However, after marriage, if the husband and wife still sleep in separate rooms, their feelings will be diluted. So, what about housing allocation? Sleep? How long can a person endure? The story of a middle-aged man tells you.
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When Brother Bao got married, the couple had a good relationship. In life, his wife's meticulous care always makes him feel very warm, and Bao Ge's intimacy also makes his wife feel very lucky. During that time, the love between husband and wife has always been the envy of others, but nothing is static, and so is marriage.
Not long after the marriage, Bao Ge's wife accidentally found out that she was pregnant. He learned from the Internet that one month before labor, pregnant women were afraid to bump into them. In desperation, Brother Bao had to move to the study by himself. Brother Bao, who has long been used to being with his wife, often suffers from insomnia at night, so he secretly goes back to accompany his wife for many nights.
Before long, the child was born. In order to give children a bright future, Brother Bao began to work hard. Brother Bao's efforts have been recognized by the leaders, not only giving him a promotion, but also increasing his salary. Therefore, Brother Bao is under great pressure, and he also has a headache in his life.
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After the baby was born, he lived with Bao Ge and his wife. Every night, my wife gets up to nurse and change diapers, which will affect Brother Bao's rest, and sometimes the child will cry late. Because of lack of sleep, Brother Bao frequently made mistakes at work the next day. The leader reminded Brother Bao of this several times. In order to cherish this job, he went back to his study again.
Sleeping in separate rooms made Bao Ge unaccustomed, but because of his children, the burden of life was on him, so Bao Ge had to move back to the bedroom until the weekend. When there are no children, the husband and wife can still talk late, but with children, Brother Bao finds that the topic of himself and his wife is children, and their feelings are much lighter than before.
When the child was two or three years old, Bao Ge and his wife decided to vacate the study for the child to live in, and the husband and wife lived together in the bedroom. Originally, the couple thought that their previous feelings were somewhat different because of their children. Now that the children can be independent, the feelings lost by the two people will definitely be recovered when they live together again.
But some things are lost, and sleeping in separate beds is not only the distance, but also the temperature between two people's hearts. On the first night, the two found it difficult to adapt to each other. My wife suspects that Brother Bao snores while sleeping, and Brother Bao suspects that his wife always likes to catch quilts when sleeping. So, they only stayed for one night, and then they chose to sleep in separate rooms.
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Originally, husband and wife seldom quarrel, but now they often quarrel over trivial matters, and sometimes there will be a long cold war. Brother Bao has also begun to have the habit of not coming home at night.
In the end, Brother Bao didn't resist the temptation of the outside world, and something happened to proper relationship. He and his wife originally wanted to save this relationship, but after communication, they found that there was no need to continue this relationship. Because of long-term non-communication, they have already lost their original feelings.
Do not believe, the husband and wife who sleep in separate rooms, the man's endurance limit is actually like this. Sleeping in separate rooms can be days, months or years, but no matter how long it takes, there is only one ending for couples to sleep in separate beds, that is, their feelings eventually break down and there is no room for recovery.
In life, if you don't want a rift in your feelings, husband and wife must not sleep in separate beds, because sleeping in separate beds will not only open the distance in space, but also open the distance between two souls. I hope everyone's marriage and love can keep the innocence when they first met.