I had a classmate before, who was particularly disgusted with blind date. Then she couldn't stand the urge at home and reluctantly went on a blind date. She didn't wash her hair, didn't prepare anything, and greeted her with a dull face. Her original intention was to let the other party abandon her in order to quickly end the embarrassing date, only to find that the other party was her own dish ... but she regretted it too late, and she didn't perform well on the first date. When she came back, the other party refused her.
2. When you meet for the first time, whether you are interested or not, you should behave well. What if the other person is better than you think? What if he looks ten times better than in the picture? What if he is dull on the internet but humorous in reality? What if he has a good brother to introduce you to? So put on makeup, dress up and go on a blind date with full enthusiasm! !
Don't really treat blind date as blind date. What does this mean?
Just don't show too much purpose at first, don't ask many questions in the form of investigation, and don't let people introduce themselves as soon as they come up. It's best to make your acquaintances look romantic and accidental.
Let me give you an example.
Actually, I think blind date is very utilitarian. I don't advise you to make the blind date chat look like a blind date.
For example, you don't need to introduce yourself when you come up, because the other person already knows your basic information before. Please assume that you already know each other. You could say that.
"Qin Si, nice to meet you. I wish you a happy May Day holiday. "
"Look at your circle of friends. How was it?"
This will also make the other party relax instantly, which is much better than investigating the household registration problem.
Most blind date people are passive, so if you like each other, please take the initiative.
Generally speaking, if you are particularly active emotionally, you will choose to find your own boyfriend and girlfriend, and you may have already taken off the bill. Therefore, blind date people are generally emotionally passive, either shy and inexperienced, or have no strong emotional needs. For such people, you can't expect them to contact you with enthusiasm and enthusiasm. Even if they like you, they may not take action because they don't know what to talk to you about.