Zhuo Lin is his wife, and also a companion to accompany him through his life. In this interview, when it comes to the reasons for getting married, Zhuo Lin gave the specific details at that time. Unexpectedly, their road to love is far from being as smooth as others thought. In everyone's opinion, Zhuo Lin and the couple must have fallen in love at first sight, but Zhuo Lin said that she didn't want to get married in the first place. What happened?
Patriotic young women go underground
One day in June 1937 1 1, a young female student, quietly lying on the yellow land, looked at the majestic Baota shan excitedly, and she breathed a sigh of relief. Yan 'an has finally arrived!
It's not easy to walk all the way. In order to avoid the enemy's pursuit, she went from Beiping to Tianjin, to Qingdao, to Jinan, and then to Xi 'an. With the help of Xi's office in Ann, she finally arrived in Yan 'an by bus and boat, and exhausted all the ways to reach her heart.
Her name is Pu Qiongying. Pu Zaiting is a patriotic industrialist and the founder of Yunnan Xuanwei Ham, which is well known. She also participated in the Northern Expedition and was even awarded the rank of Major General. Superior family conditions and correct teaching made Pu Qiongying have ambitions at an early age. In order to realize her ideal, she has developed an independent personality and never thinks that she is worse than boys.
When he grew up, Pu Qiongying was influenced and entered the physics department of the university, hoping to learn scientific and technological knowledge and become an industry. She really succeeded, becoming a Yunnan female student admitted to Peking University and making history. At that time, the physics department of Peking University was almost regarded as the exclusive place for boys, and few girls were admitted. Pu Qiongying is famous in the university circle.
"In the physics department of Peking University, it was basically boys at that time. My mother said there seemed to be only one or two girls, and she was one of them. Everyone was surprised that a girl from Yunnan went to the Physics Department of Peking University. But my mother said that at that time, they had such an idea and wanted to be industrial in the future! " She and her daughter said proudly.
However, the times did not give her such an opportunity. On June 5438+0931September 18, the Japanese Kwantung Army deliberately created an armed conflict and shelled the North Battalion of the Northeast Army of China. After the September 18th Incident, Pu Qiongying took an active part in the national salvation movement. In order to awaken her compatriots' sense of home and country, she joined the vanguard of the school, but she also became a thorn in the side of the Japanese aggressors.
There are unexpected events in the sky. 1On July 7, 937, the Lugouqiao Incident broke out. The Japanese invaders captured Beiping City and searched for patriots everywhere in the city. After bidding farewell to classmates and teachers, Pu Qiongying followed her sister Pu Daiying to Yan 'an, where she joined the Party and was admitted to Yan 'an Shanbei Public School. For the convenience of work, he changed his name to Zhuo Lin and started a new life.
I thought the days would pass so peacefully. Unexpectedly, just two years later, she met someone who had been with her all her life. This man broke her stable life and opened her heart.
If the heart is worried, the red marriage is blocked.
It was autumn in 1939. At that time, he was the political commissar of the Shanxi-Hebei-Shandong-Henan Border Base129th Division, and rushed to Yan 'an from Taihang Mountain to discuss his work. Another purpose of his trip is to find a marriage partner.
At the age of 35, he never chose to remarry after two marriages because he was busy with his own career. Although he doesn't care much about this, the party still wants to solve the lifelong event for him as soon as possible.
At that time, Zhuo Lin had graduated from Northern Shaanxi College and was assigned to work in the Shaanxi-Gansu-Ningxia Border Protection Bureau. At work, Zhuo Lin came into contact with them, and their life lines began to meet.
After spending some time with Zhuo Lin, Zhuo Lin's elegant and generous personality gradually attracted everyone's attention, and she was often invited to visit the cave where he lived. At this time, Zhuo Lin just found it interesting, which was different from other workers and peasants. That's all. As for other ideas, I haven't, but what she doesn't know is that she fell in love with her at first sight.
But he didn't show his mind to his face. He was afraid of scaring the naive girl. After all, he has been married twice, and I wonder if the other party will mind.
It was his good friend who brokered the match in this matter. He advised him to take this opportunity to come to Yan 'an for a meeting, and by the way, he mentioned his worries about the whole thing. He was neither indecisive nor coy, so he naturally agreed. He told him that he liked Zhuo Lin.
I was originally interested in Zhuo Lin, and after investigation and screening by the Party, I finally thought that Zhuo Lin and he were really suitable, but it would be better for her friends to introduce Tzu Chi to her marriage partner, which would get twice the result with half the effort. I also sent Zeng Xi, a good friend who came to Yan 'an with Zhuo Lin, to do her work.
On this day, Zhuo Lin came to Zeng's home. As soon as we met, I asked her if someone wanted to marry her and asked her if she would like to. I didn't expect it to be so direct. Zhuo Lin paused for a moment. After all, it's my daughter's house. She's a little shy. After careful consideration, she finally said she didn't want to. The reason is that she is still too young, just graduated from school and hasn't thought about getting married.
