After the first chat, I contacted him again four days later because I asked him a little thing, and then I caught his attention. He may want a possibility. He was very kind to me and said he was glad to know me and hoped to communicate more.
After the second chat, he may feel a possibility. He gave me a gift "Heart", which I bounced back. I thanked him for his gift and asked him not to give me anything that looks like a "heart" in the future.
In fact, to tell the truth, after his two initiatives, my subconscious really accepted him. But my consciousness is alert and I have rebounded to his good behavior.
After the chat, my empathy began. I began to argue with him in the name of discussion, and there was a questioning tone. At that time, I could vaguely know that this was a trick of my subconscious, intended to test his character and attitude. It's a pity that he holds fast every time, and I'm patient. I began to feel "allowed", and I was a little touched, a warm current. I began to have sexual fantasies about him. When he mentioned that "many people's problems are related to sex life", I felt irritated. From the initial resistance to talk about sex to the initiative later, I made a very fast change and ended in two years.
After removing the inhibition of physiological needs, my personality began to loosen, and the shadow of sexual personality gradually dissipated. I began to chat with people with abnormal sexual psychology, and I was no longer afraid and disgusted with them. This is a windfall, thanks to his impure motives.
Later, because of a small matter, the sense of existence was frustrated. I am secretly angry with him, ready to end my relationship with him and say goodbye to him. He made some uneasy remarks, including questioning, retaining and blessing. Come over the next day and be nice to me. I ignored him for two days, and finally I ignored him again, because I felt I still had nostalgia.
Until something happened last night, I was completely disappointed. I feel that he has always been so steady and confident, interacting with me, as if playing with his collection leisurely and interestingly.
/kloc-the story of the whole process of 0/5 days is that he projected me, and I accepted his projected wish, and then I automatically generated a script from his wish. When I was directing the script, he cooperated very well, which made me feel that I was the leader of the relationship. I conquered him and finally found out that he was the real behind-the-scenes director.
To sum up, I am anti-empathetic to my counselor. Then I became interested in projection, identification, empathy and anti-communism everywhere in my life.
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Empathy and anti-communism occur in the unconscious level of counseling situations and can be blocked without deliberate constraints.
Empathy and anti-communism are the manifestations of visitors' inner scripts. Through splitting and projection, visitors force counselors to understand the psychological content of visitors, identify with the roles and tasks in the visitors' internal scripts, and intervene in the visitors' internal world.