From the moment a girl decides to be a mother, all kinds of dangers will come before her. Why do many women have insufficient blood when they are old? This is related to the loss of blood during childbirth and the exhaustion of vitality. Motherly love is selfless and great. After all, in order to give birth to offspring, mothers are in danger of losing their lives.
Nearly twenty years ago, there was a 35-year-old mother who was in danger of having not only one child, but also five children. But she succeeded, successfully gave birth to China's first quintuplets. Mother's name is Wang Cuiying, from Cangzhou, Hebei. She had an operation because of abdominal edema. However, when she returned to the hospital one month after the operation, she was told that she was pregnant, and it was a rare quintuplet.
At that time, our country had no experience in successfully delivering quintuplets, so the doctors were shocked. This should be a happy news, but it worried Wang Cuiying at that time. In order to give birth to a baby smoothly without threatening her health, the doctor advised her to abort two or three fetuses to ensure that the rest of the children could be born smoothly.
But as a mother, how could Wang Can Cui Ying be willing to abort any one? Every child is her own flesh and blood, and they should enjoy the right to come into this world equally. Therefore, Wang Cuiying, who chose to keep all her children, experienced more hardships than ordinary pregnant women throughout her pregnancy.
Five children are getting bigger and bigger in the belly, and she often feels chest tightness and asthma. When she was more than three months pregnant, she couldn't sleep on her stomach. When she is really tired, she can sit down and take a nap. This serious lack of sleep lasted until delivery.
After more than seven months of persistence, five children finally came to this world safely, three men and two women, weighing about three pounds. This also means that during the last pregnancy, Wang Cuiying has to bear 15 Jin every day, which is a painful thing for her.
After the successful birth, the premature baby was sent to the incubator, and under the careful care of the hospital, five little lives survived tenaciously. However, this incident not only brought joy to Wang Cuiying's family, but also meant the hardship of the parenting process. After all, for this poor family, the burden of five children is even worse.
The children's grandmother once suggested sending several children away, but Wang Cuiying strongly opposed it. How can she watch her own flesh and blood be given away to others?
Five newborn children also face many dangers because of premature birth. The second child was diagnosed with necrotizing colitis shortly after birth. The doctor told the Wang Cuiying family that the child can only live for six hours at most without surgery, and there is a great risk of becoming an unhealthy child after success. After the father made a decisive decision, the operation was successful and the second child gradually recovered.
However, not long after the successful operation of the second child, the third child and the fourth child developed jaundice and heart problems. Fortunately, under the careful care of medical staff, the children gradually recovered. In order to take care of the children, Wang Cuiying's family has little rest time. They take turns changing diapers and feeding their children every day.
In order to take good care of her five children, Wang Cuiying asked her relatives and friends to take care of her at night and pick her up during the day. Under the great economic pressure of raising five children, the father of the child went out to work alone to earn money to support the family, while Wang Cuiying stayed at home to take care of the children. Fortunately, after the media reports, many caring people in the society took the initiative to donate money to their families, which made the burden on their families much lighter.
In the past 20 years, all five children in Wang Cuiying have successfully graduated from high school and been admitted to an ideal university. These five children didn't live up to the expectations of the society and parents, and their academic performance was very good, which really made Wang Cuiying satisfied. However, the tuition fees for going to college and the children's wedding events have become a huge source of pressure for their family. I hope the society can continue to care for this powerful family.
More one-child families are beginning to consider having a second child, but they must think carefully before giving birth. After all, it will have a great impact on the whole family. Although the cost of raising children is getting higher and higher, today's children are more mentally and emotionally dissatisfied than the demand for food and clothing. Parents want their children to become adults in the future, so it is the greatest responsibility for their children to be more cautious and less impulsive in the choice of having a second child.