see such a girl, I really want to raise my forehead and say, girl, can you have some snacks? Do you know that if I were a pervert, I would kidnap you now just for fun? You put all the details of your life and your schedule online without reservation, and I can make a perfect plan to rob, kidnap or even kill you without following you, girl!
Fourth, other details and emergencies.
1. Find your door key before going upstairs or in the elevator, and find your car key before going downstairs or in the elevator. Don't stand in front of the door looking for your keys for a long time, especially at night, and don't stay alone in the empty parking lot.
The girl driving immediately locks the car and drives out of the parking lot as soon as possible. It's silly to sit in the car, make up, take photos, and call to sort out bags and bills.
3. Don't show your wealth. Women living alone should not frequently wear expensive and dazzling clothes to go in and out alone. Don't brag with irrelevant people. You really have money. It's your bad luck that someone robbed you. You have no money at all. I'm sorry to say that you deserve it.
If someone accosts you or looks at you maliciously in the elevator upstairs, press the wrong floor and then leave his sight and take the next elevator home. Believe me, your beauty is far less easily forgotten than the other person is not a good person or a rogue.
5. If there are electrical appliances or broken facilities at home, you can contact the property. If the property is not, for example, household appliances, be sure to find official maintenance personnel. Don't ask someone from a roadside shop to fix it. Even the official repairman will try to find a reliable and caring man (preferably an elder) to accompany you after the agreed door-to-door time. Don't give the maintenance staff the impression that you live alone.
6. Try not to order takeout in extreme weather and late at night.
7. Don't take the stairs if you can take the elevator, especially at night.
8. Take a taxi alone at night, especially when the journey is long or the destination is remote. Before getting on the bus, take a photo or write down the car number, and send a short message to a reliable friend, telling him that you will contact him when you get home. If you can't get in touch for a long time, ask him to call the police with the car number. Single women try not to take a black car.
9. In case of power failure and other emergencies, especially at night, close the door in advance and prepare emergency lights. Keep your mobile phone or landline open and don't go out to spy at will. Control your curiosity.
Details that girls living alone need to pay attention to 2 1. Don't use home address for online shopping express delivery, choose company address, so it is not easy to disclose personal information. At the same time, try to tear up the information received on the courier box and throw it away, or buy a courier seal online, which can be coded on the courier box, so that personal information will not be seen by strangers.
2. Buy a door latch. The door bolt is a very safe thing. If you put it under the door, no matter how hard the stranger tries, he can't push it in.
3. Buy an intelligent positioning alarm. It is very practical for girls who live alone, especially when walking at night, when they meet bad people, they can directly pull down the alarm, which is very convenient, light and compact, and can be carried with the key chain in the bag.
4. Put some pairs of men's shoes at the door, or hang some men's clothes on the balcony to create the illusion that men live together. I'm sure everyone has heard of this.
5. Install a 360 visual doorbell. You can set up emergency contacts, check the situation inside and outside the door, and monitor strangers stealing things at home.
6. Standby power plug. Usually, I often use charging treasures or hair dryers, curling irons and the like at home. I will forget to unplug it when I am busy.
You can plug in the power-off plug in advance and set the power-off time of the plug to prevent fire hazards after going out.
7. When walking at night, walk in crowded places, walk by the light, don't wear headphones or look down at your mobile phone, and always be vigilant to prevent bad guys from sneaking up.
8. Take the elevator and stand on the side of the bell. If there is only one man in the elevator, don't go in. Wait until the next time there is no one or a lady.
9, the newly rented house must remember to change a new lock in case the last tenant comes back. After all, it is right for strangers to take protective measures.
After the newly rented house is cleaned, it can be fully disinfected, and at the same time, a lighting survey can be carried out to see if there is a camera in the dead corner.
10, don't take a taxi alone, try to take a taxi with your female friends. There are not a few cases in which girls have problems taking a taxi alone in life. Similarly, don't climb the mountain alone. It's best to go together, and don't go to remote places without cameras.
1 1. Keep the phone numbers of the landlord, the property and the nearby police. If there is any emergency, they can also get to the scene in time.
12, the windows at home are high-definition and transparent. You can stick a frosted glass film to prevent peeping, otherwise criminals will monitor your every move through the window.
13. Don't disclose your address to people who are not familiar enough. Be careful of people, especially men.
14. When things at home are broken and need to be repaired, you should find a regular maintenance company to arrange maintenance personnel to repair them. Don't close the door during maintenance. If you are afraid, you can invite some friends to stay at home that day.
15, don't panic in case of danger, always keep a cool head and take self-help measures. Panic in your head will only put you in crisis, and it will not do you any good.
