But in fact, people are good at being bullied and Mashan is riding. Many times, I am sorry to refuse to give others a chance to push their luck. After all, for some people, your shyness will not win their gratitude, but will only make them feel that everything is taken for granted.
In Fate Loves Me, Chen Xinyi is a person who caters to others in the company. However, her kindness did not win the respect of her colleagues. Instead, everyone turned to her for help. Over time, her colleagues got used to asking Chen Xinyi for help.
Because of this, Chen Xinyi lost a lot of free time. Basically, when others are playing, she is working overtime or helping others to work overtime.
In fact, there are many people like Chen Xinyi in reality. They will not refuse others, or dare not refuse others. But why is this? People live for themselves all their lives, and sometimes they have to express their ideas boldly. When they refuse, they will not regret it.
Shi Ailin just doesn't understand this truth, so she will encounter so many troubles, and because she doesn't know how to refuse, her relationship with her sister-in-law will get worse and worse until she turns into the present mutual disregard.
Shi Ailin is a very kind person, but her kindness can almost be said to be cowardice. Before getting married, she didn't take it to heart, although she would suffer some small losses when getting along with others. Not only that, she always comforted herself that suffering is a blessing.
But when she got married, Shi Ailin realized that losing money is a blessing, and losing money can also be a blessing. This is not her understanding, but she dare not refuse again and again and dare not say anything, which will only make her feel wronged, injured and used.
In the eyes of others, Shi Ailin not only has a good temper, but also has a very outstanding working ability. She has been a model of a good student since she was a child, with good grades. She went to a famous university, and within a few years after graduation, she could afford her own house.
I have my own house, a stable job, and I am still young. In the eyes of her peers, Shi Ailin is basically a winner in life. However, it seems that women with good temper are always attracted to men with opposite personalities.
Liao Shoucheng's character and Shi Ailin are completely opposite. He doesn't like down-to-earth work, and his mind is more on eating, drinking and having fun. However, the two men met magically. Not only that, Shi Ailin was deeply infatuated with Liao Shoucheng.
Soon, the two fell in love. Liao just wanted to fall in love because of the cost, and gradually moved his true feelings. In this way, two people have been in love for several years, and it is time to talk about marriage.
Liao Shoucheng has a younger sister, Liao Xuemei. Liao is quite satisfied with her sister-in-law Shi Ailin. The reason for satisfaction is actually very simple, because Shi Ailin looks easy to talk to, and her family is in good condition and rich.
Later, Liao Shoucheng and Shi Ailin chose a date to get married. After marriage, Shi Ailin and her mother-in-law have no contradiction, but they don't like Liao as a sister-in-law. Although Liao and Liao Shoucheng are very similar in temperament, Liao likes to take advantage of her family. She idles around all day and comes back crying when she has no money.
Shi Ailin said that her mother-in-law had urged her sister-in-law to go out and look for a job, and her sister-in-law did find a job, but she didn't have much money for a month. Shi Ailin is very puzzled by her sister-in-law's work. She doesn't understand why her sister-in-law is willing to work for such a small salary.
Later, Shi Ailin understood that her sister-in-law was not interested in work, but in the surrounding environment. Sister-in-law is a fun-loving person. There are many interesting places near where she works, and she basically stays at home until midnight after work.
Because she was worried that it was not safe for her sister-in-law to go home at night, and that the house before Shi Ailin's marriage was close to her sister-in-law's work, her in-laws took the initiative to talk to Shi Ailin.
Originally, Shi Ailin was a little hesitant, because she didn't like this sister-in-law, who often took advantage of her. She felt that lending her house to her sister-in-law might cause her a lot of trouble.
However, Eileen Shi's personality determines her decision. Under the soft touch of her parents-in-law and sister-in-law, Shi Ailin still lent her house to her sister-in-law, and the loan was for three years. In the past three years, Shi Ailin actually looked for her sister-in-law, but every time she didn't speak, her sister-in-law blocked her words back. She was embarrassed to keep asking for a house, so she kept putting it off.
Originally, two people could get along like this until Shi Ailin overheard a phone call from her sister-in-law. She said on the phone, "Come to my house for a party tomorrow, and you can play as you like. Why are you worried about all this? I'll let you pay for this dirty house. " I'm not worried about what you're worried about. Don't talk so much nonsense. Anyway, the house is not mine ... "
Shi Ailin listened to her words and only felt heartache and anger. She finally realized that pandering to others would only hurt herself. Not only that, but she also recalled sitting around in her sister-in-law's house and seeing that the house was damaged in various ways, only feeling really stupid.
So, the next day, Shi Ailin came to her sister-in-law's residence. In the corridor, she heard a very noisy sound. When she opened the door, she saw a mess: the house was a mess and there was some paint on the wall.
Seeing that her house was destroyed in this way, Shi Ailin was very angry and shouted at her sister-in-law: "All right, move out for me at once." Sister-in-law obviously didn't take Shi Ailin's words seriously. She replied lazily, "Sister-in-law, I have lived in the house for three years. Are you ashamed to take it back? "
When Shi Ailin heard this, she just thought it was funny. Are you embarrassed? What is she embarrassed about? So, she shouted loudly: "I bought the house. If I tell you to move it, you should move it at once. Do you want me to call security? " The people who just attended the party have slipped away. Sister-in-law had never seen Shi Ailin so angry, and finally she moved out despondently.
In fact, there are still many Shi Ailin in real life. They just don't understand cowardice and tolerance for their loved ones, but such an approach can't solve the fundamental problem at all. Women still have to have a little temper and must learn to safeguard their rights and interests.
In Messi's view, both men and women should seriously consider the request for borrowing money, and even relatives should learn to refuse.
Everyone should know that it is their duty to get along with each other and help each other. In life, it's not that you can't help others, but that you help others and let them know your bottom line; As a person who is helped, you should remember that there is nothing wrong with helping or not, and don't take others' efforts for granted. # Emotion #