When the child has made great progress, parents should not doubt the child by their own feelings and guesses, but should communicate with the child euphemistically, ask teachers and classmates, and finally make a judgment based on all kinds of information. If parents accuse their children of cheating before verification, and then blame and criticize him, it will hurt their self-esteem and cause family estrangement. Moreover, if parents' guesses are inconsistent with the facts, children will naturally not accept their parents' criticism and even lose trust in their parents.
If children really cheat, parents should be patient.
It is human nature to make mistakes. If the child really cheated in the exam, parents should patiently educate the child and give the child a chance to correct it. Parents should let their children know the importance of doing things with sincerity and integrity, encourage their children to apologize to teachers and classmates and resolutely correct them. In addition, we should pay attention to the methods of educating children, and parents should never rudely scold or even beat their children.
If parents misunderstand their children, they should be brave enough to apologize to them.
In the process of getting along with children, parents will inevitably make mistakes in words and deeds. At this time, as parents, we must frankly admit our mistakes and don't use inappropriate methods to safeguard our authority. Because children also need to be respected, more importantly, parents can set an example for their children, which helps to cultivate their spirit of bravely admitting mistakes. Such parents can win the respect and understanding of their children. On the other hand, if parents know and proudly deny it, they will not only lose their children's respect, but also make them form wrong ideas; The strong are not responsible for their wrong words and deeds, and the weak can only submit to humiliation. This is very bad for children's growth.