In fact, what she really thinks in her heart is that she is a highly educated person. She can't say that she is arrogant, and she doesn't mean to look down on the workers and peasants. But when two people are together, there will always be some compatible life values.
So, I want to find a partner who speaks the same language. If I, like others, find an uneducated worker and farmer to make do, my married life may not be happy. She made a decision in her mind, whether rich or poor, not to look for it, but to find one.
At that time, there was a joke in Yan 'an that two people were walking by the river. The woman is educated youth and the man is workers and peasants. The educated youth wanted to create a little romance and said, "Look! The moon in the sky is so beautiful, so beautiful! " Unexpectedly, the man didn't understand the amorous feelings, so he replied, "Isn't it the moon?" ? What is there to see? "Different levels of education make their understanding of things very different. This joke can well reflect Zhuo Lin's mentality at that time.
Seeing that Zhuo Lin didn't agree, she tried to persuade him again. Everything is very good, but Zhuo Lin has received a new education and has his own independent thoughts. She won't. It's no use trying to persuade anyone.
If you really touch your sweetheart, the tree of love will blossom and bear fruit.
Helpless, I had to tell the situation in detail, knowing that my friend had tried his best and was not reluctant, but he was not a person who was easily discouraged, so I said to cut to the chase and try to find Zhuo Lin myself.
He studied in France and the Soviet Union, attended Baye Boys' Middle School in Normandy and Oriental University in Moscow. He is not only knowledgeable, but also comparable in speech. Although he has spoken to Zhuo Lin before, he has never been so open as he is now. His personal speech had an immediate effect.
In an interview in his later years, Zhuo Lin recalled the past.
"So, I don't want to have a second chance to talk to me. Later, I said, can I talk to you? I said, yes. So we went to Zeng's home together
He said,' I am an old man, and it is very difficult to fight at the front. I want to marry you, but I talked to you and you didn't agree. I'm not very talkative. I hope you can consider this matter. I am a few years older than you, which is my shortcoming, and I hope I can make up for it in other ways. " "
Without the gentle image, sincere attitude and quiet but scholarly manner, Zhuo Lin realized that the man in front of him was a man with stories and connotations, and Zhuo Lin's closed heart slowly opened. Opened this girl's heart.
Speaking of which, I seem to think of something interesting. The old man smiled and then recalled:
"He talked to me twice: once about him; Talk about his hope for the second time. Look, I think this guy is fine. He has knowledge, yes. I think we have to get married sooner or later. I'm 23 years old. I used to know him, and now he comes to me personally, and he speaks so sincerely, so I agreed. " In this way, Mr. and Mrs. Zhuo Lin were officially married. You know, they only knew each other for a month.
Of course, marriage is no joke. Although Zhuo Lin promised to get married, he still had some bad feelings in his heart. She added: "But on one condition, I will leave Yan 'an immediately after I get married, because I am afraid that others will laugh at me for marrying a local, so I agreed." In this way, Mr. and Mrs. Zhuo Lin were officially married.
Getting married would not be a big deal, and the conditions at that time did not allow it. Of course, they don't care much. Just in the cave in northern Shaanxi, in front of the humble loess house, two people got married.
"Later, in front of Mao Cave in Yang Jialing, they set two tables and said,' Today we are going to eat! "Let's all come to dinner!" Didn't say anything about getting married
At that time, he said to me,' You know, everyone will have food. Now I will build a cave for you. After dinner, you go back together and get married. There were two couples, one was Kong Yuan and the other was Xu Ming.
Reluctant and unprepared, I vacated the cave where they lived for us, and we got married in their cave. "
On the wedding day, in addition to, also came, and his wife Liu Ying, and his wife Cai Chang. The matchmaker cooks in person. The staple food is small rice, and the dishes are braised pork and boiled cabbage. Although the food was average, all the guests present were very happy.
Another interesting thing happened that night. According to tradition, when someone makes a toast, the groom must make a toast back. On that day, no one could refuse. Everyone drank a toast, but he was not drunk. Everyone is surprised at his capacity for drinking. After the wedding, Liu Ying sighed to her husband: "What a big drink!"
I didn't expect to answer with a smile: "There is a fake inside!" It turned out that he was afraid of drinking too much, so he got a bottle of boiled water and replaced the wine with water, which made him have the illusion that he didn't drink thousands of cups in front!
Beautiful moonlight and bright starry sky are gentle and simple caves, which seem to bless the couple. Everything looks so quiet and peaceful.
The stars were bright last night, but there was a cool breeze at midnight. Our banquet is on the side of Hualou Temple and the east of the county. Without Cai Feng's wings, I feel the harmonious heartbeat of the sacred unicorn. Li Shangyin's? Untitled is a better evaluation of this marriage. The love between husband and wife needs no definition, let alone rhetoric. There is no romance of vows of eternal love, no bizarre and beautiful plot, only spiritual collision and brave and direct true feelings. Since then, the two have worked together for a lifetime, and they have been going through thick and thin.
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