Details that girls living alone need to pay attention to 3 1. Choose a relatively safe residence.
When you are in a new environment and a stranger, try to find more information on the Internet when choosing an address. You can also go to the local forum for help, mainly from the aspects of bus routes, nearby facilities, business environment, population structure and so on. When choosing a house, try to consider a closed community with good property management. Of course, not everyone can afford such a high rent, even if they live in a village in the city, it is a mixed place.
It is also necessary to compare whether the doors and windows are firm and whether criminals have the possibility of breaking into the room. For women who live alone, one of the best safety suggestions is to choose a safe place to live. As the saying goes, "prevention is better than cure", which applies to the safety of women living alone. Before moving to a new city, study the situation around the city and your home.
2, anti-wolf spray and surveillance camera can not be less.
The price of webcam is very low now. Intelligent alarm system has remote monitoring function, which is very suitable for home use. As a single woman living alone for the first time, it is best to buy a security camera to help you feel safe and deter criminals. Up to 88% thieves will not steal or attack without installing surveillance cameras at home.
These cameras can be used indoors and outdoors. Real-time video from these cameras can be viewed on mobile phones and mobile devices anywhere. So that you can find any suspicious activities without your presence. You can choose to install some affordable and easy-to-install wireless cameras in your home monitoring system.
Even if we meet some intruders who dare to expose their illegal activities under surveillance, we can pick up the anti-wolf spray at hand and subdue them from a distance, so that they will lose their fighting power instantly.
3。 Check the emergency equipment regularly.
In addition to thieves, natural disasters are also potential dangers for women living alone in new cities or apartments.
So before you move in, you can check the fire escapes and escape doors in the building. Make sure that all the doors and locks of the exits are unlocked. Know how to escape in case of fire or natural disaster.
4. Know your neighbors.
Observe first, then know your residence, and then introduce yourself to your neighbors after making sure there is no abnormality or potential danger.
This is another life tip for single women. Living alone is very different from living with parents or roommates. You must face everything by yourself. So if you have a good relationship with your neighbors, you can help each other.
It's also a good idea if you are a single mother or live alone after a breakup. You can look back and start a new life. Never be afraid of them. If possible, try to be friends with them. They can help you when you live alone.
Living alone means that no one cares about your home when you are away. But if you become good friends with your neighbors, they can look after the house for you, so that you can protect your home when you are on vacation. They will try to remind you of a serious emergency. Of course, you must be careful to disclose personal information before you fully understand them.
Lock the door when you are alone at home.
I have experienced many neighbors, probably because of different living habits. Many people's doors are always open, even in summer when words are flying all over the sky. If you are a single woman living alone, it is recommended to lock the door as soon as you get home from work.
When you live alone as a single woman, some of the most important steps to ensure safety are not always obvious, so it's best to make a list.
You can list all the most important precautions you should take at home and outside. This includes how to protect the front door, back door, windows, etc. You may need help in this area, so it is always a good idea to seek guidance from people, family members or other friends who have lived independently.
6. Don't make people think you live alone.
The Japanese always have their brains wide open. It is said that they invented a projection device, which can project the dynamic shadow of her boyfriend on the window to protect women who live alone. However, for women who live alone for the first time, there is another suggestion: don't make a big fuss about you being alone.
Most criminals and thieves look for easy targets, such as female graduates and single models. If they know that you live alone, you may face a greater risk of theft. However, there are some simple ways to make it difficult for others to find out if you live alone.
First of all, when it is dark, be sure to turn on the lights at home and outside. Thieves usually avoid brightly lit houses. This will help protect your home from being broken into and make you feel safer when you are alone at home at night. Drawing curtains at home will also make others unable to see how many people live in the house. Finally, once you make friends with people you trust, invite them to your home from time to time, so that your home looks like a busy place with many people around.
7. Take preventive measures and use your common sense.
Another way to protect yourself when you live alone is to take preventive measures and use common sense. This will help to avoid many potentially dangerous situations. Never let strangers into your home, especially when there is no one else around. Ordinary strangers are at your door, perhaps checking water meters, electricity meters and gas, or selling products. The worst purpose is to violate your body or property. Remember that water, electricity and gas can be reported directly to the door.
If you sell products, you will all refuse. If you are a villain with ulterior motives, you will choose to call the police directly and never open the door. If it is midnight, don't open the door even if you are hungry and can't order takeout. You can just leave the takeaway brother at the door and bring him in after confirming that there is no one at the door.
8. Make full use of your mobile phone.
When there is no family around, the mobile phone is very important for your safety. You can install mobile applications designed to improve security. A series of alarm applications and GPS tracking devices ensure that you can deal with any problems. Make sure your mobile phone is fully charged, especially when you go out at night.