2. Counselors should take a positive attitude towards help seekers, which requires counselors to attach importance to the strengths of help seekers and use their own positive factors to promote their growth;
3. Psychological counselors should be able to "fall in love" with patients, that is, they can experience the spiritual world of others, as if this is an ability of their own spiritual world. If you can't do this, the other person will think that you don't know him, don't understand what he is going through, or don't care about his affairs at all;
4. The attitude should be sincere and credible. The counselor should talk openly with the client and express his thoughts directly, instead of letting the client guess the real meaning of the counselor's words or imagine whether everything he does contains any other information. On the one hand, the consultant should let the helper treat himself truly. On the other hand, the counselor should treat the helper sincerely;