For most people, marrying the opposite sex after a certain age and having one or two children is an established life trajectory. But there are also some families where couples choose not to have children for various reasons. This kind of family is called "Dink Family".
1. Actually, having a baby is a very troublesome thing. From pregnancy to children getting married and having children, parents need to do their best and treat them wholeheartedly. By choosing to be a dink, couples can concentrate on their work and life without facing the pressure of having children, which can not only reduce the pressure, but also spend more time alone with each other, immerse themselves in sweetness and enhance their happiness.
Old people may have no one to support them when they are old.
Because there are no children, there is probably no one around to support themselves in their later years. When people are old, they are inconvenient to move, their health will get worse and worse, and the probability of getting sick will increase greatly. If you are sick, you can only take care of each other by two people most of the time, and you may envy old people with children.
Grandma Wang and Grandpa Wang were the earliest Dink families, and now they are over seventy years old. Through understanding, the husband and wife live a very good life, eating and drinking every day, often going out for walks and sports, and occasionally traveling. Accompanied by the two, they still play as they did when they were young, and they have deep feelings. Grandma Wang doesn't feel lonely either. She thought that the pressure and troubles of not having children for decades were easy. She and her wife are very happy, and she has no regrets about choosing Dink.
Similarly, Granny Liu of Dink, her feelings are completely opposite to those of Granny Wang. Grandma Liu's wife, who was in her seventies, died of illness a few years ago and spent a lot of money on medical treatment. Grandma Liu's brothers and sisters also died one after another. Gradually, it is difficult for her to find someone to talk to in her ordinary life, and life is even more difficult. Her life is lonely and helpless, and a person often regrets and sighs when facing the empty family: I wish I had a child at that time. Choosing Dink became her most regretful thing.