Watching good girlfriends get married one after another, Lily figured out that this kind of boyfriend would not have a future, so she resolutely ended a relationship separately. As the saying goes: "People who are poor are three points cold, and people who are poor are seven points bitter." A man with a bad heart can't take on the obligation to give you the marriage life you want. People can be poor in body and not poor in heart. If you do nothing, you will do nothing and stick to the rules. A woman who marries such a man will suffer after all. Just like Lily's boyfriend, not only is he not self-motivated, but he also blames Lily for his obligations, saying that his chemicals are just to find a reason for his "bad heart". A "poor" man who has no responsibility and responsibility can only shirk and evade things, and he can't satisfy his wife's own marriage life without layout.
"Ma Baonan" can't give you the happiness you want, which is a traditional virtue. A man who is blindly filial to his parents can't understand his wife's hardships and grievances, which will make her feel wronged and even unable to control her marriage and happiness. Lu You and his cousin Tang Wan were childhood friends. Two people, two of a kind, got married. However, Lu You's mother didn't like this daughter-in-law, and felt that Lu You was addicted to her children's affair, which delayed her yearning for fame and fortune in the imperial examination. Because Tang Wan had been married for many years, she failed to give birth to a son and a half daughters for Lu Jia, and Lu You's mother was so strong that she asked Lu You to cancel the book. Although Lu You didn't want to, he was too filial and finally had to cancel his book. Remember, in ancient times, it was a great shame for a woman to divorce.
Even though Lu You couldn't bear to part with it, he still maintained various tangled relationships with his wife after dropping out of school, but he still had to marry another woman arranged by his mother in the face of his mother's needs. Ma Baonan of Lu You not only gambled on his marriage, but also on the happiness of his wife Tang Wan. The truly perfect man knows that the relationship between husband and wife will always come first. Only by living well in one's own small family can we ensure the harmony of the big family. Filial piety is right, but a man who listens to his parents' unscientific standards can't have it. How can a man who can't even protect his married life and small family hope that he can give you the happiness you want?