Li Zong didn't work for a long time in university, and his parents didn't have much savings, because all three children went to university and had to pay off their debts after graduation, so their lives were very tight.
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In the face of the future mother-in-law's request that she must buy a house, Lin' an is very helpless. He doesn't want to lose his beloved girlfriend because he doesn't have a house, but the pressure of life makes him at a loss.
In order to buy a house and get married as soon as possible, in addition to her main job, Li Nan also takes private jobs after work and runs around every day. Moreover, in order to save money to buy a house, he only eats five steamed buns every day.
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Li Nan thinks that if she works hard and saves money, she can marry Ningning, but Ningning's mother doesn't want to wait any longer. She hopes that her daughter will marry a man with a house at once.
Li Nan's family was also wronged by this woman's request. No matter how humble the man's family is, she said that she would definitely buy a house in the future. Ningning's mother finally changed her mind and didn't want her daughter to marry a man who needed to rent a house temporarily.
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Li Ning's parents came from their hometown to meet Ningning's widowed mother and gave her a family heirloom, but they could not persuade Ningning's mother to marry her daughter to Li Nan.
Ningning's mother has been living in a rented house with Ningning, and she has had enough of the unstable days of being driven away by the landlord at any time.
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A woman is running around with her daughter, hoping to have a home of her own. This desire is normal, but she should not pin her hopes on her future son-in-law.
Knowing that the man's family can't buy a house, but also forcing the other party to meet this requirement is internal friction for a relationship, and the feelings of two people will change.
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Ningning's mother is very realistic. She said that two children from poor families together will only add to the pain, and no one can help anyone. Whether men or women get married, if the other half has good economic conditions, it will sometimes be easier for the poorer one, but not everyone can. Nowadays, many people want to find someone who is similar to or even better than themselves when they get married. At least two families have an accident, and they will not be helpless together.
Marriage needs to consider more practical problems, no matter how good the relationship is, if there is no money, sometimes very small things will crush this relationship.
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Ningning's mother was moved by the sincerity of her male parents, and her attitude was relaxed. However, when she went to attend her daughter's wedding, her sister-in-law ran away. Because my daughter married a rich man, my sister-in-law and her family lived a similar life, but now because my daughter climbed a tall branch and showed off in front of herself and her daughter. Mother Ningning was stimulated and thought of the poverty of her future son-in-law. She was very angry and made an appointment at once.
Li Nan's sister asked Ningning's mother why her attitude had changed. Ningning's mother ignored her and said that her daughter would not marry a man without a house. She said to the man opposite, "If you don't buy a house within a month, break up immediately."
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Originally, the two families agreed to let the young couple rent a house and get married first, and then slowly try to buy a house after a few years. Ningning's mother is not as good as her sister-in-law's now. Now she just wants her daughter to get rid of her poor boyfriend so that she can find a man with a good wedding room.
Li Nan's sister said that Ningning's mother was a snob, and the experience of the older generation made them only consider reality. There is nothing wrong with this, but everyone's position is different. Only she's mother is obvious, but Li Nan didn't know the situation clearly. If the woman has to meet the requirements beyond her ability, such a marriage is not appropriate. Why not let the girls find a better man, continue to work hard to accumulate capital, and then consider getting married?