One: Enrich children's spiritual world. In fact, we can often see Yi Nengjing and her children outside. She will often take her children to bookstores to read books, go to art exhibitions, appreciate art and go to theaters to cultivate their artistic sentiments, which can enrich their spiritual world. I can also learn more about the outside world. Even when I was young, I didn't know much about it, but it was all spiritual food.
Two: Don't put pressure on children. Yi Nengjing's thinking as a mother is very penetrating, because she once shared this view on social platforms, that is, after parents sacrifice for their children, they can't bring pressure to their children, so that they can bear the guilt of childhood, and think that it is because parents are so hard that parents should not give up their lives for their children. It is children who teach their parents to give willingly.
Three: respect their preferences. Yi Nengjing and her ex-husband have a son named Harry, and Qin Hao has a little daughter, Mi Li. As a boy, Harry's style is sometimes more neutral. Maybe we don't quite understand it, but Yi Nengjing respects children's thoughts and preferences, and won't interfere in their lives, so that he can bravely be his truest self.
The life of parents and children should be complete. Parents should not lose themselves for their children. Similarly, when children grow up, they will have their own lives and live the life they want.