Mom, in a word, can you tell whether a man is sincere or false?

Women are afraid to see love rat, while men are afraid to see love rat. In the final analysis, they are afraid that their sincere efforts will be regarded as jokes by the other party, and what they are most afraid of is falsehood. As Duras wrote in Lover, if you love, please love deeply until the day when you can't love again. But knowing people, knowing faces, not knowing hearts. Many people talk about love, but in fact, all they want is to use it. Emotionally, children don't want to be interfered and influenced by their parents. Although we advocate freedom of love and marriage, parents' opinions and experience can really keep us from being cheated and avoid detours. Ayue once thought that parents didn't understand the love of young people at all and would only interfere with their feelings by force. But it turns out that ginger is still old and spicy. My mother's words try to find out whether men really love Ah Yue, so that Ah Yue can avoid being cheated and hurt.

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Ayue's family is very good. Her father is a businessman and she runs a big company. She manages hundreds of people, and her mother is a high school teacher. Ayue is an only child. She was held in the hands of her parents since she was a child and treated like a little princess. Her parents gave her everything she wanted since she was a child. Because of her parents' doting, her temper is getting bigger and bigger, just like the replica of "The Savage Princess". As she grew older, she became more and more rebellious. She always felt that her parents didn't understand her and wanted to impose their ideas on herself.

Especially in terms of feelings, her parents were strict with her since childhood, not giving her puppy love. Even in college, her parents wouldn't let her fall in love, for fear that she would be cheated. Ayue became increasingly dissatisfied with her parents. The little friends around me talked about love again and again. O month only envy. After all, she is still studying, asking her parents for money. She dare not disobey her parents' orders.

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It was not until after graduation that Ah Yue began to fall in love. When I first fell in love, Ayue met a poor boy. His name is He Shan. They are colleagues of a group in the company. Usually, they often have some work intersections. As time went on, Ah Yue began to like the poor boy. He Shan is a good-natured person. Sometimes A Yue loses his temper, and he just giggles happily and lets the other side beat and scold. Besides parents, mountains and rivers are the best for Ayue. Ayue took the initiative to confess to Shanhe, and they were together. She thought he was the only one who would never marry in her life, but she didn't expect this relationship to be strongly opposed by Ayue's parents from the beginning.

Mom thinks that the idea of getting married, whether it's yue or yue, is irrational and hasty. Ah Yue was just impulsive. Before getting along well with the mountains and rivers, she rashly said, "I won't marry unless he marries." She didn't think it through at all. Once she marries hastily, there will be conflicts in the future and the marriage will not last long. Moreover, the reason why He Shan likes Ah Yue and puts up with her big miss temper is just to value their property-three villas, two facades, two ordinary houses and a big company. Whether this feeling is true or not remains to be tested.

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Mother said to Ah Yue, "If he can stand my temptation, I won't object to you. If he can't stand it, I definitely don't agree with you. " My mother went to see the mountains and rivers in her home. She came straight to the point and said, "Give you 500 thousand and leave my daughter, okay?" If you insist on marrying her, we'll let her sign a prenuptial property agreement with you, and you won't get a penny! After you get married, I will strictly control my daughter's pocket money. If she wants to spend money, she has to earn it herself! "

After listening to this sentence, He Shan showed a hesitant look on his face. He thought for a long time before slowly saying, "Auntie, Ah Yue is used to high consumption. With my salary level, I can't afford Ayue. I will listen to you and accept the 500,000 you gave me as emotional compensation for so many years! " Taking his word, Ah Yue, who was eavesdropping outside the door, rushed into the room and pointed to He Shan's nose and said, "You are an asshole. How can I turn a blind eye to you? " . Do I, our relationship is worth hundreds of thousands? Forget it, we won't give you any money! "

He Shan also wanted to explain that she only fooled her mother in order to get the down payment for the wedding room, but Ah Yue didn't listen to this explanation and decided to break up.

Conclusion: Love doesn't happen overnight. Sometimes we start a relationship that may not work out on impulse. Sometimes we get carried away by love, lose our minds and make wrong decisions. Just like Ayue in the article, she thought she had found her soul mate for life and refused to listen to her parents' dissuasion. But in the end, her mother found out the true face of mountains and rivers, and Ayue discovered that she was too stupid and naive to be cheated and used, and almost made something that she regretted for life. As the saying goes, if you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer. Young people never feel that they are wrong. Parents can't keep up with the times and their own ideas. The concept of parents is out of date, but after all, elders have rich life experience and ability to recognize people. We should take full account of their suggestions and opinions. To say the least, our marriage would be very happy without the support of our parents.