The man lamented that the "motivation inquiry table" made us "hide".
"The man asks you out" is a stunt when it comes to the name.
As soon as Abortion mentioned this form in the office, several female colleagues immediately gathered around and pointed to this motivation investigation form.
As an experienced person, Kobayashi spoke first: "It's really important to ask you out in advance. If you really care about the first date, you must always be prepared. Calling people temporarily is not only a matter of motivation, but also a disrespect for people. Girls don't even have a chance to dress up. "
Lynn pays more attention to the steps after eating, whether the boys will send you home at last, and whether they will send you a text message after separation. These details are enough to show that he is not interested in you.
"Details, details, or details."
Lynn forwarded the motive inquiry form to several single girlfriends: "I have to remind them to be careful."
After saying his word, the elder sister, who had been sitting motionless in the corner, said, "We had a good time. We have seen it and counted it. Can such a thing be taken seriously? "
In her opinion, there are too many formal uncertainties, and wily men should be excluded. Otakus who don't play cards according to common sense don't make reference. Men who have seen the forms online are more likely to engage in tricks.
"It is impossible to prevent." The elder sister finished her statement.
No matter what the evaluation is, the reality is that the "Men's Motivation Inquiry Form" is still being forwarded crazily in Weibo, and more and more people begin to comment on the form.
MM sighs: it's a good form and needs in-depth study. Be careful when you go out on a date in the future.
The man lamented that he would be "hidden" if he was not careful.
Men have to give women a sense of security before they can date.
Is it accurate for psychologists to interpret the form?
I sent the form to Xu Daiyue, a national second-level psychological consultant in Deep Blue Psychological Consulting Studio, and asked him the most concerned question: Is it allowed? Xu Daiyue's answer is: yes or no, it will be more entertaining.
"Any test form, if it has not been tested for reliability and validity, can only be used as a reference, and cannot be a rigorous and scientific test."
In the training of communication norms, greeting afterwards may be just a courtesy.
"In short, this look-up table can be used as a reference for communication and dating. It provides a way of thinking from which people can think. However, there are many factors that affect the motivation of each behavior. If it is rigidly applied to everyone, it will definitely produce deviations. It should be further combined with personal specific communication. The reason why this watch is talked about is that the motives reflected in the details are really close to real life, which makes people scream easily. But when it comes to accuracy, it can only be one of many possibilities, because there are too many easily influenced factors.
Take the first date as an example. From the psychological point of view, unless the relationship is very special, the early date is always more sincere than the temporary date, but some special circumstances cannot be ruled out. For example, a boy wants to date a girl for a long time, but he has been afraid to try. Suddenly I saw a post encouraging my secret admirer, or heard an impassioned love song, and my inner energy accumulated instantly, so I made a decision to date.
From the perspective of attention, people always pay more attention to what they care about. So, after returning home, boys will send text messages or call to say hello. This careful performance is a reflection of his inner concern for you. However, it is also necessary to eliminate the interference caused by their own personality characteristics or family background, if boys have good interpersonal analysis skills. "Xu Daiyue said.